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When will you stop blaming me for all the pain that I've received from you?

When will you stop blaming me for everything that happened to us? And when will you choose to understand me for everything that I feel right now?

We both want a peaceful mind, but we always end up fighting and hurting each other. Both of us are so hurt that nobody wants to give in. You said that you know how vulnerable I am, but instead of protecting me, you chose to hurt me over and over again. You used my vulnerability to destroy me.

How could you tell me you love me when you only watch me repeatedly lose myself because of you? How could you say you care for me when you always make me feel so unwanted?

I wish you had told me that loving you would hurt like this. In my heart, I know that I've been loving you with everything I have for so long, but you made me feel like everything was not enough.

You made me feel as if it was all my fault that our relationship was ruined. You made me feel so small that I can't even learn to love myself. You know that I would do everything for you, so you are not afraid to take me for granted because you know that I will always come back.

But honestly, I am so sick of settling for less. When will you stop treating me poorly? When will you stop hurting me and then blaming me for feeling hurt? All I know is that I love you unconditionally, but that is not enough reason to allow you to hurt me a thousand times.

This time I'm not coming back 💯💯👋

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"Even the smallest lie can break the biggest trust." This profound statement underscores the fragility of trust and the importance of honesty in all relationships. Trust is a fundamental building block of any meaningful connection, and even minor dishonesty can undermine this vital foundation, leading to significant consequences.

Trust takes time to build but can be shattered in an instant. When someone lies, no matter how small or seemingly insignificant the lie, it creates a crack in the trust that has been established. This breach can lead to doubt, suspicion, and a reevaluation of the relationship. The person who has been lied to may begin to question other aspects of the relationship, wondering what else might be untrue.

Honesty fosters transparency and openness, which are essential for building strong, lasting connections. When we are truthful, we show respect for others and value the integrity of the relationship. Even in difficult situations, choosing honesty demonstrates courage and a commitment to maintaining trust.

On the other hand, a single lie, no matter how minor, can erode the trust that has been painstakingly built over time. It can make the other person feel betrayed and undervalued. This loss of trust can be difficult to repair, as it requires rebuilding the relationship from a place of skepticism and hurt.

"Even the smallest lie can break the biggest trust." Let this statement remind us of the importance of honesty in all our interactions. Strive to maintain integrity in your words and actions, understanding that trust is a precious and delicate commodity. Recognize that even small lies can have a significant impact, and prioritize honesty as a cornerstone of your relationships. By doing so, you create a foundation of trust that can withstand challenges and grow stronger over time.

[eleonordiza]

"Even the smallest lie can break the biggest trust." This profound statement underscores the fragility of trust and the importance of honesty in all relationships. Trust is a fundamental building block of any meaningful connection, and even minor dishonesty can undermine this vital foundation, leading to significant consequences.

Trust takes time to build but can be shattered in an instant. When someone lies, no matter how small or seemingly insignificant the lie, it creates a crack in the trust that has been established. This breach can lead to doubt, suspicion, and a reevaluation of the relationship. The person who has been lied to may begin to question other aspects of the relationship, wondering what else might be untrue.

Honesty fosters transparency and openness, which are essential for building strong, lasting connections. When we are truthful, we show respect for others and value the integrity of the relationship. Even in difficult situations, choosing honesty demonstrates courage and a commitment to maintaining trust.

On the other hand, a single lie, no matter how minor, can erode the trust that has been painstakingly built over time. It can make the other person feel betrayed and undervalued. This loss of trust can be difficult to repair, as it requires rebuilding the relationship from a place of skepticism and hurt.

"Even the smallest lie can break the biggest trust." Let this statement remind us of the importance of honesty in all our interactions. Strive to maintain integrity in your words and actions, understanding that trust is a precious and delicate commodity. Recognize that even small lies can have a significant impact, and prioritize honesty as a cornerstone of your relationships. By doing so, you create a foundation of trust that can withstand challenges and grow stronger over time.

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Love isn’t always perfect. It isn’t a fairytale or a storybook. And it doesn’t always come easy. Love is overcoming obstacles, facing challenges, fighting to be together, holding on & never letting go. It is a short word, easy to spell, difficult to define, & impossible to live without. Love is work, but most of all, Love is realizing that every hour, every minute, & every second was worth it because you did it together.

