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It's Time You should Plan Now!!! Should I ??

A Beautiful Evening in a city like Mumbai where people are always in a hustle bustle to just make their life worth living is Normal, But to add on to this hustling life the weather is at its best and I am blissfully enjoying my adrak wali chai with the yummiest khari toast that I just got it out of the microwave. As I am Just about to dip my Khari the door bell rings and I being the good Bahu run to open the door as if there is Salman waiting outside for me. Ummmm Ok I know I am In Mumbai and not that Salman Khan will ring my door bell to see me or have Adrak Wali Chai but hey you never know….

Well my thought bubble breaks when I see my Mom’s (thats what I call my Mother In Law) best friend Sweety aunty she sees me hugs me, Kisses me and gives me the worlds sweetest smile and me on the other hand I am just Wondering what is next that ill be hearing today. I guide her to the room where my chai( Wondering y I am Mentioning my chai.. well I Love My tea in peace I don’t hear things or do things when I am in my happy space, so you will be hearing this a lot like really a lot.. I LOVE MY CHAI) and mom are awaiting me.I pour tea for aunty and merrily I dip my khari into the cup of happiness when Sweety aunty asks the most annoying question in the whole wide world and that is TOH BETA GOOD NEWS KAB DE RAHI HO???

Bang….. Dishoom….Dhiskiyooon….. Tubhish Tubhish is what I really wanna do to myself for sitting there and thinking like a mad girl that I can have my tea peacefully Well the answer is no quite a late realisation and My khari just dropped in the Tea..(SOB SOB :( Can for once I have my chai in Peace. Unaware of whats in my mind aunty takes my silence in a different understanding of her own and tells my Mom Lagta hai Ki sharma gayi? Well I excuse my self and take a leave.

I am Now in the Hall having My chai… Finally!!!! with no interruptions thats when a thought crosses my brain is that most of the Girls who are getting married or are planning their BIG day are really not aware of the outcomes later on. So GIRLS BE READY!! Because in just about few days time you will be experiencing the most weirdest ride of ur life and it is WHEN ARE YOU PLANNING? No Matter how many days of wedding u have completed. No One prepares you as to what to answer, how to answer or why people ask these questions where their involvement to produce baby is not there.

Sweety aunty just like another Indian women thought this could just start a conversation and that I have given her the right to poke her nose in my life well honestly NO NO NO. Most of us don’t bother to reply its just out of respect that we just smile and take a leave expecting that the conversation has ended there but no for them its an open case of murder just like how ACP Pradyuman( If you dont know him then kindly watch CID for him every case is solved with that one typical remark) KUCH TOH GADBAD HAI.

Sweety aunty jumps to the opportunity and asks Mom questions like Baccha Kyun Paida nahi ho raha( Why is baby not being born), Teri Bahu ko koi takleef hai kya ( Is your daughter in law going through some medical issue) , I know this doctor (probably some baba she is referring to) who can resolve all these issues.. within few days your Bahu will give good news then you can play with your grandchild and she shows her all the dreams of being the best Grandmother she can be. Sweety aunty takes leave looks at me ,hugs me , Kisses me and smiles like never before and I am here as always wondering What’s Next?? Next Morning during our morning chai session mom and me are sitting that’s when she starts the topic that I thought would never come … Mom: You know I saw such a beautiful dream today.

ME: That’s Nice What was it ( I am still unaware of what’s coming next)

Mom: That I am in a garden and I am walking but not alone

ME: (I am Sipping chai with the best ever known khari)… so who’s with you Dad?? ( Father In Law)

Mom: No

ME : Then ( just about to dip my Khari)

Mom: Guess

Me : Your Son ( Dipped the Khari In)

Mom: No

ME: ummmm I dont Know ( Busy Dipping and just about to put it in my mouth)

Mom: My son’s Son and Your Son

Me: What…. ( The world stands still… My khari just drops on my favourite night tee-shirt and I was just about take a Bite….. ) Mom: Kya hua beta Were you planning to give me a surprise

ME: Nooooooooooooooo

Mom: Oh accha … the Dream was ( I dint want this to go further ahead) that you had gone out and I took My Grandson for a walk where he was playing in the park and I was watching him and was nostalgic as to how I used to take my son to the park it was such a beautiful feeling. We had ice cream together, he was sharing his stories and I was merrily listening to him and was amazed at his innocence..

ME: Why did u Imagine only boy? ( Don’t ask don’t ask you just raising a hope don’t ask )

Mom : Oh so u want a girl no problem ill be happy with any gender as long as the baby is healthy and hearty.. Bus marne se pehle main apne pote ya poti ka mooh dekhloon.. uske saath khel loon… toh mera jeevan safal hojayega..

ME: Mom you should stop watching all those hindi serials and movies where there is too much melodrama involved.

