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what the fuck

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i have to defend fictional women who aren't good people because if i don't who else will

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I read an AITA post a few weeks back about a woman who liked having snacks in the bath when she's had a long day (a result of residual trauma iirc - the bath was her safe space). Her brand new husband of three weeks, a man twice her age who had no job, made her pay all of his bills and do all housework, and spent all day every day gaming because he wanted to make it as a Twitch streamer, had always been fine with this; but, on the day in question, had whisked her bath snacks out of her hands as she was on her way to the bathroom and tried to bin them, telling her it was time to 'break her of that filthy habit in his home'. She told him if he ever actually paid anything towards the house she owns outright he might get a say, took her snacks back, and had her lovely bath. He was since giving her the silent treatment.

(Obviously the judgement was an avalanche of 'NTA and also he's abusing you', which she agreed with, and decided to kick him out, so happy ending.)

Anyway I told my husband about this and he was outraged. "I would never do that!" he told me, furious. "I would find it adorable if you had bath snacks!"

Since then, every time I try to have a bath (which I only do as a rare treat) after about ten minutes there has been an anxious scrabbling at the bathroom door.

"Elanor!" he says. "Do you have bath snacks? Do you need anything?"

My answer is irrelevant. He brings me wine and poptarts. Now I have bath snacks. I'm a bath snacks person. Last time he was literally sleeping on the sofa when I went for the bath. Somehow this still happened. I now have an eager bathroom butler. How did this happen. I have never been so decadent yet bewildered.

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Watching twilight on a poorly hung projector. (x)

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An embroidery of the Wikipedia page for embroidery.

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So Mafia is easily like, camp game of all time, but the bummer is that in most variations the “ghosts” can’t do much once their character is killed.

My campers have remedied this by making sure that every “night,” when the town “sleeps” they find the largest and most outrageous object they can move silently into the center of the circle so everyone will laugh when they wake up.

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“google is free” actually now that you can’t turn off ai answers google is 5.6 billion gallons of water.

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Psychology being a soft science makes it just as fake as astrology honestly.

the thing about disregarding so-called "soft sciences" is that it does make me stop caring about your opinions

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Happy Pride…2!!

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You shouldn’t have to be trans to get any sex characteristic-related surgery. It’s not a limited resource. Plenty of cis men get implants and cis women get breast reductions. From Colby Gordon today and Leslie Feinberg in Transgender Warriors (1996).

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out of office pt 2

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this shit fucked me up

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Never not thinking about the trans woman I met in a gay bar in a town I'll never go back to who said "gender roles are like chains, fun to use in bondage scenarios but largely irrelevant in daily life"