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She deserves to know that you will always put her first. She deserves to know that you will always be faithful, loving and trusting towards her. She deserves to know that you will always be her protector. She deserves to know that she can always count on you for support. She deserves to smile multiple times a day. She deserves to be treated so well, it will make other women jealous of her. She deserves to be loved for who she is, and not for who you want her to be. She deserves to laugh like she doesn't have a worry in the world. She deserves to have a man she can hold hands and walk together with spiritually. She deserves to be spoken to with respect. She deserves whatever makes her feel like she is truly the only woman in the world.

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We are human beings, no matter how great our strengths, there is always a weak side in us that needs to be repaired.

The soul is sometimes weak, the heart is burdened by the weariness of the days, and the mind seeks rest from the noise of thoughts.

Don't let yourself end up in silence. Renew your commitment to life.

Find what lights you up,

Read what pleases your mind,

Listen to the verses that revive your heart.

Dance to the tunes of your childhood innocence that still lives within you.

Don't allow time to erase your pure personality.

You are not a date to be locked away, but a life that deserves to be lived with complete madness and beauty.

Always remember that there is a little child inside of you that never grows up.

Don't silence her voice and don't imprison her with the burden of puberty.

Give him space so he can see the world with awe-inspiring eyes.

Be able to feel the joy of small things.

This child is one of your most beautiful remains. Don't let it go out.

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"I am making a home inside myself.

A shelter of kindness where everything

is forgiven, everything allowed—

A quiet patch of sunlight to stretch out without hurry, where all that has been banished and buried is welcomed, spoken, listened to—released.

A fiercely friendly place I can claim as my very own.

I am throwing arms open to the whole of myself—

Especially the fearful, fault-finding, falling apart, unfinished parts,

Knowing every seed and weed, every drop

of rain, has made the soil richer.

I will light a candle, pour a hot cup of tea, gather around the warmth of my own blazing fire.

I will howl if I want to, knowing this flame can burn through any perceived problem, Any prescribed perfectionism,

any lying limitation, every heavy thing.

I am making a home inside myself

where grace blooms in grand and glorious

abundance, a shelter of kindness that grows all the truest things.

I whisper hallelujah to the friendly

sky. Watch now as I burst into blossom."

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The hardest reality of life is the "change of time and relationships."

Everything people wish to hold onto—eternal happiness, love, relationships, or cherished moments—eventually changes. Over time, people, their feelings, and their needs also evolve.

Accepting this change, watching loved ones drift away, or adjusting to reality against one's own wishes is one of life's toughest challenges. However, embracing these hard truths and forging new paths is a crucial part of moving forward.

Another truth is that nothing in life is permanent; just as good times come to an end, so do the bad times. Therefore, building a mindset of patience, especially during tough times, is essential.

[eleonordiza]

If someone else doesn’t give you a clear answer,

you can still choose to write your own ending.

If someone leaves without explanation,

you can still choose to give yourself closure.

If someone belittles your dreams,

you can still choose to believe in yourself.

If someone judges you negatively based on your appearance,

you can still choose to embrace your uniqueness.

If someone tries to bring you down,

you can still choose to lift yourself up.

And if someone doesn't appreciate your worth,

you can still choose to value yourself, for the actions and opinions of others

need not affect you or disempower you

if you refuse to allow them to.

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I still hold on to the idea of destiny, even when love feels fragile in today's world. Sometimes, I look around and see relationships falling apart, and it makes me wonder if lasting love is rare.

Deep down, I can't shake the feeling that somewhere, someone is waiting to love us-not just fleetingly, but with a steady, unconditional kind of care that feels like home.

Maybe it's naive, but I believe that kind of love exists. The kind where you're seen and loved for who you truly are, flaws and all. It's not always perfect or easy, but it's real-the kind that stays even when life isn't kind. Maybe that's what destiny truly is: finding the person who's meant to stay, not just when it's convenient, but even in the messiness of everyday life.

[eleonordiza]

Don’t judge what you can‘t understand.

You cannot understand how other people feel and why they behave the way they do. You can only make assumptions.