Mom: No Beta that’s the only wish I Have and nothing else…. Beta are you hiding something fro me… Is there any medical issue…

Me: Medical issue… who has medical issue??

Mom: You

ME: What??? Since when did I have a medical issue..

Mom: Its been 5 Years that you haven’t given any good news so I assumed that you were afraid to share the problem. So I wanted you to see this Doc who will cure you and within few days you will give us the good news..

ME: Mom things will happen when me and your Son are mentally ready to take a responsibility. It’s a small life that we will be bringing in this world and I just don’t want to have one because the society wants one. I will do it when I am ready because at the end of the day it’s the women who have to sacrifice a lot of things not that Nowadays husbands don’t do but still it’s the mother at the end of the day. I smile and take a leave thinking that she understands. As I mentioned earlier we don’t disrespect our elders but sometimes or actually most of the times friends who know you well ask questions like

1)When are you guys planning? It’s been 5 years it’s time u should plan now…

Me:- I have completed 5 years with my husband and not with you so let me decide.

2) Do you have any medical issue?

Me:- Yes I get headaches and I loose my self control when people ask these kind of questions so if that’s a medical issue then yeah, I have a mental disorder.

3) It’s high time you should plan one?

Me:- and it’s high time you should stop annoying.

4) My child needs company I am awaiting your good news?

Me:- Then why don’t you plan your own cricket team

5) That baby bump will look so cute on you!

Me:- I have enough weight to loose I need no more.😱

6) Don’t plan so late or else you will not be able to conceive when you actually want it.

Me:- There is a word called Fate Lets leave it to that.🙏🏻

7) Bus Bahut hogaya honeymoon phase Now you better give us a good news.

Me:- Honeymoon phase MERA hai who told you to get over yours soon😳

8) Or some people give their child’s name go like my baby is asking when is AUNTY going to have a baby so that I can play when I meet them?😂

Me:- Did the baby not ask you when you giving him or her a sibling to play with😁

9) Is your husband not ready yet?

Me:- He is currently dealing with one child and that’s Me. He saves those people who are about to be hit by my Mad Child 😇

Being Honest and straight forward we as couples go through enough pressures more so being like sweety AUNTY.. Every couple does have their own style of living from morning to night. It’s their life and they are the ones who will be taking care of the child mentally, Physically Financially and Emotionally. So kindly don’t bother us with these questions because not every couple wants a child, some couple wish to adopt, Some are happy just like that( Yes they are and probably they don’t need any one) , Some are busy with their careers, Some just love their life that way and don’t want their freedom to go away, May be some people have tried enough but then it’s again gods will not to give them any. Imagine the pain and the pressure they going through. For a lot of people it’s a topic of discussion as to why to have babies and for a quite a lot is why not to have babies .Child is not the only solution for everything. Just because everyone is having we should have well no. A mutual understanding between the couple is their and they will do things according to their APPROPRIATE TIME. Hope this blog helps you understand that level of irritation that we all go through when we hear this. HAVING CHILDREN IS NOT ONLY THE EPITOME OF HAPPINESS. Every couple is different. Some wish to Marry, Some Wish not to marry. similarly some want two children or more and some don’t want even one.

Bringing a child into this world needs good amount of Mental strength, Physical strength and more than that a bulky amount in your bank. Every parent wishes to give the best to their child and not shy away from the responsibility. From Kinder garden to the school from their birthdays to their marriages it’s all a big game that’s played on and that’s most of us are not ready.

Friends and family who have their little ones good going I assume you are having a gala time! And for those who are like me who don’t have any babies because you are not ready or don’t want any have a blast it’s not a crime not to have a baby. Until and unless it’s your Decision. Like and Share and let others have a good laugh like you just did 😘😘

It’s My Evening Chai Time and I am enjoying it with my Kari all by myself because I choose to leave Mom and Sweety AUNTY alone by themselves and she being a lady who’s volume is larger than her figure saying Area tujhe pata hai Uski ladki kisi aur Ke saath Bhaag gayi???? I have a good laugh and tell myself thank god Today the Bakra is some else and not me.

Love and Light!

Just being Mean Oops I mean Me….

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HEllo everyone! this is my new Venture and my new baby! Tomorrow we complete our first Month Birthday! A Big shout out and a big thank you to all the people who have loved us and followed us and even shopped with us too.... I am super excited to share the news that we will be posting new pics on Tumblr too...

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Destiny Knows it well

    Just as you know when everything is gonna fall in place , you have exactly imagined the entire scene in your mind and probably smiled and enjoyed that moment! The next minute Destiny changes everything from that imagination to that moment everything seems so Bizzare ! 

