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When it’s time to eat, it’s time to EAT

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I don’t know which is hotter…

The fact that I’m buying a dozen muffins to stuff today or the fact that I’m winded and tired just from carrying the muffins from the bakery to the check-out

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They look good on you 😍

I just really love cheeseburgers 🍔

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What kind of cake would you demolish? Cheesecake? Ice cream cake? Regular cakes?

Regardless of which, you should definitely eat it and show us the results....for scientific purposes of course!

I’m a simple man: chocolate cake. The Bruce scene does things to me.

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Would you say you have more shirts that show your lower tummy vs shirts that fit you?

Yes, but only recently. It felt like 2x-3x went by in a blink. I’m now struggling to if I should go 5X or just admit it and get 6x.

Thoughts?

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How many families can you eat for?!

Do you mean on like a daily level? On a daily level, I probably eat what 3 average adults would eat.

For a single meal on an empty belly? I can probably eat for 7.

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Does the “Mechanic Belly” vibes do anything for you?

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I need to find a general contractor now

Who's moving in with me? 🥰

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I’m so high and easily enabled right now. Can someone talk me through eating a cake…and then we’ll see

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Been a bit under the weather the past few days. Really hoping I wake up tomorrow return to my normally scheduled gluttony.

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Heard it was fat-ass-Friday

Here's to a great start for the weekend!

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Do you still find yourself using female feeders from time to time to get your fill?

That’s a fair and direct question that doesn’t have a direct answer, but to give one: no.

There are feeders who I message and the vibe is they only want the sexual aspect and nothing more. What does that mean to me? I’ll send follow-up messages and get nothing but silence back unless it’s about me eating or gaining. Personally, I don’t see anything wrong with this as we all have urges and needs, but I don’t put much emotional effort towards those situations.

With all that said, am I perfect? No. Even as recently as six months ago, I thought a situation was mutual and communication was clear on what we wanted. However, they felt differently. I can respect they feel differently and want them to be heard and seen, but it was also shocking as, at least to me, I tried to do everything right. Who was right and wrong in this case study? It’s genuinely hard for me to say. What I can confidently say is my motive and intentions are pure and never to make anyone feel like they are being used.

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can you elaborate more on how you used to be “one of the bad ones” and the way you were able to come out a better person? I think it may be really beneficial to have something like this out there - a positive story, role model, whatever - to show there is a way out from possible radicalization. (If not then plz don’t worry about it).

I’m far from a role model, at least I feel. But, I’ll share my story for what it’s worth and appreciate the ask.

While I enjoyed feedism immensely, previously, there was so much hidden guilt and embarrassment around liking it. To be clear: that guilt and embarrassment was all internal. So, while I would engage and talk with feeders, once I had my “fix” I would go silent or use them. I hate typing that, but it’s an honest reflection of who I was.

I started therapy and reached a point of “fuck it” so I was extremely open with them about this, including fantasies of being too fat to walk, but a genuine interest in being massively fat. What I feared was I would be told it had to be fixed and I either didn’t want to give it up or couldn’t…hard to tell which one was true. But, to my surprise, they were kind and supportive. I found, over time, the more I normalized this and made it as aspect of me and not everything or nothing, it just kinda melded into my life.

Now, do I still get looks? Yes. Am I embarrassed? Not 99% of the time as I genuinely love being fat. And I’ve learned that healing isn’t a destination but a spectrum. So, when I stopped putting so much pressure on myself, I found some more peace.

So, what worked for me was acceptance, learning I’m not “broken”, and keeping an open door to this in my life to prevent peaks and valleys. Not sure how this would translate for others, but it has helped me and now I’m fat and happily growing.

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Male Feedees: this is true. Sadly, I used to be one of the bad ones. Therapy and acceptance go a long way.

Unpopular opinion incoming! The problem is not that there's a shortage of female feeders. The problem is that there's a shortage of kind and considerate male feedees. 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Are you looking for a relationship? Or just looking for a feeder?

Ideally a relationship, but I will not turn down just a feeder at all

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Hi! You ever still use your kik?

I haven’t been on in a while. Southernman1987 for those who wanna message.

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Do you like your moobs?

Yup. I want them HUGE.