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A LOT CAN HAPPEN IN A MONTH. TRUST GOD.

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Chrissy la’parriea Smith

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Stop Waiting for Motivation

If I waited around for the “right” moment to feel inspired, I’d still be stuck in the same place I was last year. Motivation is fleeting—it comes and goes based on how I feel, but the real power is in discipline and consistency.

I show up every single day because I know my goals don’t care about my moods. My dreams don’t ask if I’m tired or unmotivated—they just demand action. Motivation doesn’t create success—habits do. The most successful people don’t rely on motivation to get started; they make success a non-negotiable part of their daily routine. That’s why I don’t wait for motivation. I’ve learned to make it irrelevant. I don’t need to feel excited—I just need to show up and that’s when magic happens for me and I get what I want.

I don’t want to go to the gym 80% of the time, yet I still go. I don’t want to go to work, but I still strive to be one of the youngest and top in my industry. And if you think about it, why do you need motivation in the first place? Your motivation should be you bettering yourself and/or making yourself proud. If that’s not enough motivation for you, then you probably are comfortable where you are in your life and change doesn’t mean that much to you.

That’s the harsh reality no one talks about. You’re so comfortable with where you are now, that you don’t mind another day being where you currently are. If that rubbed you the wrong way, then your motivation should be nonstop from here on out.

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No-Cost Ways to Channel your Inner-Billionaire Heiress

• Transform your social media feed by unfollowing anyone or anything that doesn’t inspire you. Replace them with luxury fashion, travel accounts, and motivational content that exudes main character energy.

•Perfect a signature look that feels expensive, like a glowing, clean girl aesthetic or sleek, polished hair. Consistency is key to looking effortlessly put-together.

• Declutter and organize your space to create a minimalist, chic vibe. Rearrange your wardrobe, color-code your books, and elevate your environment using what you already have.

• Elevate your language by speaking with clarity and confidence. Replace slang with sophisticated phrases, expand your vocabulary, and project poise with your words.

• Dedicate time to mastering a high-end skill, such as learning basic French, practicing calligraphy, or perfecting your posture. These refined touches will elevate your allure.

• Walk with purpose, keeping your head high and shoulders back. A confident, poised stride radiates wealth and sophistication without costing a dime.

• Refine your conversation skills by asking thoughtful questions and listening attentively. Being the woman who can command attention at a dinner party is an undeniable luxury.

• Add personalized touches to everything in your life. Monogram your notebooks with a pen or stencil, or name your playlists something luxe, like Champagne Mornings or Velvet Evenings.

• Indulge in sensory experiences that feel lavish. Brew tea and sip it slowly from a fancy cup, listen to classical music, or moisturize as though you’re at a five-star spa.

• Master “quiet luxury” poses for your photos. Subtle, minimalist poses like soft smiles, graceful hand placements, and flattering angles will make every picture feel effortlessly elegant.

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Put yourself first. Do what works for you. Go after what you want. Worry about how you feel. Look after yourself. Prioritize yourself. Challenge yourself. Make yourself proud.

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A well-balanced morning routine

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A well-balanced morning routine

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How to develop discipline:

1. Set clear goals. What do you want to accomplish and why does it matter to you? Break the goals into small, actionable steps (feels doable).

2. Create a daily schedule that prioritizes most important items on the list. Keep it consistent to form habits over time.

3. Start small. Focus on one discipline building habit at a time to avoid getting overwhelmed. Gradually increase your commitments little by little.

4. Get rid of distractions that hinder your focus (e.g., social media during work).

5. Use accountability partners if possible. And/or track your habits. Use an app or check off from your list (this feels so good!)

6. Have self control! Resist small urges to build willpower (e.g., delay instant gratification). Commit to showing up even when you don’t feel like it. Especially when you don’t feel like it.

7. Stay consistent. Discipline is built by sticking to your commitments daily, not just when it’s convenient. Progress, not perfection is what matters.

8. Embrace the discomfort. Challenges are growth opportunities. Train yourself to act despite discomfort or boredom.

9. Celebrate every win & reward yourself for milestones to stay motivated.

10. Reflect on failures without judgment and adjust your plan. You will have to adjust your plans quite a few times. Don’t get set in your ways.

11. Spend time with disciplined and goal oriented people. You become who you surround yourself with. Their habits will inspire and influence you positively.

12. Keep your WHY in mind.

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