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late night reminder to anyone who needs it to not break your “no contact” if you have one

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the cheeky chuckler

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Audism exists along the lines of interpersonal ableism and institutional ableism.

Audism is when your friends cut you off for being a "gaslighter" because you couldn't hear them and asked them to repeat things. (Expressing your communication needs is abusive.) This is interpersonal ableism.

Audism is when your partner promises to take a sign language class for you for the 5th Christmas in a row and yet again does not follow through. (Your communication needs are just not that important) This is interpersonal ableism.

Audism is when your friends take advantage of your deafness to talk shit about you right around the corner. (Your trust in your friends is just not that important) This is interpersonal ableism.

Audism is when your friends take a sign language class but refuse to practice with you. (Your communication is just not that important) This is interpersonal ableism.

Audism is when a stranger makes a comment that they would have aborted you if you were their child. (Your life is just not that important) This is interpersonal ableism.

Audism is when your professor decides that he will only caption the videos you watch at home for homework, not the ones shown in class. (Your understanding of the material is just not that important) This is institutional ableism.

Audism is when the interpreter is "charging too much" to be hired for the event you were supposed to be attending. (Your access to the event is just not that important) This is institutional ableism.

Audism is when interpreters aren't required for traffic stops or any other police interactions before arrest. (Your safety around the police is just not that important) This is institutional ableism.

Audism is when your job won't let you use your FM system around customers because "they might not feel comfortable with it." (Your ability to keep your job is just not that important) This is institutional ableism.

Audism is when your professor tells you that wearing your FM system is "annoying" so he won't be doing it anymore. (Your ability to understand the lecture is just not that important) This is interpersonal AND institutional ableism.

Audism is when the police officer mocks your deaf accent while you try to speak after being denied an interpreter. (Your communication is just not that important) This is interpersonal AND institutional ableism.

Audism is when over and over again you are rejected by the people around you and the institutions you live within. Audism is when you are treated as worthless day in and day out. Audism is when you can't keep friendships, jobs, good grades, etc. because everyone gives up on you- you are not worth it. That is what the world tells us every day.

When you wake up deaf* you wake up to a world that does not want you. Your waking up in and of itself is an act of resistance in a world that would have rather you died than have to accommodate you.

*I am including all levels of hearing loss under the definition of "deaf"

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so I was looking at pics of Team Skull’s base, HQ, whatever it is.

It looks pretty cool. You can see Guzma’s got a lot of bottles and shit, and he has some serious talent as an interior designer, and– wait… 

what is…?

omg…

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elwoods tail is slopping wet bc it was in the sink the whole time i was washing my hands & he just sat there looking at it like What?😰 What?😰 Why Is That Happening😰

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Did you know that you can waste your free time by not knowing which activity to do so you do none of them

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Also did a big shop update! Including some Squid Game dice, True Blood dice, plus restocks on mini dice and Jurassic Park dice!

I humbly request that you share in the hopes that I can pay off some vet bills 🙏💖

Cinniharpyscrafts.etsy.com

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isolation the most goated coping mechanism i love talking to no one and losing my mind alone

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Yutyrannus

For a request of TikTok

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can you guys stop fighting over the same peice of lettuce. there is literally more right behind you

Don't get involved in things you don't understand

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stop playing it cool.

be passionate, be intense, be authentic, be yourself. and whoever sticks around is meant for you.

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how are you feeling right now? please reply in gif form

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Today I was trying to chat up this girl standing with her friend at a lesbian bar and said “oh are you two together?” meaning were you friends before being next to each other at this bar and one turns to the other and goes with all the venom of a black mamba snake “I don’t know Cara, are we?” and I was like you know what? not my table

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thinking on him

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food does not have moral value....... food does not have moral value.......is there anybody out there... hello.can anybody hear me.... you need carbohydrates to live.... can somebody help me.... hello.......