Heart Crush 

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Let's RETHINK

A Universal truth "Boys will be Boys" and girls will be well a bit different and adjustable. Last night as I was about to hit the bed a thought had stuck to my head as to why in this new era, our youth generation is that we see a lot of "Divorces" "Failed Marriages" and lots of "Heart Breaks"... Well the truth is we all loose hope thinking that it would never work.. well if we all thought that getting freedom from one another would be easier well its not, the life adjustments that takes places after you separate is very disturbing emotionally, Mentally and Physically(Stop thinking dirty)....

                            I am writing from my own personal experiences and trust me it works the best for both of us....  From loving , Caring or for a matter of fact not agreeing on something but coming to a conclusion that we agree... Life is too short to carry on With regrets in life and that too with that one person you love the most. 

                                     Why do we all girls believe that we need to be pampered all the time isn't it unfair ... In today's generation aren't we equal in all aspects of life... so lets see how can we bring in the change... gone were those days when the husband used to come home late from work and the Wife is serving him and not talking at all... can we do this way that he comes home ask him how his day was? or make something special for him so that he feels good, or a hug when he comes home and kiss would do wonders, Its not necessary to rattle on the things that you do the whole days, Well if he starts saying what all he did you will mad and wonder like was it necessary for all those minute details. A small candle light dinner at home, old time movies that you both love watching, Accompany him in watching his favorite sport or play games at home .... more involvement with him means a new side that you are seeing. Imagine if a guy starts accompanying you for all your shopping trips well lets us begin with something new.. leave all those Tate-tale behind and try something new. let the house be messy for a day and he himself will wonder. Ones you start doing all this it will you will automatically see how much he cares for you. Its not necessary to gift only on special occasions , You can make a special occassion any time of the week, or day or month! Just when you are shopping for yourself browse through Men's section too if you find something good for him pick it up gift wrap and keep in a place that he will see it first.. So you did remember him while you were shopping for youself. Small changes, small happiness and most of all the love. Lets agree We love our Men... SO LET THEM FEEL SPECIAL TOO.... 

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KILL- DIL MOVIE REVIEW

Kill/Dil- (Ranveer Singh-Parineeti-Ali Zafar-Govinda) As promising as it seems to be in the starting it doesn't stay the same till the end. U will eventually start believing that it's a Crap Movie with some it's n Bits of Humour... Ur eyes will pop out with Horror when u see parineeti Who wants to show her Buljy oomph factor. Govinda creating a magic of a negative role does fair amount of justice. In a few months it should appear on the small screen so wait that day when u can watch that movie for free 😊

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Happy Children's Day

                     14th November marks a very special day in all our lifes even if you are a 80 year old, there is still a child somewhere hidden inside you. This day is not only special to me but also very close to my heart for the obvious reasons that I have a privilege of being an aunt to almost 30 kids in my extended family or close friends *Feeling Special*....

                                     Each and every child is very close to my heart and they indeed hold a special place that no one else can replace. Thank you to each one of you for giving me this opportunity of being your aunt and making me relive my childhood days every time I meet you. I can never forget those special tiny little moments that I remember of each one of you and I have those funny laughs that sometimes end up into funny tears. These memories will always stay intact with me for as long as I live.No matter how old you all grow up I will always be there for you as I am today. Hugs and Kisses to each one of you.

                                         May God bless you all with the power of Strength, Courage, Happiness and Most of all to retain the power of love that you all Possess and that it should never change. I know you all will Spread those Wings thats filled with Love and care .

                 Sunny Diya Eshaa Pratham Pranay Krish Roshni Riddhima Riddhi Mohit Vivaan Arjun Ranbir Daksh Krishiv Dhruv Amaira Arjun Anaisa Anhad Geet Araina Kiana Dhairya Simran Lavish Ronak  Rishabh Disha 

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Just married Please Excuse

A Fiction book based on a story of couple that goes through ups and downs in the life. Marriage-Baby-In laws and other stuff that require the marriage to keep going. A Happy ending to it!

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KINGDOM OF DREAMS

KINGDOM OF DREAMS:-

   LOCATION:- GURGAON DELHI

                                                A Must Visit in your to do things when you are in Delhi. I was mesmerized by the entire structure and the way that it was so beautifully made with all the carvings done on it. The Entry fee was Rs- 600/person but that was not it u were given a swipe card along with it which had your money loaded in it that could be used to eat on the different cuisines out there almost like your own Food debit card.(Its the Money that you pay as an entry fee)

            As we entered the KOD my eyes couldn't register the fact that we have such a magnificent structure which gave a feeling of a palace. Must say that all the hard work that they have been doing really paid off. As we went around 6:30 pm obviously It was quite dark. Not knowing that the food court area was bright enough like you would see the sunlight in the evening which was soo astonishing with the fact that they had actually created a fake sky. The food court is a concept where in they have different cuisines ranging from Hyderabad, Delhi,Assam,MP, Rajasthani, gLucknowi, Mumbai, Chennai, Goa, Kerala and some more so that you can relish the various cuisines under one roof. They also have few sections where in you can buy some souvenirs from these stores(Your food Debit card will work here too). 

