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Hope you die soon you disgusting pig

i will

be patient

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you know what? you know fucking what?

if im not a good person in 2 years then i'll do it

if i can't be a good person then i'd rather not be alive at all

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vent

one day i wish i can fully kill myself

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Is- is it true? Is it true that Proud Hufflepuff is Heartslabyul hatter?? I’m sorry, but I’m just sitting here trying to think all of this is true or not-

You should probably check @kulfidraws 's acc to see their evidence because I'm too dumb to explain all this

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Alright, logging in one last time.

I’ve recently been sent this very concerning doc regarding Proud Hufflepuff from this instagram account. As some of you might already be aware, I am not her first victim of harassment and this doc outlines in detail all of her previous cases of harassment which she has gotten away with it scotch-free and without any apology towards any of her previous victims. It also includes irrefutable evidence that Proud Hufflepuff = The Heartslabyul Hatter.

This should really hit the nail on the hammer of how you all are letting a grown women run around completely unchecked. Like I said before, this fandom is a hellhole and I’ve already seen so many creators leaving the fandom. Maybe y’all should sit down and re-evaluate why there are so many weirdos and creeps roaming free. Hold people accountable for once.

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An Analysis On the-heartslabyul-hatter's Posts

tw: gaslighting, general toxic behavior

Disclaimer: If you don’t know what’s going on, I’d suggest asking someone else to recap what’s been happening because I don’t trust myself enough to accurately describe what’s happening and I don’t wanna spread misinformation. I don’t know the absolute full situation myself but I’m just sort of— thinking out loud?

Also take this with a grain of salt. This is merely me trying to study the behavior and actions of this individual. Please don't, by any means, send any hate to Hatter. This post is an analysis, not meant to spread hate.

Why I'm doing this :: Alright, so— Perhaps I don’t have a right to talk about this since I am not a good person. I know this for a fact. I have done some messed up shit and I’ve been a toxic friend/partner/etc. I’ve gaslit people, manipulated friends, and hurt people I claimed to care about. The real reason I’m taking medication right now and having therapy is because I didn’t want to hurt people. And I may not be a good person but hopefully— With enough patience, effort, therapy, and honest self reflection, I’ll be able to be an okay person.

However, I thought that it would be a learning experience for me and the people who read this if I tried to study Hatter's words and posts.

First Observation

In the first screenshot above, you can see that Hatter is claiming to be concerned with Kulfi getting in trouble with the law. But in the second screenshot above, she calls her stupid and immature, then proceeds to laugh and ridicule her. This implies contradictory behavior.

Now, I did some research and found that this may also be considered gaslighting:

This seems to fall in line with how Hatter was talking about Kulfi. She's expressing concern but also ridiculing her.

I also managed to find more screenshots from a deleted callout post of hers where this seemed to have started. First she says she's concerned, then immediately insults her.

Then there was the fact that if Hatter was truly concerned, then why bring up the fangame to the official twitter if she says that Kulfi could get in ""legal trouble""? What exactly is the reasoning behind that?

Second Observation

The insults, the ridicule, the talking down. This is also considered gaslighting as it likely aims to lower Kulfi's self esteem or make her seem less credible in the eyes of the audience.

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Third Observation

This is Hatter's apology post on the matter. Now, how could this seem like gaslighting exactly? Well, according to this article:

Hatter doesn't seem to address the actual matter at hand: spreading false information on a nonprofit fangame, and instead focuses on different points instead and tries to debunk them so that Kulfi will seem less credible in the eyes of the audience.

She claims to be the "bigger person" but continued to insult Kulfi (a minor, might I remind you) in later posts after the apology.

End Notes

I am aware that with my past, I may not be the most credible person to talk about this topic. But personally I believe that if I truly wanted to become better, I must educate myself better on this topic. And what better way to learn than to analyse and understand the signs of gaslighting.

Putting that aside, feel free to give feedback on this post. I am not always aware if I've made an error or not since I tend to make careless mistakes. I am open to discussing this topic but please, please, be civil

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writing commission post

All payments or tips will be made through Paypal or Ko-fi. All commissioners will pay half of the total price upfront and the remaining half after the final product has been sent.

