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some of y'all need to learn how to accept hospitality. stop assuming people are only offering to look after you out of twisted obligation that they don't actually want to do. when you assume that, you are often denying someone the opportunity to genuinely show a friend or stranger love. even if you don't really care about what they're offering, it's respectful of their desire to be kind to accept it anyways.

i had a bunch of girls i've never met over for a women's group. every single one of them denied my offer to make them tea (despite already making myself a mug anyways), get them water, a scone, etc.

i can tell when people refuse to let me be a good host because they "don't want to be a bother". like no!! please be a bother!!! i want to serve you and make you comfortable in my home!

not to be like "we live in a society" but really do live in a modern culture than emphasizes individualism to the point where people will reflexively deny any help or kindness from others for fear of treading on their independence. newsflash: dependence on each other is what makes a community. next time someone offers you kindness, accept it instead of making excuses for why you don't need it. otherwise you've robbed both yourself of being loved and someone else from showing love.

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are you ever like damn why is literally everyone else scared of openly communicating and being direct and truthful and honest

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i think everyone should be a little gay... just my opinion

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by benedikteroness

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by: もんんも

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Poppy, Zig (2023)

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+ a couple of bonus pictures: a 4-leaf clover I found last summer & a pretty view

Some pictures of flowers I've taken in the last couple of months🌸

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Some pictures of flowers I've taken in the last couple of months🌸

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