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Then they get upset when you call their lifestyle a kink. Clearly, they have a breeding and power imbalance kink. Mix that with their cottagecore lifestyles and you have a trad wife.

the white trad wife girlies piss me off because they say things like "i really miss when women could be stay-at-home moms and get married and have babies and be fEmiNinE instead of having to go to college and work a job" like... you can still do that? you can literally still live your 1950s dream life? go find that man sis! but leave the rest of us the fuck out of it.

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yea. us people who were raised in difficult homes are triggered by the trad wife/trad life "movement"- you know why? bc we spot the power dynamic, a power dynamic that can easily turn horrific and disastrous. this "agreement" of "you hold x amount of power and I hold this x amount of power"... your partner's power is out in the real world, outside of this isolated box that you call "our home"- and your power is in said box. you're power is worthless. a shell on sand. if and when your box is taken away by the man, who was not your partner but instead your "husband", who owns it. it could happen to you. you are not an exception. your love, your morals, and what you offer is not an exception to the possibility of betrayal. it will happen to you. because the foundation of an exploitable power dynamic was already there.

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“its my choice to be a trad wife and start a family young” okay but what r u gonna do when he starts using finances to manipulate you. when he starts blaming financial struggles on you. what abt if he beats you? and if hes doing that hes probably already isolated u from ur family and friends so who are u gonna go to? you have no degree to fall back on, no previous work experience. you have no money of ur own. now u are completely alone and trapped in abuse. now u are his to control. and how r u gonna solve that? what if he beats the kids. and you have no money to take them away from that. what if hes in debt and now youre all suffering? are u gonna be able to find a job with, again, no experience, that will be enough for u and ur husband and ur six children. being a trad wife is dangerous and its not something that any women should aspire to.

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!!!

“traditional values” and conservative ideologies are intertwined with systemic misogyny. 

Traditional values are often framed as ideals of family, gender roles, and social order. People who advocate for these values emphasize women’s roles as the homemaker, mothers, and supportive wives. But here’s the truth: these so-called “values” are rooted in patriarchy, and they exist to keep women in their place. It’s an illusion of value—a trap that keeps women believing they are something they’re not.

conservative women are fine with being "property" because they assume they’re valuable property. They’ve been taught that fulfilling traditional roles gives them worth, that by being the perfect wife or mother, they somehow rise above the rest (I’ve seen many examples of this) But in reality, they fail to see the bigger picture—no matter how "traditional" they are, they are still property in a system that devalues women as a whole. A misogynistic man sees all women as below him. It doesn’t matter how obedient, “traditional,” or pure a woman is. To him, she is still less than. Still not enough. Still something to be controlled, used, and disposed of when it suits him.

Women think they’ve found safety and respect within these roles, but it’s all conditional. It’s a “value” that disappears the second they step out of line or no longer fit the mold. 

the whole idea that women gain worth through their roles as wives and mothers is a fallacy that keeps them tethered to a system of control, without them even realizing it.

"Traditional" = Subordinate

The reason this is inherently misogynistic is simple: these “traditional” roles are built on a hierarchy. Men are at the top, and women are expected to stay at the bottom. The "complementary" roles that conservative ideologies push aren’t about equality—they’re about reinforcing the idea that men lead and women follow. Men are providers, protectors, and decision-makers. Women are nurturers, caretakers, and supporters. This system might seem perfect to some, but when you break it down, it’s nothing more than a way to keep women from ever having true power.

A conservative woman might feel praised for her commitment to these roles, but that praise is just a mask. Her worth is only measured by how well she serves her husband, her children, or her family—and once she’s no longer in service, her value is gone. We’ve seen many examples of this either in real life or the internet, a man may admire her for being the perfect homemaker, but the second she wants something outside of that—whether it’s a career, autonomy, or independence—she is seen as a threat. The system doesn’t change because the roles don't allow it.

The Safety Myth: Protection That Isn’t Really Protection.

