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put me in my place (between your legs, sucking your cock dumbly while you stroke my hair)

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Reblog this if your cunt is wet and you need rape threats in your DMs.

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please & thanks

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need a thumb in my mouth and some fingers in my pussy

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dom who jerks off in front of you and won’t let you touch but they will let you suck their fingers while you watch ://

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sloooooooowly working up to fisting someone

making sure every moment is drenched in lube, teasing and circling their opening until they’re all but begging for you to do something, anything.

gently slipping in the first finger, tight heat gripping you as you push in farther and farther. watching your finger disappear all the way to the knuckle, coaxing them open so sweetly. the pathetic noises they make as you force them to be patient and take what you give them.

finally pulling out to a whine, slapping their thigh in warning before lubing up again and pressing in with two fingers. finding that textured spot that makes their breathing hitch and focusing there, until their moans become incoherent.

a third finger finally makes them tense around you slightly, the stretch a bit more this time. taking the time to properly fuck them open, listening to the way the lube makes those slick, wet noises as you rock your hand into them.

your pinky doesn’t take much to add, and the way they respond sounds like music to your ears. every panted breath, every “oh, fuck”, how they clench around you with every press inward.

when your thumb begins to trace their hole gently, their entire body tenses in expectation. instead, you keep twisting, stroking the opening again and again, feeling the muscles give beneath you. the widest part of your hand starts to slip in all on its own, the wetness of the lube helping ease the way until finally - your entire hand is inside of them.

the deep, animalistic groan they give, the way they flutter around your hand, the obscene noise as your slick hand moves inside of them, the visual of it all? you can’t help but speed up the pace, relishing in the way they strangle your hand inside of them.

“that’s it, sweetheart. lean up on your hands for me, i want you to see how well you’re taking me.”

when they peer between their legs at you, at the way your hand moves inside, at the feral grin that tips your mouth, at the way they’ve enveloped you up to your wrist - the “oooohhhhhhhh, fuuuuuuuuuuuck” that leaves their mouth is nothing short of a revelation.

you’ve always told them that they’d look so good spread open like this. and you’re never wrong.

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What's that? Oh, it's hard to talk when I shove my fingers down your throat during inspection? That's okay. That's why I made you drink that tequila earlier, so you don't have to talk. I am just going to have fun with your body while you lay there helplessly.

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Physical degradation with verbal praising <3

Throw me on the bed and fuck me in a chokehold while telling me what a good boy I am.

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We'd make such cute porn together

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Double penetration bc I like symmetry <3

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what if someone stronger grabbed me and shoved me against a wall or pinned me down and used me and did whatever they wanted with me HAHAHA what if

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how do i politely tell someone i want them to fuck me until i cry

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guided masturbation is so hot to me. the inherent submission of not even getting to decide how you touch yourself can't be beat

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trans without dysphoria

Today I fell in the “can you be transgender without dysphoria” debate rabbit hole and I spent a substantial amount of time listening to people (both trans and cis to my surprise) commenting on how you can or cannot be transgender without dysphoria. I am not here to judge those opinions and I am not interested in doing so either, or add mine to the party, because it is irrelevant (as it doesn’t change anything in the grant scheme of things).  However, I would like to point at something that I noticed during this small investigation. When I started looking into the subject, at first I came across the opinions of the people who I already follow (mostly transmasculine people, as I am a transguy myself). Their opinions were not consistent, there were opinions of both sides of the debate and some in-between. This is not what I found interesting though.  What was really interesting to me was that each and everyone of the videos that I watched and the opinion pieces that I’ve read (as I did search for more content through the day) were actually saying, in one way or another that they do not identify with the lack of dysphoria situation, as they themselves experienced dysphoria as part of being trans; and the only difference between them, was that the ones who believed that you can be trans without dysphoria, clarified that they respect that “some” individuals may identify with that, and that “some” people may experience being transgender without dysphoria. 

After watching a bunch of videos like that, repeating the same “some people might” and “we don’t want to erase people who might”, I tried to actually find those people. Find people on the internet who actually say they are transgender and haven’t experienced any type of dysphoria, ever. Needless to say, I couldn’t. I don’t know if it’s because these people feel attacked or at risk so they are not visible, or if these potential people don’t exist, but it’s really interesting to me how we are basing a relatively big community debate, around opinions that have nothing to do with the people that might actually experience this, if there are any. 

People share their opinions about how you can or can’t be trans if you don’t experience dysphoria, but I don’t see any people claiming no dysphoria and being trans, actively participating in the debate.  Which makes me think, that the whole thing is obsolete and pointless in the first place.