Matchups and Dorm/Country sortings will be paid in full upfront.

For cases where I go beyond the agreed word count, the extra words shall be free of charge.

If you're looking for something that isn't in the menu, please don't hesitate to DM me!

menu:

$5: Dorm Sorting (TWST) OR Country Sorting (MHYK) OR character matchups

$7: A scenario with a 500-700 word count OR headcanons of 2-3 characters of your choice

$12: A scenario with a 1200-1500 word count OR headcanons of 6 characters of your choice.

I will write:

Self-inserts or OC/Canon

Fluff, Angst, AUs

OCs (with references)

I will NOT write:

NSFW

Fandoms I am willing to write for:

Twisted Wonderland

Promise of Wizard (Mahoyaku)

A3!

Genshin Impact

Status: Open!

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in tears of themis, we get to receive... visions... from a goddess-

sounds familiar, mihoyo

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macaroni klein ❥ mhyk!sona profile

“Because I owe every movement, every breath, every thought to him, I want to learn what it means to exist on my own terms.”

​​art by @colet_commiss!

➳ About

Macaroni (マカロニ) is a witch that resides within the Western Country. Deeply romantic but a bit naïve at times, their interests and dislikes are clearly defined. Accompanying Rustica and Chloe, Macaroni travels alongside the two in Rustica’s search for his missing bride. Once used to be a painting, who came to life after being touched by Rustica’s dedication to his love.

➳ Information

Kanji: マカロニ

Other aliases: Macaroni Klein, Mac, Juno

Affiliation: Western Country

Height: 154 cm, 139 cm (painting form)

Age: ~70

Birthday: 06/18

Magic tool: Opera binoculars

Skill: Admiring art, hiding

Spell: Hyacintho Vero

Likes: Rustica, art museums

Strengths: Romanticizing everything

Weaknesses: Thinking logically

Injury from the Great Calamity: Secretes blue paint whenever they’re excited

Crest appearance: Small of their back

➳ Appearance

A bright young adult with a slight feminine charm. Mac has shoulder length black hair and black eyes. In their human form, they don a pair of short overalls and a white turtleneck sweater with a red ribbon in their hair. In their painting form, they wear an off-the-shoulder blue dress with heart patterns scattered onto the fabric. Despite their way of dress, they stay adamant on the fact that they are indeed, genderless.

➳ Personality

Having formally been a painting that gained life after being moved by Rustica’s feelings, Mac holds an unmatched zest and appreciation for life. Their standards for common sense and courtesy are skewed by their own romantic zeal and Rustica’s behavior, and due to this, they often wind up in trouble for thinking with their heart rather than their head.

Open-minded towards everything and everyone, Mac continually gathers knowledge about how to behave as a proper witch. However, they struggle with their own individuality, torn between wanting to become their own person versus contetmplating the fact that they might be nothing more than an extension of Rustica’s longing.

➳ History

A painting that came into Rustica’s possession after catching his eye. Mac listened and listened to Rustica’s longing and belief for a happy future with his bride and, moved by his feelings, took on a physical form to assist with his cause. They’ve travelled with him ever since, even after taking in Chloe as part of their group.

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According to the CDC, in 10 percent of those drownings, the adult will actually watch the child do it, having no idea it is happening. Drowning does not look like drowning—Dr. Pia, in an article in the Coast Guard’s On Scene magazine, described the Instinctive Drowning Response like this:

“Except in rare circumstances, drowning people are physiologically unable to call out for help. The respiratory system was designed for breathing. Speech is the secondary or overlaid function. Breathing must be fulfilled before speech occurs.

Drowning people’s mouths alternately sink below and reappear above the surface of the water. The mouths of drowning people are not above the surface of the water long enough for them to exhale, inhale, and call out for help. When the drowning people’s mouths are above the surface, they exhale and inhale quickly as their mouths start to sink below the surface of the water.

Drowning people cannot wave for help. Nature instinctively forces them to extend their arms laterally and press down on the water’s surface. Pressing down on the surface of the water permits drowning people to leverage their bodies so they can lift their mouths out of the water to breathe.

