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~ by dhton on ig 

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requested | You are wonderful as you are. Just because you can be misunderstood does not mean you’re wrong. I hope you can embrace yourself for who you are. I hope you know I support you.

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me: introduces someone to my SpIn

them: loves it

me: yay!!

them: loves it a lot

me: oh no oh no they like it more than me 🚨🚨🚨⚠️⚠️ i must never share my special interests with anyone ever again

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I've been trying to read up on the History lately, especially the AIDS crisis, and it's depressing as hell but there's so many stories of lesbians who tried to help gay and bi men however they could. It's a good reminder that we're stronger together.

honestly we owe so much to lesbians and bi women who stepped up when gay and bi men were barred from being w their partners in hospitals or were ill themselves .

its sadly rarely mentioned even in lgbt spaces how these women gave so much and weren’t even asked they just did it

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when ur a lonely lesbian u daydream abt having a wife to such a ridiculous degree like ln I was falling asleep and I truly thought 2 myself “I hope my future wife is a light packer so she can fit a blanket in her bag when we travel and I can use it on the plane bc I can never fit one in my bag” like u useless lesbian will u Calm Down!!!

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me: tries to sit still my brain @ me, constantly:

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Do any other autistic people sometimes just burst into tears from emotional overload when they learn something extra cool about their special interest?

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hi yeah support people with oral stims!! for example

putting things in your mouth

chewing

repeating fun sounds

clicking/blowing air/etc

humming

feel free to add more but!!! support oral stims!!! esp. ones that make noise!

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Neurodivergent people can be trans. Don’t ever tell someone they can’t be their gender because they’re neurodivergent.

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This post is for those of you who need a little (or a lot of) extra time for speaking.

For those of you who have a stutter, no matter how big or small.

For those of you who have trouble forming sounds of words sometimes.

For those of you who have to point at words and ask “How do I say this?”

For those of you who have to ask that more then once.

For those of you who’s tongues just don’t seem to work.

For those of you who’s minds work faster then you can articulate.

For those of you who’s mouths articulate faster then you can think.

For those of you who find speaking through social media a wonderful relief because nobody can hear you struggle verbally with you words if they’re reading them from a screen.

For those of you who sometimes say the wrong words, or words in the wrong order.

For those of you who have ever felt helpless.

For those of you who are often interrupted by people saying things such as:

“Just spit it out already!”

“Oh my God, is this going to take twenty minutes or what?”

“Honey, I love you, but please get to the point.”

This post if for those of you who have been told directly or indirectly that your speaking puts those around you at an inconvenience because they have to spend extra time that “they just do not have” to listen to you. 

This post is for those of you who have been told that your thoughts have no worth because they take you longer then others to share. 

This post if for those of you who have been told these things and similar things to them.

You are not an inconvenience. Every word you speak is a treasure, and those who do not respect you enough to give you the time you need do not deserve you.

You are worthy and deserve to be listened to like any other “able-bodied” person is.

I’m sorry some people just don’t understand that.

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Congrats everybody! Today on June 30th 2017 the parliament of the Federal Republic of Germany votes in favour of same-sex marriage.

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Germany is officially the 23rd country to legalise same-sex marriage. Have a beautiful day. I sure as hell will be celebrating for the next 792 years 🏳️‍🌈❤️

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muslim wlw at pride! 🌈

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self care is listening to the same song on repeat for 8 hours straight

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✨squishy✨

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gender nonconforming trans women are fucking awesome and brave tbh, there’s a lot of pressure to perform femininity, especially for trans women (institutionally, trans healthcare all but fucking REQUIRES IT in order to transition) and you are no less female for going against that pressure. this goes double for TWOC, especially black and latina trans women. honestly just shout out to gender nonconforming women everywhere, cis and trans alike.

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“What have you been doing upstairs for an hour”

[an enby rocks from side to side, holding a croconana stuffed toy close and playing with a tangle]