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buses are so iconic they’re like “this little number tells you where I’m going hop on if you want idc” and everyone at the bus stop is like “wig”

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I find it quite homophobic that I’m not holding a cute boy with messy dark hair in my arms while kissing his neck right now.

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come cuddle me bet you won’t BET BET

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Good Thing 

x/x/x x/x/x x/x/x

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men loving ponies is accurate tho

everytime i see the mlm tag i think of my little pony and then it just becomes

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honestly, will poetic cinema ever reach higher heights than the part in the genghis khan music video where the james bond-y hero escapes and then promptly flings himself against the wall in lovelorn anguish and starts singing “ooh, i wanna make up my mind, but i don’t know myself”, echoing the supervillain’s piney lament from moments earlier, and you’re hit full force with the perfect epiphany of “OH SNAP, HE’S IN LOVE TOO!!!!!!!”??

i don’t think so. it’s just unbeatable! unbeatable!

(and then when he WHIRLS back around to dance his way to his supervillain boo? everything, everything.)

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i made a yearning chat for all those nb folk and gay boys so if you want in,and if you wanna yearn with others,let me know !!!

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thank you! i didn’t know about that and after looking through the tab i think it describes me perfectly :)

why don’t mlm have a word for their attraction? we don’t even have mlm because of multi level marketing and Marxism–Leninism–Maoism. “gay” and “homosexual” are inspecific. i think we need a term like “lesbian” that shows we are men loving men.

if there is one that i just don’t know of, please tell me! otherwise feel free to suggest!

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Over the years I’ve seen a lot of things about how there isn’t a distinction between the general LGBT+ community flag and the flag for gay men, and if you want a short history lesson please [click here] because i want to keep this post not horrifyingly long. 

Long story short: to help fix all the [problems people are complaining about], gay men need a specific flag. So, with a bunch of discussion with people and a few different incarnations of the flag, I’ve made a (potential) flag for gay men.

The colors have the following meanings:

Blue A connection to masculinity (in terms of gender) and attraction to men.

Green This partly shares a meaning with Gilbert Baker’s original flag. The green stands for nature, as our love is natural, as well as a connection to the green carnation, which was popularized as a symbol for gay men by Oscar Wilde.

Yellow This also shares a meaning with Baker’s flag – sunlight. In a sun/moon dichotomy, sun is typically considered masculine. It is also for explicit inclusiveness of nonbinary men.

Grey The grey stands for navigating a grey area of society, where we are ‘accepted,’ but not really. It is also for explicit inclusiveness of aspec gay men.

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let me be the cryptid boyfriend to ur cowboyfriend 😪🤧

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things you know about your best friend: 

1. he’s a bit of a control freak and he can get obsessive when he sets his mind to things, but you’ve always preferred the passionate version of him. and even when he drives you crazy with his anal retentive ways, you still love him.

2. he has anxiety bad enough to rival your own and his hands shake and it doesn’t take much to make him cry and sometimes he finds himself numbed by depression’s novocaine but it doesn’t make him weak; in fact, you think he’s the strongest, bravest person you know. 

3. he’s the first person you think to call in the middle of the night when your dreams become nightmares you can’t catch your breath from or stop thinking about because he always knows how to make you smile again before you fall back asleep. 

4. he keeps a few of your shirts tucked away in his drawers and closet, “for emergencies” he claims. and sometimes he mistakenly wears one of yours instead of his own, but you don’t mind. you really don’t mind. 

5. he only sings when he thinks no one is around to listen and you’ve never been more thankful of your ability to make yourself go unnoticed.

6. he lies. he tells everyone that his first kiss was a pretty girl with wild hair and expressive eyes, but the truth is that his first kiss was in a blanket fort during a sleepover when the rest of the world was asleep and there was no pretty girl in sight; just you, in your batman pajama pants and his mouth against yours.

7. he tastes like mint he brushes his teeth two times a day and smells like soap never misses a shower and his hair is always soft and so are his hands should you know this? why do you know this?

8. he still sees shapes and figures and animals in the clouds (and maybe you find yourself wondering what he sees when he looks at you; maybe you’re too afraid to know)

9. he’s the first “i love you” that you never doubted.

10. you love him so much more than your own life. 

(cc, 2019)

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all i want for christmas are some punk boyfriends

mlm only

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As a dumbass gay, you have the choice of daydreaming about;

Gay vampire romance

Gay pirate romance

Gay cowboy romance

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why don’t mlm have a word for their attraction? we don’t even have mlm because of multi level marketing and Marxism–Leninism–Maoism. “gay” and “homosexual” are inspecific. i think we need a term like “lesbian” that shows we are men loving men.

if there is one that i just don’t know of, please tell me! otherwise feel free to suggest!

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