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equiniisms-blog · 8 years ago

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;;// so, an update! I’ll be coming off hiatus very soon, different from what I expected. I passed all my practice GEDs extremely good (besides math which i skimmed OTL) and I have a year-ish to take all four tests, plus I’ve been learning how to drive! The only problem.....right after I finished my last practice test, the motherboard died. And I backed up nothing. So, all my icons are gone. I’m not too upset about that, I didn’t really like Jace’s current icons anyways so it’s an opportunity to change them, but I forgot the email for captcm, and it was a 10 minute mail email, I’m so sad.....

but anyways, I’m gonna be back soon, in the mean time, I’m gonna work on re-making Jace’s icons and trying to get back my sweet Eustis, wish me luck!

#;;// ᵗʰᵉ ˢʰᶦᵐᵐᵉʳᶦᶰᵍ ᵐᵘᶰ ᵗᵃᶫᵏˢ

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Hiatus // Realizing my abuse isn’t justified

So, I don’t really know how to put this. But basically, if you know me, you know I take care of my mother, who also abuses me, but since I don’t really have any other options of living, I’ve stayed with her and put up with her abuse, and told myself that I’m used to it, it’s been six years, I’m used to this by now. But, I realized during an event that tends to trigger an explosion with her, that. I’m not. No matter how much I tell myself that I’m okay with never talking, with giving up my hobbies, my social life, keeping things inside me, over working and breaking my body, and enduring everything, I’m not. Even though I know my mother won’t be satisfied with anything I ever do, and even though I know that she’ll never be happy no matter how much I change to please her, I still feel scared of not doing so. Of not trying. There’s a voice inside me that always tells me that if I just did what she said, if I tried harder, if I took what she said as constructive criticism, and worked harder, that she’d be happy someday. I think every child wants the parent that raised them to be happy; at least, while they’re at their side. But I recognize now that it doesn’t matter what I do, how much I change myself. She’ll never be happy. She’ll never see wrong in herself. I’ll always do something that makes her angry. And I’ll always live in fear of her. I’ve always repeated her words, and other peoples words to myself to make myself get through, telling myself that I deserve this, I deserve to suffer, my mental and physical disabilities are a hindrance, and I should be glad for what she’s done. I should fear losing her. But why? As I looked at things, I realized, all she does is cage me to the home she gives me, and feeds me; nothing more, nothing less. I take care of this home, and it’s inhabitants, including mother herself, alone. Through my whole life, my friends were hand selected for me. I was never allowed to see those friends aside from the setting I met them in. And one way or another, I lost them, because she didn’t like them anymore. She always had 5 or 6 guards watching me, telling her what I was doing. Every phone I’ve ever had was hers too; none of my conversations were left in privacy. When I stopped visiting my father, it was to make her happy. I’ve never been free. And she’s never done anything for me besides the bare essentials. My mother is the one who abuses me, yet she’s the one who’s delusional, forgetful, and debilitated. I fear her, but she’s dependent on me. But I’m only 18. I’m still working on my GED. I’ve never had a friend that I truly egged with in real life. I’ve never had a job, as much as I’ve wanted one. I still don’t know how to drive; she’s put it off for years now. I’m an adult technically, but the only part of adult I know is to let my emotions eat me hollow if I had to in order to keep them from eyes.

So, basically, as much as I don’t want to, I’m going to leave equiniisms and captcm. I’m going to focus on finishing my GED, teaching myself if I have to how to drive, figure out some way to find a job, and I’m going to, most importantly, find a way to leave my home. Because no one deserves abuse. No one deserves this. No matter how much I try to excuse it. So, wish me luck. If you’d like to keep in touch, you can IM me, and I’ll give you my skype.

But until then, I hope things get better. For me, for you, for everyone.

Mihairu, the Shimmering Mun.

#;;// ᵗʰᵉ ˢʰᶦᵐᵐᵉʳᶦᶰᵍ ᵐᵘᶰ ᵗᵃᶫᵏˢ #//abuse #//abuse tw #tw abuse #abuse #emotional abuse #just wanna make sure this doesn't trigger anyone

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equiniisms-blog · 8 years ago

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I’m sorry. Thank you guys for keeping me alive this long. I love you all. I hope you have a good day. Goodbye.

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equiniisms-blog · 8 years ago

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nikifcrcv:

He rested on his palm as he sat calmly. He sipped at his coffee as he watched Jace smile. Victor liked how Jace’s usual calm would turn to smile. How his handsome features lit up with excitement. “Good. I can make reservations and I’ll pick you up tonight? Nothing too fancy: just somewhere nice. How’s that sound for an apology for last night?”

❝That sounds perfect!❞

He was ecstatic, and as much as he tried to hide it, he miserably failed. The giddy feeling inside of him simply couldn’t be held back, as his smile grew wider.

❝But...you don’t have to apologize for last night~❞

#» │▌ᵀʰᵉ ˢᵒᵐᵇᵉʳ ᶜᵒᶫᵗ ⁽ᶦᶜ⋅⁾#nikifcrcv #» │▌ ᵛʸᵃᵗᵏᵃ ᴸᵒˢʰᵃᵈ ⁽ᴶᵃᶜᵉ ﹠ ᵛᶦᶜᵗᵒʳ⁾

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nikifcrcv:

“None at all,” Victor confirmed with another brief grip of Jace’s hands. He met Jace’s gaze through his glasses and offered a warm sigh, “I’m – really glad that we didn’t go further than we did. If we did — I would regretted taking advantage of you like that.”

“Is dinner tonight too soon, Jace?”

❝Ah, no.....❞

For the first time in this meeting, Jace let a small smile grow upon his face. It was disconcerting, but.....he trusted Victor. And though he didn’t feel he deserved him, he wanted to stay with Victor. It was stupid, and it would probably wear off, but for now, he wanted to stay.

❝No, thats good. I’d.....love to.❞

#» │▌ᵀʰᵉ ˢᵒᵐᵇᵉʳ ᶜᵒᶫᵗ ⁽ᶦᶜ⋅⁾#nikifcrcv #» │▌ ᵛʸᵃᵗᵏᵃ ᴸᵒˢʰᵃᵈ ⁽ᴶᵃᶜᵉ ﹠ ᵛᶦᶜᵗᵒʳ⁾

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