You only know very small bits of their lives. And you judge upon that what you see.

If you had lived their lives in their particular environments, it is most probable that you would think and behave equally. Always bear that in mind and be gentle.

You don’t know what they are going through ..

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When a woman is consistently spoken to with softness and love, she transforms into a new version of herself—one that radiates abundance, confidence, and peace. The simple act of speaking to her kindly can rewire her nervous system, nurture her inner being, and awaken her feminine energy. This transformation, however, doesn’t happen overnight. It requires commitment, patience, and a deep understanding of the intricate layers of her being.

For a man to consistently embody this level of softness is no easy task. It demands immense effort, not only in understanding her but also in confronting his own inner world. As men, we carry traumas, fears, anxieties, and insecurities from childhood. These unresolved wounds can easily resurface in relationships, triggered by seemingly small things. It’s crucial to recognize that these triggers are not the fault of the woman; rather, they are opportunities for growth and healing.

When a man chooses to speak softly and love deeply, even in moments of conflict, he creates a safe space for a woman to heal. He becomes her sanctuary—a place where her soul can rest. This, in turn, begins to heal generational wounds, not just for her but also for their future children. The ripple effect of this love extends far beyond the present moment.

A woman who feels emotionally, mentally, and spiritually safe allows her feminine energy to blossom. She begins to trust her intuition, her creativity flows effortlessly, and she steps into her full potential. Her heart, once burdened by unspoken traumas, becomes lighter, and her joy becomes infectious. She doesn’t just exist—she thrives. And when she thrives, so does the relationship.

However, this kind of healing partnership requires a man to be deeply introspective. He must be willing to examine his past, uncover the roots of his pain, and take responsibility for his triggers. It’s not easy to admit that present reactions are shaped by unhealed wounds from the past. Yet, awareness is the first step toward transformation.

When a man embarks on his healing journey, he not only changes himself but also creates a profound shift in the woman he loves. His presence becomes more grounded, his words more intentional, and his actions more aligned with love. She feels this shift, giving her the courage to let her walls down. Together, they co-create a relationship rooted in trust, understanding, and deep emotional intimacy.

Supporting a woman’s healing also means learning to listen without judgment. She doesn’t always need solutions; sometimes, she just needs to be heard. In moments of vulnerability, when she shares her fears and insecurities, a man’s calm and loving response can heal wounds she has carried for years.

Consistency is key. It’s not enough to show softness on good days and withdraw it on hard days. True commitment means showing up with love even in difficult moments. This unwavering presence helps a woman feel secure, and security allows her to rest and rejuvenate fully.

So, dear man, when a woman feels loved and respected, she naturally becomes a magnet for abundance. Her energy shifts, her confidence grows, and her ability to attract positive experiences multiplies. This doesn’t just benefit her—it uplifts the man as well, creating a partnership where both individuals grow and flourish.

When a man takes responsibility for healing his own wounds to support a woman’s growth, he isn’t just healing her—he’s healing himself, their relationship, and future generations. This journey is far from easy, but it is one of the most rewarding paths a man can walk. True love isn’t about perfection; it’s about growth, healing, and walking the path of transformation together.

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Sometimes, when everything gets too overwhelming, I just shut myself off.

I ignore the calls, let the messages sit unread, and retreat to a place where I can just be alone. It’s not about running away from anyone – it’s about giving myself space to breathe. There’s a strange comfort in stepping back from the world, letting myself sit in the quiet, and just feeling whatever I need to feel without explaining it to anyone.

I think we all have days like that – when even the smallest noise feels like too much. So I let myself turn it all down. I take time to sort through my own thoughts, to just sit with what’s weighing on me.

It’s not easy, but sometimes, facing it alone brings a kind of calm that nothing else can. And slowly, piece by piece, I find my way back to myself, a little stronger, a little clearer.

[eleonordiza]

Ernest Hemingway once said,

“In our darkest moments, we don’t need advice.”

What we truly need is the power of human connection: a quiet presence, a gentle touch, or the smallest gesture that reminds us we’re not alone. These acts of love and solidarity become the anchors that hold us steady when life feels overwhelming.

