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One thing about me is I would always prefer the found family be unhealthily codependent little freaks than “grow up” and become people that only see each other or talk on special occasions. I want them ENMESHED in each other’s lives PERMANENTLY.

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Baby Nick, Rog, and John

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Romare Bearden (1911-1988)—Guitar Magic [collage of various papers with watercolour and ink, on fiberboard, 1986]

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its so easy to imagine yaoi with my beautiful mind #yaoi #mybeautifulmind

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Michael photographed with Chris Bailey of the Saints and Kylie Minogue in South of France.

📸 respective owners

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i could find gay subtext in absolutely anything i could find gay subtext in the straightest thing ever created. im like those medieval scholars who insisted on finding christian interpretations of pagan ideas n text but. for gay ppl

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NOSY TIME #38 #58 and #73

OKAYYYYY

38. Have you ever liked someone you didn't expect to?

Honestly...*giggles* unfortunately me with Howard Donald. Did NOT see that coming, as you well know.

58. What are five ways to win your heart?

At least a bit of willingness to indulge in some of my silly little interests, loving cats, watching Ocean's 11 with me 🥺, hugs/snuggles, and...well, I guess being considered as more than just someone to vent to sometimes LOLOLOL

73. What's something sweet you'd like someone to do for you?

This is sooooo me coded but I'd love someone to find a thrifty/vintage place I've never been to and make a fun trip of it. I've never gotten to do smth like that before!

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8, 35, 70, 81 (i tried picking these out specifically but i couldn't remember the numbers, so i might be asking entirely different things than wanted now hfhdhdhd)

Ahhh okay let's see...

8. Describe your crush.

I don't have a particular crush outside of some celebrities ATM. Well, actually I do have someone I'm fond of but they live across the world and is definitely not available atm. So it goes.

35. Have you ever kissed someone older than you?

I'm pretty sure almost everyone I've ever kissed was older, but unfortunately not by more than 6 years. Would love to kiss someone much older but I'd want to feel a bit safe about it LOL.

70. What turns you on?

Being the center of attention in a sexual situation for sure. Guys being handsy with me, touch in general is smth I'm sensitive about. Threesomes/moresomes, though I'm not entirely sure about gangbangs as of now. Being controlled, but cared for. A bit of ageplay goes a long way for me LOL. There's probably more but they get more and more specific.

81. Who are five people you find attractive?

Lauren Bacall, Capucine, Simon Le Bon, Gary Barlow, and Jonathan Frakes.

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Hashimoto Okiie Woodblock Print 1981

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Be as intrusive as you want, I'll answer 110% honestly.

1. Are looks important in a relationship?

2. Are relationships ever worth it?

3. Are you a virgin?

4. Are you in a relationship?

5. Are you in love?

6. Are you single this year?

7. Can you commit to one person?

8. Describe your crush

9. Describe your perfect mate

10. Do you believe in love at first sight?

11. Do you ever want to get married?

12. Do you forgive betrayal?

13. Do you get jealous easily?

14. Do you have a crush on anyone?

15. Do you have any piercings?

16. Do you have any tattoos?

17. Do you like kissing in public?

20. Do you shower every day?

21. Do you think someone has feelings for you?

22. Do you think someone is thinking about you right now?

23. Do you think you can last in a relationship for 6 months and not cheat?

24. Do you think you’ll be married in 5 years?

25. Do you want to be in a relationship this year?

26. Has anyone told you they don’t want to ever lose you?

27. Has someone ever written a song or poem for you?

28. Have you ever been cheated on?

29. Have you ever cheated on someone?

30. Have you ever considered plastic surgery? If so, what would you change about your body?

31. Have you ever cried over a guy/girl?

32. Have you ever experienced unrequited love?

33. Have you ever had sex with a man?

34. Have you ever had sex with a woman?

35. Have you ever kissed someone older than you?

36. Have you ever liked one of your best friends?

37. Have you ever liked someone who your friends hated?

38. Have you ever liked someone you didn’t expect to?

39. Have you ever wanted someone you couldn’t have?

40. Have you ever written a song or poem for someone?

41. Have you had sex so far this year?

42. How long can you just kiss until your hands start to wander?

43. How long was your longest relationship?

44. How many boyfriends/girlfriends have you had?

45. How many people did you kiss in 2011?

46. How many times did you have sex last year?

47. How old are you?

48. If the person you like says they like someone else, what would you say?

49. If you have a boyfriend/girlfriend, what is your favorite thing about him/her?

50. If your first true love knocked on your door with apology and presents, would you accept?

51. Is there a boy/girl who you would do absolutely everything for?

52. Is there anyone you’ve given up on? Why?

53. Is there someone mad because you’re dating/talking to the person you are?

54. Is there someone you will never forget?

55. Share a relationship story.

56. State 8 facts about your body

57. Things you want to say to an ex

58. What are five ways to win your heart?

59. What do you look like? (Post a picture!)

60. What is the biggest age difference between you and any of your partners?

61. What is the first thing you notice in someone?

62. What is the sexiest thing someone could ever do for/to you?

63. What is your definition of “having sex”?

64. What is your definition of cheating?

65. What is your favourite foreplay routine?

66. What is your favourite roleplay?

67. What is your idea of the perfect date?

68. What is your sexual orientation?

69. What turns you off?

70. What turns you on?

71. What was your kinkiest wet dream?

72. What words do you like to hear during sex?

73. What’s something sweet you’d like someone to do for you?

74. What’s the most superficial characteristic you look for?

75. What’s the sweetest thing anyone’s ever done for you?

76. What’s the sweetest thing you’ve ever done for someone?

77. What’s your opinion on age differences in relationships?

78. What’s your dirtiest secret?

79. When was the last time you felt jealous? Why?

80. When was the last time you told someone you loved them?

81. Who are five people you find attractive?

82. Who is the last person you hugged?

83. Who was your first kiss with?

84. Why did your last relationship fail?

85. Would you ever date someone off of the Internet?

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you wouldn’t download a #mark owen.

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My body is but a #robbie williams temple.

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Pour one out for #donage.

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MR. SMITH GOES TO WASHINGTON (1939) Dir. Frank Capra

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is she exhibiting "male socialization" or is she learning to advocate for herself and take up space, something we once understood to be feminist and progressive?