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The inherent eroticism of watching someone eat fruit or meat

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i miss the static youd get from kissing old tvs and the buttons and the av cable ports and how some of em had built in vhs or dvd players and the volume they had and huggability

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F*c&!ng First Aid: A Quick Guide to Common Sex Injuries

New from our founder, Heather Corinna, a guide for those sexual times that wind up more “ow” than “oooh.”

It’s remarkably easy to hurt ourselves in the pursuit of feeling good. From genital abrasions to broken skin to pulled muscles to infections to allergic reactions, even fractures or breaks, exploring our bodies and their capacities sexually can sometimes mean finding out⁠ what’s past a bodies’ limits. We can think there was enough lube, but who among us (cough) hasn’t found out at least once that there wasn’t? We can forget that when it feels to us like we couldn’t possibly get enough of something, our body parts may have an entirely different and considerably threshold (um). Heck, you can hurt yourself just getting a date a glass of water (says my once-broken toe, bitterly).

For whatever reason (probably a combination of ableism⁠, totally inhumane sexual⁠ ideals and maybe some leftover stuff from our DNA way back when we lived a wilder existence), if and when people get hurt during sex⁠, they often feel ashamed or embarrassed, like they have ruined something. Getting hurt in our bodies is as acceptable an experience as feeling good in them. It’s not “weak” to get hurt, and it doesn’t mean anyone failed at anything, it just means we’re living in the body of a mere mortal, not a sexual superhero. So, if some kind of sex injury happens to you or a partner⁠, don’t get hung up in negative feelings about it. Instead, turn your attention to yourself or whoever got hurt. Not only might you or they need physical care, caring for ourselves and each other in attentive, tender ways is only likely to enhance our sexual experiences and the ways we connect to ourselves or one another through them. This kind of care, much like general sexual aftercare, can be something that is a highlight of a sexual experience, even when something painful or bummerful happened which that care is centered around.

This simple guide covers the most common sexual injuries for people in the age group we serve, what needs to be done when and after they have happened, and how you can best prevent them. Read F*c&!ng First Aid: A Quick Guide to Common Sex Injuries over at Scarleteen.

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C. wearing the sea. circa.2021

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Doing kinky stuff while my joints are popping like rice crispies

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you will describe tummy/waist fat as a "muffin top" (yummy treat?) and "love handles" (most romantic phrase ever?) and mean it in a derogatory way? when these things are obviously good?

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how do intox scenes work? how can you be sure that whoever's intoxicated isnt so out of it they can't say the safeword?

Ive been meaning to answer this! Ok so for me ive only done actual intox with my partner, ive had like tipsy hookups before i was with him, but i wouldn't consider that the same as an intox kink scene. You need to actually talk and establish boundaries ahead of time while sober. You should already know likes and dislikes generally, but its also worth asking while youre both sober if yall want to go along with new things that might come up during the scene. Like maybe when ur sober and not in a kink headspace you dont really love degradation, but for some reason when ur high and in subspace you want it really fucking badly. Ask each other ahead of time if you feel comfortable playing along with a situation like that or if you wanna side step it until you're not intoxicated.

How do you know if theyre too out of it to safeword- 1) start small 2) make them practice

1) dont get super crazy drunk/ high for sex, especially when starting out.

2) literally most underrated foreplay ever is making ur partner practice saying no. Touch them, kiss them, do your standard foreplay stuff, and instruct them to randomly safeword or tell you no. As soon as they do, you stop everything and praise them for it, like "Thank you so much for stopping me, you're such a good boy. Wanna keep going?" And then continue as you were. Have them practice safewording like 3-5 times over the course of kinda intensifying foreplay as a good clarity check. Then signal the "game" is over somehow, like saying "ok, ready to go for real now?" This is fun even just for any new kink endeavor btw (i did this a lot with bondage at first!). Its really just to make it feel less scary for both of u to safeword/ react to a safeword, and build trust that youll actually stop immediately, plus it reminds them its an option even if theyre a lil out if it.

YOU SHOULD DO MUCH MORE RESEARCH THAN READING THIS POST TO RNGAGE IN INTOX KINK IRL PLS GOD ok thanks

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Hitch's new outfit

(HE/HIM) 🐁🧀🏳️‍⚧️

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How a butch looks at you when she's thinking about caressing your sensitive pointy ears.

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ur mine

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Remember to eat healthy everyone 🍒🍐🍇🍑🍌

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my latest kink is taking intimate photos of my partners. just look at its smile after i beat its ass with a riding crop 🥰

it takes lots of other fun pictures too...

@killsixbillioncatgirls

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Hitomi redraw + doodle

(SHE/HER) 🐱🏳️‍⚧️