Pain is a deeply personal burden, and difficulties are uniquely ours to face—but your silent presence tells me I don’t have to face them in isolation. It’s a quiet reminder that, no matter how lost I feel, I am still worthy of love and connection.

Sometimes, words aren’t necessary; your silent support speaks louder than anything else. Love, in its purest form, has the power to help us rediscover ourselves, even when we’ve forgotten who we are.

Let’s remember the importance of simply being there for one another.

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My father once said,

"If they hurt you, forgive them, but, don't ever forget what they have done to you".

And it has always been a reminder to me everytime I meet someone and know them. But sometimes, it gets tiring. It's frustrating when you show them kindness but only get pain in return. It's sad when you admire them for who they are, but they're busy backstabbing you.

So one time, I asked my father,

"Father, do they deserve my forgiveness?"

He smiled and closed the newspaper he was reading. It has been part of his morning routine-- checking the mail box for something to read.

"Child, everyone deserves to be forgiven. If they did it once, they deserve it. If they did it twice, give them another chance. But, if they did it thrice, then that forgiveness and chance shall be given to yourself".

I had a huge invisible question mark on my face and my eyes screamed confusion. My father noticed it and laughed at me. He then gave me a candy and clasped both of my hands.

"Forgive yourself for believing in them only to get disappointed. Forgive yourself for trusting too much. Forgive yourself for risking another chance for you thought it's for the better. And honey, give yourself a chance to be free. Free from hatred and revenge, and, freedom from your past".

The next morning, I saw him in front of my mother, crying. He was betrayed by his friend of ten years. And when I asked him if he now hates his buddy, he only smiled and shook his head.

"My heart don't have a space for hatred. I don't deserve to suffer from it. I have forgiven him, but, it doesn't mean I have forgotten what he did. So the next time he will see me smiling despite of what had happened, he will know by then who suffered more between us two".

Wiping his tears with his favorite handkerchief, which I gave to him as a birthday present, he added,

"You know what's the best thing to give to someone who hurt you? It's for them to see you living a better life after what they did to you. Honey, we only live once, so you don't need to waste time for people who once left a scar in your heart. Let them see what they have lost. Let them know how they helped you in a good way"

And there I realized, if it wasn't for his words, I guess until now, I am still haunted by things that weren't my fault at all.

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So many people are suffering in relationships today because they refuse to let go of someone who isn't right for them:

They know, deep down, that the relationship isn't working, but they hold on, believing they can change the other person. They convince themselves that if they just try harder, sacrifice more, or love enough, the person will finally "love them back" the way they deserve.

The hardest part is realizing that no matter how much effort they put in, the other person has no intention of changing. They remain stuck, pouring their energy into a relationship that only brings them pain.

If you're in a relationship where the person is causing you more grief than happiness, it's time to let go. Accepting that things aren't working is the first and most important step to protecting yourself from further hurt.

It's crucial to be honest with yourself and admit when à relationship is breken beyond repair. So many people suffer because they refuse to face the reality of their situation, hoping things will mágically get better. But hope alone cannot fix a relationship.

If your current relationship isn't working, don't force it. The more you try to hold on to something that isn't meant to be, the more you'll hurt yourself in the process.

Remember this: nobody can take your happiness away unless you allow it. Your happiness is your responsibility-it's in your hands, not someone else's.

If you don't want others to mistreat you, you have the powerto stop them. You deserve respect, love, and kindness, and if those things are no longer being served, it's time to walk away.

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If my pain doesn’t affect you, then you never truly cared about me. You were just using me for your own benefit. Here I am, falling apart over someone who doesn’t even seem to notice my suffering. I gave you everything, my trust, my heart, my very essence, and you treated it like it was worthless.

Love shouldn’t feel this hollow. It shouldn’t make me doubt my value or question if I ever mattered to you. True love wouldn’t find solace in my tears or comfort in my silence. Genuine love would feel the hurt when I’m in pain and would strive to never be the cause of it.

But you don’t feel that, do you? You never have. The reality is, you didn’t love me. You loved what I provided, what I did for you, what I could bring to your life. You loved how easy it was to have me around, sacrificing myself to keep you happy.

And now I’m here, overwhelmed by loneliness, wondering why I ever believed you were different.🌻🖤

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