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"i was a transtrender" no you werent. you were just questioning your identity and then you decided that wasn't for you. that's a fucking healthy thing to do. fuck off lmao

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what a good day to remember that butch lesbians (ESPECIALLY trans, poc, and/or fat butch lesbians) aren’t fucking predatory 

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🚨🚨 GAZ SIGHTING 🚨🚨

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80 Examples of Fandom Antiblackness

Imagine all of these things being a possibility every single time you log in to your 'escape'!

To my Black readers: You are VALID! You are not sensitive, not 'overreacting', and you had every right to be hurt by the way you've been treated. These are not isolated events! And if people won't stop being racist, they should continue to feel uncomfortable for being so!

To my nonBlack readers: You are not an ally for NOT doing these things, but for STANDING AND SPEAKING UP when they do.

(So APPARENTLY Tumblr won't let you zoom in on Desktop, but I put the lists in the Image Description! Sorry 😬 i did not know Tumblr doesn't allow zoom in on desktop. It's easier to zoom in on mobile.)

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What my followers don't know is that each night i pick one at random to locate and guard while they sleep. because i care

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on a similar note to that 'i think a lot of you guys forget people hate women' post; I think a lot of you guys forget how bad racism truly is and how deeply pervasive and entrenched antiblackness is.

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Have I sent this in before? If so just delete...

Giving the 141 a haircut and/or helping them shave. 🥵😍🥰

I made this completely self-indulgent because I'm sick AF and because I can. :)

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Price who can’t keep his stash trimmed without a little help. It’s always a Sunday ritual (if he’s home). He sits in a chair with you straddling his lap, legs dangling over the sides of his thighs. Taking your time, you lather up shaving cream or oil, shaving away the stubble and trimming the longer hairs. When he’s all freshened up, Price likes to reward your efforts with slow, languid kisses. Then he's pulling your panties to the side and adjusting himself until you're sinking down on him for a quick ride.

You don’t shave or trim Ghost’s hair. He does it for you instead. While watching a movie or television show together, he oils up your legs, using a barber’s razor to slowly shave them. When he’s done with your legs, he works on your bikini line. He always gives you a kiss over your underwear, and if he’s feeling a little frisky, he’ll move them to the side and give himself a taste.

Soap can’t shave to save his life, which is why you always do it for him, sitting on the bathroom counter after he’s fresh out of the shower, turning his face this way and that as you try to get him clean but he’s far more interested in trying to nip your fingers and kiss you which only results in you accidentally nicking him.

Gaz usually takes care of his own grooming on special occasions, but he adores it when you offer. He’ll stay perfectly still for you as you cut his hair or shave his face. He gives you little positive comments and reaches out to brush his hand against your leg or against your hip or thigh. When you’re done, he loves wrapping his arms around you to pull you in for a few sweet kisses.

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rip joan didion you would’ve hated “just a girl” ism and the outcome of the 2024 election

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"do you want women competing against trans athletes" yes? I also want women competing against male athletes. and competing alongside them. because segregating sports by gender is extremely shitty actually?

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honestly if simon's painfully blunt in regular conversation, i feel he'd be the same during sex. he puts all thoughts on the table without hesitation lmao. if he feels good, you're gonna know it because he's gonna say it.

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Okay something that bothers me is the fact physics is seen as the more prestigious of the three main sciences, with biology at the bottom and chemistry in the middle. Like. I doubt most people could name a famous biologist, but they could name 5 famous physicists. Why are Albert Einstein and Stephen hawking household names but Norman Borlaug and Jonas Salk aren't?

Not to dismiss the accomplishments of Einstein or Hawking, or their genius, but their actual tangible contributions to society have been miniscule compared to that of Borlaug or Salk who have each saved LITERALLY hundreds of millions, if not billions, of lives each. Half the food on your plate was probably grown thanks to Borlaug and Salk is the reason half your siblings didn't die of polio as a kid.

Sure Einsteins theory of relatively is important for modern satellite communications but really though how can it compare?

This is coming from someone who studied physics. I love physics, and years ago when i was at uni I looked down at biology and so did everyone else studying physics. And I know others did too. Retroactively of course I know this was so very wrong.

If society as a whole started treating biology with more respect then maybe more students would go into that field. If we had rockstars of medicine and agricultural science that were household names rather than just physicists? think of how many more lives could be saved, how many more lives could be improved.

I'm not saying physics isn't important, and more scientists of any kind is always good, but proportionally I think societies priorities are a little skewd.

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I don't see people talking about this so today is the 110th anniversary of the Triangle Shirtwaist Factory fire, in where the factory owners locked working women and girls inside to "eliminate the risk of theft" (in reality it was too keep them from taking breaks), which resulted in the gruesome deaths of 123 mostly immigrant women and girls and 23 men, many of whom jumped to their deaths from the ninth floor either in a panicked attempt to escape or in order to die quickly. There were reports that some of the workers were on fire already as they jumped.

