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Well those are the good friends. The ones who are there in good times, in bad times, and the fucking worst.

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Gentle yet fragile ///// instagram

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I mean yeah communication is key but so is a sense of understanding. Because if I tell you something and you're not willing to see where I'm coming from, then what's the point of telling you anything.

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Jane Austen - "Sense and Sensibility"

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this photo of jodie comer

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ZENDAYA’S ACTING… GIVE HER ALL THE AWARDS

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DO NOT SCROLL PAST. THIS IS IMPORTANT FOR ALL YOU PEOPLE WITH AN EATING DISORDER READING THIS.

I was scrolling through the anorexia tag on Tumblr, just to see how different I feel about it now that I’m in recovery than before. I was horrified by the things I saw.

I understand when people post things as a coping mechanism. That is okay. A lot of people with eating disorders don’t have anyone else to support their mental health.

But what is NOT OKAY is the meanspo, thinspo, sweetspo, and other forms of encouragement for anorexic behaviors.

If you post thinspo/meanspo/sweetspo and say it’s “for yourself,” take that and shove it up your ass. I understand you have an eating disorder and it’s hard to live with one, but an ed is NO EXCUSE to encourage others to destroy themselves. It’s sick. It’s vile.

You might think that it’s alright because the people who see your posts are already sick. WRONG. They are only going to get worse. They could die and you could be partly responsible for encouraging the eating disorder which was responsible for their death. It’s NEVER too late to turn back and seek out help for an eating disorder. NEVER THINK FOR ONE MINUTE that you’re really helping someone by posting thinspo, meanspo, or thinspo. There are also people reading your posts who haven’t developed an ED but are very close to it. It’s not to late for them. They could seek out help and never have to endure this pain. Why would you drag them into this life? It’s not freedom. It’s not self-improvement. It’s not fun. It’s deadly and fucking terrifying.

So if you have to post meanspo/thinspo/sweetspo “for yourself,” please POST IT PRIVATELY. Or better yet, get some help for your mental health. There’s still hope for you, I promise.

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