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Are you a Gold Star lesbian? (Just in case you don't know what it means, a Gold Star lesbian is a lesbian that has never had sex with a guy and would never have any intentions of ever doing so)

maybe the real gold star lesbians were the friends we made along the way

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havent been using this site but since i still have followers here id like to boost something

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trying to encourage ppl to donate rn ;-;

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call me ignorant but i genuinely don’t understand why sports have to be split up by gender.

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let’s bring back 90s hacker film fashion let’s all dress like we’re ten seconds away from saying ‘i’m in’ and dismantling your school’s software

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isn’t it insanely fucking wild how our entire way of living changed in just a couple of weeks. like. worldwide? the entire world changed COMPLETELY in just weeks. did we ever even imagine that humanity could change so easily in the middle of crisis? we were always taught that global changes take time and are hard to achieve, and just like that, we’re all suddenly living in completely different conditions, our mindset has completely changed and we’ve created new habits in no time, have incorporated the words “quarantine” and “infection/infected” to our vocabulary and drop them in the regular without even noticing it. it’s incredibly the way this virus has exposed that many, many of the worlds problems can be solved just that easily, and we’ve been lied to our whole lives just because the people in charge don’t care about them

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a new concept: idiot academia

where u have book smarts but have absolutely no common sense

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the thing i really hate about the split attraction model is how easy it made me to hide and suppress my sexuality.

it is so easy to say you’re a panromantic demi-grey asexual demi-pansexual or whatever instead of just saying you’re a lesbian !!!!

the split attraction model made my compulsory heterosexuality so much stronger. it took me years to realize that im not attracted to men because i kept thinking im autochorisexual, aegosexual, autosexual, demi-pansexual, whatever !!!! it is SO! HARMFUL! especially with all the homophobia i already faced.

it was so freeing to realize that im just a lesbian, i don’t have to like men, and the attraction i felt towards men wasn’t real !!!!

my Akoisexuality was just comp het, because i kept feeling like “oh i would have sex with him!!” only to end up having him wanting to see me in person and having a huge panic attack over it for reasons i couldn’t really explain

tl;dr: split attraction models (and aspec identities) were harmful to me because i didn’t know what compulsory heterosexuality was, or why i was feeling it

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I used to think I was demisexual but I was actually just 13

oh boy

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Artemis from Greek Mythology is canonically a man-hating lesbian!

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Hayley Kiyoko by Jack Alexander for Gay Times (2018)

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me wearing a good outfit: it’s because I’m gay

me wearing a bad outfit: it’s because I’m gay

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a man: hey

me: that’s enough

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WeTV special edition – one of the reasons the second half of this clip got taken out of the original aired version and replaced by a wide-angled view of the room from afar is probably not a mystery to people who can write in Chinese.

Wang Yibo is writing the characters “Xiao Zhan” and his strokes are very obvious. Someone’s screenshot from a BTS clip also showed that he wrote “Xiao Zhan” several times (circled in blue) and even “Xiao Zhan a darn good-looking guy” (circled in red).

if you feel like this is encroaching on BJYX territory: it is what it is.

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Wei Wuxian: Ouch! My armkle!!!

Jiang Cheng: Your fucking what now?

Lan Wangji, not batting an eye: His wrist

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100.) Happy 100th post, everybody!