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mutual aid request: hazem & family
hazem, an economics student whose home and university were destroyed by israeli, also suffered a critical spinal injury when a neighboring house was bombed and he was hit with shrapnel. his mobility is now limited and he needs medical care that is not available in gaza. he is also trying to support his family in evacuating.
as of today, they have only raised 24.08% of their goal.
read more about what hazem & his family need, and donate below 👇🏽
please see my pinned post for more info on the daily mutual aid requests i'm sharing, and check out this spreadsheet for all the posts i've scheduled or posted so far.
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keep avoiding this bc i am just so TIRED of it. i don’t want to ask, i just want to be stable. but we only have one full time job supporting the household; my wife is still subsisting on freelance work, and in the meantime any slightly elevated need dips into rent savings.
we had to pay a deductible to replace my wife’s phone which she needs for work and safety, and our (borrowed) car needs some basic repairs before it becomes unrepairable. doing so means we won’t have enough money for rent, or we won’t have anything left for groceries or other necessities like bills and cat food. it’s short notice but i’m hoping we can get some help.
looking to raise $400 minimum by 4/5. ANYTHING helps. could you start by sharing this?
cash n vnmo: torkz428
pypl: torkz
$0/400
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HA HA SO i really fucking hoped i wouldn’t have to do this but the day that i got my job, my partner was unjustly fired from her job. so now instead having two incomes, we’re left with not enough, and get slightly more behind every month trying to play catch up. im so sorry, but we’re asking for your help again.
my partner doesn’t drive and it is taking literally every available spoon to work full time again so we just don’t have the capacity to do second jobs (i’ve barely had time to use tumblr 😭). if you can help us from going into the red, we should be able to keep up with everything going forward, even with only one income.
hoping to raise $300, to cover a couple of bills without dipping into rent savings, and keep us (and our cat!) fed. please please consider helping us. we just need to get through the next couple of months.
cash/venmo: torkz428
pypl: torkz
$0/300
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rambling again abt sensationalization of cults because this comes up whenever i discuss the fact that I was raised in one, but... like many other forms of abuse, i think there ends up being a popularly conveyed idea of an "outside world" where there's going to be unambiguous freedom. and don't get me wrong, being outside a cult or any other abusive environment is way better than being inside one, but you get outside and if you have eyes you notice the ways that society is abusive and coercive. you notice the ways your personhood gets curtailed by things by school & work & government. the idea of the cult being a sensational, unique outlier is at best a comforting lie told by people who don't want to notice parallels, and at worst, I can't help but see it as an intentional scapegoating of cults and of abusers to distance broader society from being implicated in having caused similar harm. don't fall for it. a cult is an intensifier of patterns that already exist. abuse is an intensifier of patterns that already exist. it is absolutely not unique lol!
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visibility of an oppressed group is not inherently a “privilege.” visibility can mean hypersexualization, objectification, commodification, stereotyping, abuse, violence. a group being more “visible” does not mean that it has an advantage or any kind of oppressive power whatsoever over a less visible or “invisible” group. using statistics of representation in media as evidence of relative privilege and disprivilege within marginalized groups is pointless and reductive.
and thank you to the Black women theorists whose work on hypervisibility has helped me to reach this understanding
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Remaking my e beg post because the last one lost traction. Big thank you to everyone that donated previously Kida is on the road to recovery; me and my sis still need help as February is coming up and we've both got bills due. She especially needs help as she's got a huge student loan payment for $800 that's due in two weeks. If you wanna help me and her out, consider this an earlier birthday present sorta kinda a send a donation our way 🙏🏾
$0/1,000
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dr. farhat and his family have now raised 49.1% of their goal, but they still have a ways to go! please help if you can!
morning mutual aid request: dr. husam farhat & family
dr. husam farhat and his family in gaza have already faced unspeakable tragedies, including the martyrdom of his beloved sisters, inas and amal, along with their husbands and children, and his brother mustafa. he and his remaining family, including his wife, and their three children sham, muhannad, and muhammed are trying to evacuate to malaysia and build a new life there.
as of today, they have only raised 4.5% of their goal.
read more about dr. farhat's family and what they need, and donate at the gofundme 👇🏽
please see my pinned post for more info on the daily mutual aid requests i'm sharing, and check out this spreadsheet for all the posts i've scheduled or posted so far.
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tk and their partner are unfortunately still fundraising, because their partner was unsafe at her other job and so has lost almost all avenues of income. they currently need at least $160 to meet another short-term goal. please help if you can!
daily mutual aid request: tk & their partner
tk is a disabled black trans person, and their partner is a disabled black trans fem who was just fired from her job, a week before christmas.
they need to raise $500 USD by the end of december, and as of today have only raised 8% of their goal.
cshpp & vmo: torkz428
paypl: torkz
please see my pinned post for more info on the daily mutual aid requests i'm sharing, and check out this spreadsheet for all the posts i've scheduled or posted so far.
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majed and his family have still only raised 17.01% of their goal. please help them if you can!
daily mutual aid request: majed & family
majed (@majedgerbawi) and majed's family of five fled gaza after october 7th and have made it to egypt, but the economic situation there is dire, so they need to crowdfund for basic necessities. rents have increased fivefold, making it almost impossible for them to find stable housing.
as of today, they have only raised 15.3% of their goal.
read more about majed's family and what they need, and donate at the gofundme 👇🏽
please see my pinned post for more info on the daily mutual aid requests i'm sharing, and check out this spreadsheet for all the posts i've scheduled or posted so far.