Conservative men tend to promise women safety, Women are told that if they embrace these roles, they’ll be protected, from what? But the reality is, this protection is a lie. The truth is, these roles offer safety only within the confines of strict gender expectations. Women are protected only as long as they fit the mold—play their part and never stray from it, and even then some women aren’t protected if they play that role, (what does women need protection from? other men? ) This isn’t protection. It’s control. It’s the safety of submission, and it comes at the cost of your own identity and freedom.

it doesn’t matter how much a woman conforms to the "ideal" that society sets for her—she is still seen as inferior. She is still less than. Her value is still attached to her relationship to a man, her ability to bear children, or her usefulness in the home.

This is the part conservative women fail to see: they aren’t exempt from the patriarchal systems that oppress women—they are merely playing into them. The idea that conservative women are somehow more valued by men than other women is just another lie told to keep them complicit in a system that seeks to control their every move. 

a woman’s worth is not based on how much she serves her husband, or how well she fills the traditional role; it’s inherent in who she is as an individual, regardless of her marital status, career choice, or motherhood. But that’s a message patriarchy doesn’t want women to hear.

True empowerment for women comes from the freedom to live outside of the narrow boxes that society forces women into, and from recognizing that no matter what role a woman plays, she deserves to be valued for who she is—not just what she does for others. 

How can we begin to break the myths around 'traditional values' and help women see the systems of control at play?

This post is centered around my other post where I mentioned “conservative women are fine with being property because they assume they're valuable property and they fail to realize that a misogynistic man views all women as not valuable, it doesn’t matter how trad and conservative the woman is. they’ll still below and worthless in their eyes”

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Just found out that women have to borrow more to pay for college, and then take longer to pay back their loans. Parents save more money for their sons, because of the breadwinner gender role. Colleges avoid taking too many girls into their classes and give boys' applications a second look. Once in college, girls are more likely to send money back to their parents to help support them (the same parents who saved less for their college education, because sons are the breadwinners...). Lots of female dominated professions like nursing require degrees, but any field with 'too many women' pays less. Once they're in the field, even if it is male-dominated, women are again paid less than their male counterparts (women are more likely to be penalized for asking for raises etc, and more likely to be overlooked for promotions). If they become mothers, that sets them back even further.

But men still complain that there are special scholarships for women. Lol.

Sources:

Colleges avoid taking too many women:

https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/08/magazine/men-college-enrollment.html

All other statistics:

https://www.stlouisfed.org/-/media/project/frbstl/stlouisfed/files/pdfs/iee/eei/wocstl-stlfed-03-nov-2022.pdf?sc_lang=en&hash=67A421B90B88E88EA3DF5FCBBFDCD4AE

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Not wanting to be pregnant is the only reason a woman should have to give to be able to have an abortion. That’s it. No more explaining to misogynists that abortion can actually save a woman’s life, or trying to pull at their heart by showing a pregnant child, rape victim, or incest pregnancy. Abortion should be an unapologetic human right every female should have access to.

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Do y'all think that this is helping you? Assuming that it's all men is nothing but a gross generalisation and just flat out dumb.

how many times do you need to be betrayed by men to realize that yes, it is all men, and no, they are not in your corner?

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Y'all have genuinely lost your shit💀 there's no way people who think like this actually exist. Just a wake up call, not everything is about you.

TRANS WAS INVENTED SO THAT MEN COULD INFILTRATE FEMALE-ONLY SPACES & TAKE CONTROL TO PREVENT WOMEN FROM SPEAKING TRUTH, ORGANIZING, AND TRULY ACHIEVING LIBERATION

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🖕🏽🎂🖕🏽

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@waterwabe I was not being literal when I said the Pythagorean theorem, I was just using the first thing that came to mind that I haven't used since I started learning it

Why does school teach you so much useless shit? When am I ever gonna use the Pythagorean theorem? I wanna learn how to cut down a tree or something

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Sarada looks like sasuke. The only think she would possibly get from Karin would be the glasses. Y'all are delusional as fuck.

Sakura stans on x are now going on a Himawari hate spread because they realised she actually looks more like Hinata now,while Sarada is stuck looking more like Karin. What a pathetic fandom..

Idk why they take it out on other characters like wtf Himawari got to do with Sarada looking like she was adopted?

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None of those photos are in the anime OR the manga💀 except for one, technically, which sasuke also has with his family. Boruto's problem with naruto is that he was never around

Sakura doesn’t deserve neither one of them as friends.

