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Date a boy who helps you with your chronic illness

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Confession #3,439

The idea of having a partner or spouse with a disability or chronic illness never bothered me when I was healthy. Being that disabled or chronically ill person in a relationship with a healthy person, though? Very different story.

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Me, the person with memory problems, perfectly aware I have issues with memory: I don’t need to write this down, I’ll remember it

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Pastelfairytears on Facebook

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wow not gonna name any names but SOMEBODY (me) needs 2 calm down!!!!

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Actually want to take a second to send so much love towards bi women who’ve only been with men or who’re scared to be with women or who are with men and closeted or who don’t know if they’ll ever date women because of biphobia and pressures and life as a bi woman. You are all so amazing and important and valued. Your bisexuality is beautiful. You’re so loved here.

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someone: where do you see yourself in 10 years?

me: 

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I drew this image as a reminder to be worn during Pride month!

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I love this.

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Person: Sometimes I forget that you have chronic pain, it’s kinda funny

Me *someone who feels pain every waking moment*: hahahaha, yeah, that must be nice

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There is an immense amount of people who cover up mental health issues with jokes about their mental health

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Up in the club like

My stomach is not feeling well can I have a ginger ale please

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Hey shoutout to

People with “minor” disabilities who aren’t sure if they belong in disabled spaces

People who have rare disabilities and don’t see other people with the same disability, even in disabled spaces

People who’ve been told nothing is wrong with them even though is something clearly wrong that now feel like they’re just making stuff up

People who have been dismissed by doctors because they didn’t fit the image the doctor had of what a “sick” person looked like

People who tried to get help for their problem and are still waiting

People who have unaddressed health problems in general

Y’all are great and deserve the world!

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Pain has taken away my ability to speak to people properly. I get so easily frustrated. Brain fog has taken my ability to remember what I’m talking about , let alone articulate what I want to say . Poor memory and concertration has taken away my words , my thought process , the links from my brain to speech to the point different words come out , things come out back to front . Hell I’ve even forgotten my own name !

Chronic pain problems •

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People who claim they are “assholes” who “don’t give a fuck” are usually the people who give most fucks because they are assholes.

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God I really wish carrying stuffed animals around with you was socially acceptable

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“Trans women are willful women; women who have to insist on being women, who have to keep insisting, again and again, often in the face of violent and repeated acts of misgendering. Any feminists who do not stand up, who do not wave their arms to protest against this misgendering, have become straightening rods.”

— Sara Ahmed, “Living a Lesbian Life” (via coocoolah)