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We'd make such cute porn together

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Double penetration bc I like symmetry <3

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what if someone stronger grabbed me and shoved me against a wall or pinned me down and used me and did whatever they wanted with me HAHAHA what if

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how do i politely tell someone i want them to fuck me until i cry

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guided masturbation is so hot to me. the inherent submission of not even getting to decide how you touch yourself can't be beat

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trans without dysphoria

Today I fell in the “can you be transgender without dysphoria” debate rabbit hole and I spent a substantial amount of time listening to people (both trans and cis to my surprise) commenting on how you can or cannot be transgender without dysphoria. I am not here to judge those opinions and I am not interested in doing so either, or add mine to the party, because it is irrelevant (as it doesn’t change anything in the grant scheme of things).  However, I would like to point at something that I noticed during this small investigation. When I started looking into the subject, at first I came across the opinions of the people who I already follow (mostly transmasculine people, as I am a transguy myself). Their opinions were not consistent, there were opinions of both sides of the debate and some in-between. This is not what I found interesting though.  What was really interesting to me was that each and everyone of the videos that I watched and the opinion pieces that I’ve read (as I did search for more content through the day) were actually saying, in one way or another that they do not identify with the lack of dysphoria situation, as they themselves experienced dysphoria as part of being trans; and the only difference between them, was that the ones who believed that you can be trans without dysphoria, clarified that they respect that “some” individuals may identify with that, and that “some” people may experience being transgender without dysphoria. 

After watching a bunch of videos like that, repeating the same “some people might” and “we don’t want to erase people who might”, I tried to actually find those people. Find people on the internet who actually say they are transgender and haven’t experienced any type of dysphoria, ever. Needless to say, I couldn’t. I don’t know if it’s because these people feel attacked or at risk so they are not visible, or if these potential people don’t exist, but it’s really interesting to me how we are basing a relatively big community debate, around opinions that have nothing to do with the people that might actually experience this, if there are any. 

People share their opinions about how you can or can’t be trans if you don’t experience dysphoria, but I don’t see any people claiming no dysphoria and being trans, actively participating in the debate.  Which makes me think, that the whole thing is obsolete and pointless in the first place. 

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I’m 113% sick of everyones shit

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true trans boy culture is trying to figure out whether you’re attracted to a guy or whether he’s your transition goals

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