The eighth floor of the building was able to telephone the tenth floor to warn them about the fire, but the factory on the ninth floor where these women and girls labored had no such communication and such warning.

The factory owners were criminally charged with manslaughter for actions that contributed to the mass deaths but acquitted. However, this tragedy led to mass sympathy to the labor movement, and unions spurred on safety regulations that passed in New York state and eventually the entire country, and activists were able to reduce child labor in the process.

This tragedy is a reminder that has been forgotten in the 110 years since: every safety regulation-- every scrap of paperwork contributing to the hundreds of pages of red tape people like to complain about--every word of it was written in the blood of a laborer.

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a society that allows people to starve when there is food has failed. like. that’s it.

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unrelated but one of the bad fanfiction lines that has been trapped in my head for LITERALLY 22 years was a beauty and the beast fanfic in which belle said “be careful, im a virgin in my vagina”. this has been on the tip of my tongue threatening to burst out of my mouth for decades

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Do you have an feelings on the term chubby vs fat? Is one term more inclusive? I've noticed a lot of people use the term chubby for a reader more than fat.

If a reader was described as chubby would you still feel included or does it necessarily just refer to smaller plus-sized people? I've also seen "curvy" used as well. Would than make you feel included or nah?

self report as someone around 250-300lbs, i'm like,,, am I "chubby"? XD

In my fics I do want to also include smaller plus size AND larger plus sized people but I'm nervous about what term fits the biggest range, ya know? I was curious about your thoughts. I'm worried the smaller plus-sizers still find "fat" icky. Maybe plus-size is the safest word?

whoo boy. i won't lie, i heard kill bill sirens reading this.

so my polite answer is to use whatever term you resonate with most when you write. it's your fic, use whatever term you like best.

however.

i am very much team 'just say fat'.

bc in terms of my own feelings? i will cunt punt anyone who calls me 'chubby'. babies are chubby. puppies are chubby. the occasional raccoon is chubby. i am a fully grown woman and i am fat, god dammit. when i read 'chubby' and 'curvy' and whatever other terms people have invented to describe fat bodies without saying the actual word, it doesn't resonate with me at all.

if i see a fic tagged 'chubby reader' or 'curvy reader' i straight up won't read it, not because i don't like fat reader fics (i do!), but because i don't think that author views being fat the same way i view it. i know in my heart that fic is going to have some self-loathing, 'but how could they love me when i look like this?' shit, and i am so beyond over that. i did my time as a self-loathing fat girl, now that i've fought my way through that shit i wanna read about fat joy, fat excellence, or at least being fat in a wholly neutral way.

imho using cutesy little terms that dance around saying the word 'fat' is just straight up cowardice to me. it's like the fat version of saying 'graped' and 'unalived', but it just happens to have a longer history in our culture. i strongly prefer 'fat' to a lot of the other euphemisms we've coined in order to not say fat, because, frankly, there's no fucking shame in being fucking fat. just say the word itself! it doesn't bite!

acting like 'fat' is a bad or mean or hurtful or 'icky' word is childish imho. 'curvy' denotes a certain body type that not all fat folks have (shoutout to the flat-chested and flat-assed fat broads out there), and 'plus size' is just a marketing term that thin people invented in order to categorize our clothes so they can more easily add a fat tax and charge us more for the same style clothes that thin people wear.

after all, it's called the fat acceptance movement, fat liberation, fat activism, fat empowerment. it is not the 'chubby acceptance movement', or 'curvy liberation', for crying out loud.

(also not that you asked but imho 'body positivity' is frankly a useless buzzword anymore- defanged to simply mean 'this dove campaign has one size twelve model in it plus winnie harlow' instead of 'we are including and showcasing people who are not only all sizes and body types, but also physically disabled and disfigured folks, too'.)

i am fat. you are fat. that is in no way a moral judgement, just a statement of fact. censoring what we are for the comfort of other (smaller) people is something i think most fat people need to unlearn, pronto. that's the shit that has us apologizing for taking up space and existing in public, and i have had e-fucking-nough of it.

because, really, what does refusing to use the word 'fat' actually do? it just further stigmatizes not only the word itself but also the people who could easily be described with it. 'plus-size' is not the 'safest' word, it's the one that a society that hates you has told you to use so they don't have to think about fat people existing.

bc darlin', there are people who think my entire existence is 'icky', and no matter what i do, it always will be. i don't care if they don't like the word fat. when i grab my belly, that's what i have a handful of. same with my thighs, hips, ass, upper arms, chin, you name it. i got a nice thick layer of it on me, and i love myself too much to let myself be ashamed of it anymore.

so yeah, tl:dr my thoughts are 'i absolutely loathe all of those terms' and 'just say fat, for the love of god'.