Throughout the Instinctive Drowning Response, drowning people cannot voluntarily control their arm movements. Physiologically, drowning people who are struggling on the surface of the water cannot stop drowning and perform voluntary movements such as waving for help, moving toward a rescuer, or reaching out for a piece of rescue equipment.

From beginning to end of the Instinctive Drowning Response people’s bodies remain upright in the water, with no evidence of a supporting kick. Unless rescued by a trained lifeguard, these drowning people can only struggle on the surface of the water from 20 to 60 seconds before submersion occurs.”

This doesn’t mean that a person that is yelling for help and thrashing isn’t in real trouble—they are experiencing aquatic distress. Not always present before the Instinctive Drowning Response, aquatic distress doesn’t last long—but unlike true drowning, these victims can still assist in their own rescue. They can grab lifelines, throw rings, etc.

Look for these other signs of drowning when persons are in the water:

Head low in the water, mouth at water level

Head tilted back with mouth open

Eyes glassy and empty, unable to focus

Eyes closed

Hair over forehead or eyes

Not using legs—vertical

Hyperventilating or gasping

Trying to swim in a particular direction but not making headway

Trying to roll over on the back

Appear to be climbing an invisible ladder

So if a crew member falls overboard and everything looks OK—don’t be too sure. Sometimes the most common indication that someone is drowning is that they don’t look like they’re drowning. They may just look like they are treading water and looking up at the deck. One way to be sure? Ask them, “Are you all right?” If they can answer at all—they probably are. If they return a blank stare, you may have less than 30 seconds to get to them. And parents—children playing in the water make noise. When they get quiet, you get to them and find out why.

Source/article: [x]

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https://www.change.org/p/department-of-land-and-natural-resources-protect-pololu-valley

I saw this on Tiktok and thought it needed to be passed on. Pololū Valley is sacred land currently at risk of being developed into yet another "scenic tourist attraction" for profit. Activists like @/melemaikalanimakalapua on Tiktok are fighting to have this petition seen by as many people as possible in order to prevent the senseless destruction of this land.

Note that the petition says not to donate to change.org--donations to change.org do NOT protect Pololū Valley.

I hope that by spreading this to tumblr, I can help it reach more people. Please sign this and reblog it if you can!

https://www.change.org/p/department-of-land-and-natural-resources-protect-pololu-valley

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Hi, I saw that you're still accepting matchup so I decided to do one too. I'm an INFP. I wouldn't approach someone I don't not know. I would warm up to them really quick. Normally, I'm the mum of the group since my two besties are so chaotic and I would just watch them. I still am pretty chaotic myself. I like music, both singing and listening, drawing and reading novels. My LL is Quality time and act of service. My preferred LL is probably the same but word if affirmation and physical touch from time to time isn't bad to me. My type is someone who can be mature and I can rely on but can also cheer me up at the same time, I guess?

✦ matchup delivery!

I ship you with Rutile because your personalities would mesh well together since he wouldn’t mind if you were a little shy. He’d have no problem approaching you and befriending you. He likes that you’re the mom friend and would understand you well. Rutile would be happy to spend time with you and give you comforting words along with some cuddles. Also I personally think he fits your type well!

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Someone like Snow or White? Shylock? I'm honestly not sure who I'd ship with Mika either-

I can see the twins! Not too sure about Shylock but I think they’d still have a good relationship

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OC/canon and selfships are good y’all are just scared of having fun

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hey i’m sorry but me and my mom really need help. we’re homeless and both disabled. because of our disabilities, being homeless has been extremely hard on us - especially on my mom, who is 59 with her health deteriorating day by day. not to mention that it’s over 100 degrees f almost every day where we are, and this just puts more of a toll on us. we’ve exhausted our search for any local help and nothing has worked out so we’re on our own. my mom gets disability payments but it is not enough to survive off of. we literally just need help surviving as long as possible until we can figure something out bc this is an actual deadly situation and i just don’t know what to do. literally any amount would help us so much, and if you can’t/don’t want to donate then reblogging this would be very much appreciated. thank you for taking the time to read this. 

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