flirtatiousfemme

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possessive4possessive butchfemme

starting a new job and they give me a framed photo of the two of us to put on my desk. a sweet gift and a message to all my new coworkers that im taken.

theyre leaving for work soon and i offer to drop them off and i get out of the car to say bye as i see the femme who's been crushing on them is just arriving too so i pull my butch in for a kiss or three.

theyre mine and im theirs

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waking up by their side and seeing the sun shine on their face. knowing theyll have to go soon but letting them sleep in just a little longer. feeling glad to have spent the night with the one you love but a little somber knowing theyll be gone shortly. while theyre still counting sheep youre counting the days until you wake up by their side every morning, turning these moments of happiness into a lifetime of joy.

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i would literally do anything for this oh my god

2025 goals : be invited to a sleepover with only butches and be passed around like a blunt

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oh my god

their biceps 😵‍💫

i need them immediately

hot masc is going to the gym later and told me theyd send me a pic 🥰🥰🥰

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hot masc is going to the gym later and told me theyd send me a pic 🥰🥰🥰

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possessive4possessive butchfemme

going to the grocery store with my butch and bending over to pick up anything on low shelves to drive them wild. after the third or fourth time people start to notice so when im standing back up my butch turns me around, pushes me against the aisle, and kisses me passionately

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saw a picture of a butch with just a blazer on and no shirt and had to catch my breath for a second

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i’m moving to providence at the end of summer we should be besties <33

omg yes definitely !!!!! always happy to make new friends :)

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mono?

monogamous idk if theres a better abbreviation

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about me <3

this is my first tumblr blog !! will probably update this down the line :)

23 year old femme lesbian (she/her) from massachusetts

currently femme4all but prefer butches and considering being exclusively femme4butch

sub and bottom

lovergirl <3

sometimes nsfw

asks and dms open ill try to respond to everything i can. can be nsfw but try to fit the vibe here

im naturally flirty so feel free to be too but if im not reciprocating/ask you to, please stop

dni: cis men, terfs, bigots, minors, zionists

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How would you describe an ideal partner? What are yiur red flags/absolute no’s?

this ended up being pretty long so sorry in advance haha definitely doesnt even cover all of it

in terms of ideal traits physically definitely stronger than me is a big thing for me. taller would be nice too but not necessary since im usually the taller one. ideally someone pretty masc or butch. futch is good too and not opposed to femme rn (considering going completely femme4butch but not yet). i love when someone has pretty eyes. i dont rly have preferences for like hair color or eye color or things like that i have a small preference for other bipoc ppl tho my last gf was white and thats like fine i could definitely marry someone who is but it is a slight preference

definitely someone who takes a dominant/top role im pretty exclusively a sub and bottom. i like when someone a little possessive/clingy im definitely kinda like that too i want us to be like that with each other. also ideally someone who takes interests in the things i like (movies, books, music, food/cooking, travel, etc) we dont need exactly the same interests but i wanna be able to talk about the things i find fascinating and have them genuinely listen and care.

personality wise being funny is a big one for me im always making jokes and i like having someone to banter with. smart too is great not necessarily super book smart but like i wanna have deeper conversations about things and learn about things together. wanting to have kids is a big thing for me too im flexible on number tho as long as its more than one. i also love when ppl can speak another language like ill learn it for u so we can speak it together and id love if someone else learned my second language too idk its fun to know each others languages and to be able to talk in a second language in public so nobody rly knows what ur saying haha. i also rly love when ppl are passionate about things and have things theyre super into and teach me about them. i find that rly attractive. im also rly affectionate and want my partner to be too i wanna compliment them and have them compliment me

for red flags/hard nos id say ppl who havent like grown up? like im not ur mom dont make me act like ur mom. if u cant like clean up after urself or contribute to chores at all then thats a pretty hard line. its one thing if they take more of the provider role and i take the homemaker role thats fine but ive dated ppl who did basically nothing and im not doing that again. weaponized incompetence too is a hard no. same with polyamory like im fine being fwb with someone poly but long term im looking for monogamy thats a hard line for me. another pretty hard no for me is someone closeted/ashamed of being a lesbian like if ur not holding my hand in public or i have to be a "friend" around ur family like thats not happening for me. im a big pda person and if u cant show u love me around the ppl in ur life we wont last.

stuff thats less like base level is like someone who doesnt pay attention to me when im talking? like if theyre constantly on their phone when im trying to talk to them and having to repeat myself a lot that rly bothers me. ppl who cant like commit to plans also that bothers me if we're planning on going to see a movie i wanna go see the movie. also on vacations im a huge planning/itinerary person and ill put in enough of like rest time but if we're in a fun new place i wanna follow the itinerary we made and go to the museums and go try new foods i dont wanna just sleep in and kinda waste our time there. it kinda ties into when i cant rely on someone thats a problem for me like i need to know ur there for me when it counts and like can also be responsible when it matters. like making big financial decisions without talking to me especially like bad ones is a problem for me like its great to spend money on enjoying ur life but also being a little reasonable is important too (goes back to the mom thing dont make me play the mean one role bc u cant control ur spending habits)

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one day i will marry the butch of my dreams and we will build such a magical life together. i will take care of them and make things for them and travel with them and be with them for the rest of our lives. ill spend my days looking for little ways to make them happy. to see them smile one more time. to make them laugh one more time. to have them look at me like the day the fell in love with me one more time. just me and my butch together forever

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perhaps this will be the year i get spitroasted by two butches.

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possessive4possessive butchfemme

telling them im going out to a lesbian bar with a few friends and showing them the revealing dress im wearing as i go to put on jewelry and then heading to the door leave seeing them waiting dressed and ready to go with me. they dont want anyone else getting any ideas.

getting to the lesbian bar and going to the bathroom only to come back seeing a femme is flirting with them. asking my butch "hey handsome wanna dance" they happily oblige and the femme knows theyre taken. dancing seductively with them on the dance floor so they stay fixated on how much they want me

theyre mine and im theirs

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just thought about how they were holding my hands in theirs and firmly holding them down above my head while kissing me all over my neck and chest and got lightheaded...

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scrolling back up in your texts with them to see their reactions to your pictures. not nudes necessarily but just what they said when you sent them a picture in a nice dress

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possessive4possessive butchfemme

bending over to grab the ball at the bowling alley, making sure to slightly flash my butch and when others start to take notice, my butch gives my butt a subtle grab only noticeable to those staring to show it belongs to them.

my butch letting me win for a bit until they're ready to make a comeback so they take off their button down to have just a muscle tank on. i notice a femme gasp a little so i go to wish my butch luck by kissing their biceps. those are mine.

they're mine and im theirs