RAJASTHANI THALI

                                                                             I I hogged till my stomach was full with this Rajasthani thali that had variety of dals, Sabzi and rotis and yet I had some space to eat the hot jalebis that was in the other stall of course. They have this Chinese stallwhich was close to the sweet stall.

The Beautiful carvings and the beautiful lit up sky.

 The Delhi Chat that was Mouthwatering.

 The Lucknowi Decor.

I had a mis-conception that KOD only meant that they had shows like Zangoora but when I personally went there my self I found that the places was huge enough to have  a lot of stuff, like when you enter they a take picture of you at the entrance and tell you to collect the pic after an hour. They photo shop you and put you pic in-front of KOD and sell it for like Rs300/-. I was so full with the food that I ate there that we were still left with some money and ended up buying some goodies.

They are performing almost 3 Different shows Zangoora, Jhumroo and Wizwits. Zangoora is usually played by Gauhar khan and Hussain, Jhumroo by Gaurav Gera and Shweta Gulati. Its almost a 2-3 hour show. The performances are filled with power packed energy

Its Owned by Wizcraft and Nautanki gali and Sharukh Khan being the Brand ambassador you can see him showing you all the videos. Variety of cafes like IIFA that has posters of the celebs with music blaring in the background or they have this amazing decor place that served only snacks. One of the interesting feature about all the places were that every restaurant had a beautiful decor it gave you a real feeling of that culture or the effect of the city. Mode of transport that I chose was metro you can either take a cab or take a car of your own. KOD is open till 12 in the night and while you are just about to leave they have a huge  Pan shop that could not be missed. This guy had some weird pans ranging from chocolate to mango. lastly Do clicks as many pictures as you so that they are your everlasting memories of this place.

TYPES OF PAN

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SUPER NANI

Super Nani- On Mommy's Demand... Sometimes u think that a particular movie would be bad but guess what it's bt true... Super Nani a movie that u must watch... Dnt assume like me that's it's gonna be boring ... Yeah some parts are like ok ok... But once u watch "REKHA THE DIVA" on screen u will just go gaga over her... Frm her expressions to her innocence it's just Wow! She still has that Khubsoorat charm , or Khoon bhaari maang look on her face but wow! I am glad that my mom took me along... The look in her face... It's worth watching with Family and Making them Laugh... All My Mom did was WOW WOW WOW.... I in personal hand enjoyed it way too Much 👍...

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The Tara Sharma Show....

A Brand new concept....A journey that every mother travels,Whats Best when the entire journey becomes smooth and easy with some handy tips....

Awaiting the Brand new Episodes of  a Mum's Diary that not only Helped her but a millions of Mum who are worried and petrified of the Feelin

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REVIEW OF THE BOOK HALF GIRLFRIEND

Hello....

           A Book that purely displays todays youth and the mistakes that they make in a rush to acquire something or to get rid of some burden of their shoulder.....

           Here is a book that clearly tells you about the present generation and their wants.... A Must read...

I have and will always love #Chetanbhagat...

awaiting ur next book soon....

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LOVE AND ITS EMOTIONAL BAGGAGE

Love Sometime is really strange. It always comes with bags full of Happiness, Sadness and the urge to be with the one you love the most..I have encountered a similar love story  where these two soul-mates met, went through lots of Ups n Downs  and yesterday 8th April 2014 they indeed declared in front of the world that they are meant to be strong and are with each other for eternity.

There was nothing in this world that could have made me more happier seeing You Guys happy and most of The adoring parents and the little Loving sister who were indeed a part of this Love story... Seeing them Smile, laughing and That Happy , Content look on their faces made me feel on Top of the world.

I Pray and Wish that Grace of God may Shine the Brightest on you..

I have and will always be with the two of you...... 

loads n loads of love

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MH370

Well As we all knw that India is a Democratic country and that we can Voice out our Opinion through anymeans of the current media . I have Personally never done this before but today as I read Messages that have been doing rounds about the Malaysian Airlines. I Feel Devastated thinking abt the Families who at present are not aware of their Loved once being alive or dead. It give me a very creepy feeling to even think abt what they are going through! For ppl who are forwarding Ridiculous jokes of the Airline missing for once take out 2mins of ur life and think what if you or your loved one was on that Goddammit plane! I am from that field of aviation and I knw what it feels like.. So please for Heavens sake stop circulating Uncalled Stupid jokes, Instead Pray for those people who are suffering in some unknown Alien Land... Please please please it's Not a Joke it is indeed a very tuff time for all the ppl around.