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trans men will say something like "having access to reproductive care is something that affects me personally, even as a man. i understand that conservatives speak about it as if it's a woman-only issue, but they see trans men as women too, and losing access to these services would affect us just as much. it'd be nice to be able to add my perspective and experiences to the conversation and have them taken seriously" and people will go "oh so you're erasing women? you're speaking over women? you hate women? you're a misogynist? typical man?"

like for the love of god "this issue affects me just as much as it affects you" does not mean "i think im more important than you" and its wild how many people take it that way. no reasonable trans man is actually trying to make discussions about abortion or trans healthcare or etc exclusively about them, and if you take it as a threat whenever a trans guy opens their mouth in a discussion like this, then that's your problem to work through, not theirs

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Believe it or not, sex toys were invented by men to cure female hysteria. They couldn't even fathom that what they were feeling was sexual frustration. They just knew that it kept their wives from being irritable. So sexual wellness is good for one's mental state.

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Ducking mood

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I want you to remember:

The fascists hate you too and they just will pretend otherwise until after they've killed the rest of us, before they turn on you.

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Does a normal 20s experience even still exist after the pandemic? I don't want people judging my much older, disabled, partner for making my life difficult. Sure they can't work and yeah they got a record. Wrong place, wrong time, wrong people can happen to anyone. Not just POC. Even their trial was awful to the point that a lawyer said they'd helped them get pardoned for free but we lost their contact info. Does it make finding housing difficult? Yes. Does it make living difficult? Yes. Because I have the financial responsibility. If I was living alone, I'd still have financial resposibility, I still couldn't go to school because I would need to work full time. I'd still become distant from family who'd side with someone who would rather throw around authority because he's a controlling narsicist. Let's not be delulu in a bad way. I only accept good delulu. Like my OTP getting together.

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What more can I say?

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Reblogging for the fashion masterclass this is

i dont consider myself a 'fashion guru' by any means but one thing i will say is guys you dont need to know the specific brand an item you like is - you need to know what the item is called. very rarely does a brand matter, but knowing that pair of pants is called 'cargo' vs 'boot cut' or the names of dress styles is going to help you find clothes you like WAAAYYYY faster than brand shopping

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when people put "trigger warning" on their content without specifying what the trigger warning is for

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reblog if your inbox is always open for new members of the fandom who may be a little shy or intimidated. doesn’t matter whether or not you’re a “popular blog”; everyone here is equal and if you’re reading this as a new person/someone considering entering the fandom, we will not turn you away!!!! talk to us!! make friends!! i more than understand being shy but trust me this fandom is chill come join us in this hellhole

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Oh would you look at that?

The TRUTH

Fascinated by this phenomenon

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what is the POOOOIINNTTTT in turning off reblogs to a good and popular post. I wanna reblog that. it was funny. it's my god given right to reblog. that feature was meant to use from the jump so people didn't reblog your personal shit. yall are just being mean when you see a post start to resonate and then you PULL THE TABLECLOTHHHHH

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reblog if you need a hug

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*banging on the store door like a rabid karen* But you can't be closed! I need my pronouns and flags!

Yikes

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This.