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morning mutual aid request: mohammed & family
mohammed (@mohammedwael-gaza00) is 21 years old, and graduated from the university college of applied sciences in gaza with a degree in web design and development in july 2023. only a few months later, his new job, and his university were all shattered by israeli violence. his family - including his parents and his siblings - have been divided, with some in northern gaza and some in the south. they need funds to reunite and rebuilding their lives.
they have currently only raised 12.37% of their goal.
read more about mohammed's family and what they need, and donate below 👇🏽
please see my pinned post for more info on the daily mutual aid requests i'm sharing and how to submit your own, and check out this spreadsheet for all the posts i've scheduled or posted so far.
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nighttime mutual aid request: abood al-qudra & family
aboud (@aboodgaza101) has lost many members of his family, his business, his home, and his family's home to israel's war of extermination in gaza. he and his family have been displaced multiple time and forced to live in a small tent, even as they suffer chronic diseases and malnutrition. he is hoping to purchase a caravan to help protect his family from the elements.
they have currently only raised 46.56% of their goal.
read more about aboud's family and what they need, and donate below 👇🏽
please see my pinned post for more info on the daily mutual aid requests i'm sharing and how to submit your own, and check out this spreadsheet for all the posts i've scheduled or posted so far.
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evening mutual aid request: mahmoud khalaf & family
mahmoud (@supportgaza), a phd student, was evacuated from gaza by his university in ireland after enduring five months of horrors. but his family of 8 has remained in gaza, suffering under bombing, starvation, and disease. he is trying to reunite his family and bring them to safety in ireland, where the irish refugee council has assured him that they can come as long as they raise the funds to evacuate.
they have currently raised 68.64% of their goal.
read more about mahmoud's family and what they need, and donate below 👇🏽
please see my pinned post for more info on the daily mutual aid requests i'm sharing and how to submit your own, and check out this spreadsheet for all the posts i've scheduled or posted so far.
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afternoon mutual aid request: hamed oudah & family
hamed (@hamed-family) is the father of two young children, ages 4 and 6, and their family is enduring the most difficult and heartbreaking time of their lives. the genocide has torn apart the lives of countless families like theirs, as they have been displaced from their home, forced to flee repeatedly, and have been subjected to relentless bombings and attacks. they are raising funds to evacuate.
they have currently only raised less than 1% of their goal.
read more about hamed's family and what they need, and donate below 👇🏽
please see my pinned post for more info on the daily mutual aid requests i'm sharing and how to submit your own, and check out this spreadsheet for all the posts i've scheduled or posted so far.
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morning mutual aid request: heba al-dahdouh & family
heba al-dahdouh (@habaanasif), her father nasif, her mother asmaa, and her siblings khaled, ahmad, muhammed, and malak have been in constant fear and suffering due to israeli shrapnel, shells, and bullets. they have little food, no electricity, no cooking gas, no schools, no homes, no cleaning supplies, and no clothes. they are raising funds for their survival.
they have currently only raised 13.57% of their goal.
read more about heba's family and what they need, and donate below 👇🏽
please see my pinned post for more info on the daily mutual aid requests i'm sharing and how to submit your own, and check out this spreadsheet for all the posts i've scheduled or posted so far.
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nighttime mutual aid request: ahmed ziad & family
ahmed (@ahmedziaad) is an engineer in gaza who is trying to protect his mother, brothers, and the rest of his family while they are suffering under genocide. they have no shelter and little food or clean water, and they need funds to stay alive.
they have currently only raised 38.15% of their goal.
read more about ahmed's family and what they need, and donate below 👇🏽
please see my pinned post for more info on the daily mutual aid requests i'm sharing and how to submit your own, and check out this spreadsheet for all the posts i've scheduled or posted so far.
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evening mutual aid request: imtithal & family
imtithal (@imtithalcrusadecreator) has already lost her brother obaida who was killed by israel, and her family of 35 people lost their livelihoods and homes. they face harsh conditions and a dark future for their lives, displacement, poverty, and pain. they hope to leave gaza and build a new life and rise from the rubble.
they have currently only raised 17.07% of their goal.
read more about imtithal's family and what they need, and donate below 👇🏽
please see my pinned post for more info on the daily mutual aid requests i'm sharing and how to submit your own, and check out this spreadsheet for all the posts i've scheduled or posted so far.
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afternoon mutual aid request: ahmad saeed safi & family
ahmad (@ahmad-safi97) is 26 years old and had a good job and hope for the future before october 7, 2023. but then he lost his house, his career, and his future; the israeli occupation forces even stole all of his belongings before he was displaced to from his home, including his savings, his laptop, and even his shoes. he is raising funds to keep his family alive.
they have currently only raised 17.49% of their goal.
read more about ahmad's family and what they need, and donate below 👇🏽
please see my pinned post for more info on the daily mutual aid requests i'm sharing and how to submit your own, and check out this spreadsheet for all the posts i've scheduled or posted so far.
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