I’m crying because Sakura is the only one being dejected by her own husband

Meanwhile this is most of THEIR daily lives.

And you know what the IRONY is?

Sakura probably STILL looks down on THEM because “they don’t have Sasuke”.

She probably STILL thinks Sai is a Sasuke look alike and that Ino settled for him.

She probably STILL thinks Naruto is an annoying loudmouth fool that somehow got Hinata to fall for him.

It’s sad that Sakura thinks she’s got the prize even though Sasuke doesn’t even want to hold her hand without Sarada in the middle.

I mean look at this:

Can Sakura even do this without Sasuke running away from her?

Does Sasuke EVER touch HER?

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Sakura did what for sasuke? Worried about her child like anyone else would?

That episode where Hinata gets Ino to cheer up Sakura annoys me cause why did we have to waste a whole episode on Sakura throwing a fit over something she should already be at terms with? Cause like how she gonna let her daughter be a ninja and than be upset that she's being a ninja. I get being worried for her safety,but Sakura was acting like Sarada shouldn't be allowed to do any ninja thing ever again and is just so upset that Sarada would want to in the first place.

Plus SHE was a civilian turned ninja too and she expects an actual heir to a ninja clan to just…..not be one?

It just shows how selfish and backwards Sakura is.

Being a ninja and risking your life and sanity to get into a boy’s pants:

Being a ninja and risking your life and sanity for the safety of others and country:

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Calling sakura a sexual predator is a reach💀 she did nothing to him. Hinata on the other hand....she's definitely a stalker.

Imagine if Hinata did anything close to this. Saku stans would be calling her a pervert but yeah Sakura isn’t a sexual predator. Y’all call Hinata stalker for watching Naruto train but imagine the outrage if she wanted to watch him pee? Hypocrites as usual.

And I don’t wanna hear “she was twelve” when y’all blame Hinata for Hyuga slavery every day and she was a baby born into that. Sakura stans need to stfu and realize their princess needs to be put on a list.

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Every time Sakura Haruno saved Naruto | 🧵

Here are a compilation of canonical moments in which Sakura saves Naruto's life.

1. Saved him from Zabuza's blade, pushing him to the ground.

chapter, 11.

2. Saved him from falling from the tree when being thrown by Orochimaru in the forest of death

Chapter, 49.

3. Protected him from the sound ninjas in the forest of death when they were unconscious

Chapter, 51.

4. Saved him from Itachi's genjutsu together with Chiyo

5. Healed him from the effects of the Kyuubi's chacka after he transformed into the 4-tailed bijuu

6. Healed him in the war and replaced his chacka when he was exhausted from fighting Obito and Madara

7. Manually bombed his heart so he wouldn't die until he recovers the other half of Kyuubi

8. It cured his hemorrhage before he bled to death after the battle in the Valley of the End.

Chapter, 699.

9. Awakening him from Toneri's genjutsu

Naruto: The Last; movie and novel.

10. Healing him for 3 days and three nights from the effect of Toneri's attack, almost dying from it

Naruto: The Last; movie and novel.

11. Saving him from Shin Uchiha no Gaiden along with Sasuke and Sarada

Naruto: gaiden; The Seventh Hokage and the Scarlet Spring.

End.

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And how often is naruto even home with his family?💀 be forreal y'all. Naruto IS a loudmouth idiot. Sai is just...irrelevant. Saying she don't deserve them as friends and having no valid reasons other than assumptions.

Sakura doesn’t deserve neither one of them as friends.

I’m crying because Sakura is the only one being dejected by her own husband

Meanwhile this is most of THEIR daily lives.

And you know what the IRONY is?

Sakura probably STILL looks down on THEM because “they don’t have Sasuke”.

She probably STILL thinks Sai is a Sasuke look alike and that Ino settled for him.

She probably STILL thinks Naruto is an annoying loudmouth fool that somehow got Hinata to fall for him.

It’s sad that Sakura thinks she’s got the prize even though Sasuke doesn’t even want to hold her hand without Sarada in the middle.

I mean look at this:

Can Sakura even do this without Sasuke running away from her?

Does Sasuke EVER touch HER?