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SWEET JELLY FILLED DONUT! 🎀🍩

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Favorite donut-girl

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Actually, shout-out to every other selfshipper with BPD whose f/os count as their fps in one way or another. To those who get *severely* distressed at the mere idea their f/os could get a canon lover, be upset at them/their s/is, or get tired of providing constant reassurance.

It's excruciating, and it can be really hard to voice that pain if your fears seem unfounded.

I see you. I love you.

Your f/os will never get tired of you. They love you. It doesn't matter how many times you ask them for help - they'll always be there.

They will always be there for you.

Dni if you share Kaku or ship him with anyone. Obviously.

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i do still firmly believe that if you join a server where there will be a fair amount of selfshippers you have to be ready for some of them to be non sharers & you have to be ready to keep your thoughts about their f/os to your goddamn self if you happen to like them as well. it will not kill you to avoid talking about it around them let alone to their face. it's just improper & wildly impolite especially if you label yourself a selfshipper as well... & if you have the nerve to encourage them to stop having the non sharer mindset bc "it's not nice" just fall into a pit probably

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If you have just one f/o, they love you and they love how devoted you are to them!! they’re so lucky to always someone who loves them so dearly by their side.

if you have many, they all love you and admire how much love you have in your heart!! you’re just full of affection to share and they’re so happy they get to be one of the people receiving it.

if you have an f/o for years, they are so grateful for all the time you’ve stuck by them!! the time just flies by when they’re with you, they can’t believe it’s been so long already!! they’re so happy you’ve devoted such a huge part of your life to loving them and being with them, and with every day that passes they find themselves loving you more and more.

if you’ve had many f/os over time or f/os that change often, they’re all still so grateful for the time spent together, regardless of how long or short it was. none of them would ever want to make you feel guilty about it!! they’ll cherish the memories they made with you forever, and you’ll always have a special place in their hearts like they know they’ll have in yours. they’ll only ever wish you good things in your future, and they hope they brought as much joy to you as you did to them, even if it was temporary.

your f/os love you!! they’ll always love you and hope you’re happy no matter what!!

pro.ship dni

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f/o who has never played roblox a day in their life but when you ask them to play with you they are making an account almost immediately.

they have no clue what they’re doing and haven’t bought robux to make an avatar OR they immediately buy robux to make an avatar but are so ass at it (lovingly) that whenever you guys play together it kinda looks like this image

proship dni

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Imagine your F/O being especially clingy whenever you get out of the shower, holding you close and burying their face in the crook of your neck to smell the scent of their hair products/soap on you [Bonus points if you’re wearing their clothes ;) ]

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To those with PTSD, C-PTSD, anything alike

You don't scare your f/os. They don't fear you. They don't think you're not valid just because you don't have more extreme responses to the trauma. Even if you have more extreme responses, they're still not scared of you. They won't run, hide or think you're weird or off putting for it.

If you have more silent responses, they can immediately sense it from you. They can feel it forming within you. They can feel the stress building up and the anxiety aswell. They can see it in your body language, your eyes, everything about you.

Weither it'd be a panic attack, flashbacks, or just sitting there, stiff as a rock, never being able to escape the moment or place that made you have these moments. They can see the inner turmoil building and will help you however they can, grounding techniques, smells, psychical touch, venting. Anything you need, they got it for you.

They'll always be there to remind you that you're valid and it's completely okay to have these feelings and resentment.

They don't care how long it takes, you'll ALWAYS be worth their time, they'll ALWAYS be there to help you through anything you'd want them to.

If you both have ptsd/c-ptsd, they know you both got each other's back.

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Pro.ship, ajacent, neutrals dni. Not proof read. Don't use my mental health affirmations as diagnosage. Do not reuse or edit.

Those who are experienced in treating ptsd, c-ptsd or have been diagnosed for a long time, please correct me on things if needed! Don't be hateful however. Please use tone tags.

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Shoutout to the selfshippers who have PTSD who feel like it makes your relationship with your f/os complicated sometimes. Shoutout to the selfshippers with PTSD who equally find comfort in their f/o who also has PTSD but also feels guilty or troubled by it sometimes. When your relationship is that real, it's valid and okay to have troubles within it, every relationship will have its struggles but that doesn't mean the relationship is unhealthy. Your f/os love you so much and want to grow with you, they want to support you and they're beyond grateful that you're there for them too. You and your beloveds got this, don't worry 🫶🏻

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hii selfshippers!! if your f/o has trauma or even ptsd, imagine comforting them after they've had a nightmare

they wake up or even jolt awake looking really distressed and panicked. you realize what happened and take some time to tell them that they're safe, and that nothing here can hurt them

it might take a while for them to be ready to go back to sleep, so you could spend that time getting them something warm to drink or holding them in your arms. maybe they want to vent a bit and tell you about their nightmare. this could be their first time opening up or maybe you already know all about what happened. maybe they don't even need to vent at all and your silent comfort is more than enough to make them feel better. either way, your f/o appreciates what you did so much and feels safest when they're with you :)

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Shoutout to all the selfshippers who suffer from chronic fatigue, seasonal depression, chronic pain, or any other disability or illness that makes it hard to maintain energy throughout the day.

Your F/O loves you regardless of how much you can or can't do in a day. Know they're always there to help you with any tasks that seem insurmountable, and they want to help you rest afterwards. They're proud of you. No matter what.

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「 to my fellow self shippers who also struggle with ptsd... 」

♡ imagine your f/o catching you mid flashback, gently pulling you close before you can spiral. "breathe with me. in… out… just like that. i've got you.’’

♡ imagine your f/o sensing the exact moment you dissociate in bed, wrapping their arms around you from behind without a single word. just the steady rock of their body, their heartbeat against your back, and a comforting presence waiting patiently for your return.

♡ imagine your f/o tucking you in carefully after a traumatic day, pressing a kiss to your forehead. "i'll keep watch. you can rest now."

♡ imagine your f/o noticing you flinch whenever they reach out. instead of pulling away, they offer their palm, open and patient.

♡ imagine your f/o feeling the second you finally melt into them, weeks of tension dissolving in their arms. their thumb traces circles on your back as they whisper, "there you are... all safe and sound..."

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who hurt caine's feelings i just wanna talk

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Genuinely annoyed/angry Caine was not on my bingo card for this next episode but now I can’t stop thinking about it

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CAINE!!! Love this guy

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my wife

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super mario galaxy adventures