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And this barely scratches the surface of what he’s been put through at the hand of not only antis but parasocial fans, ex friends, abusive ex partners, and just the internet at large. Will defend this man til the day I die, he deserves so much better.

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Nahh I stopped believing dream antis when I had to point out how my groomer trauma is real and the fake nonsense was not lolol and then they stopped bothering me after I was like I am an actual victim of grooming, but go off

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Ok. I'm going to say this once.

1. Yes. I know I'm a Wilbur blog technically, but I am also like #1 Wil hater anyway (I'm the better one)

2. I'm an actual victim of grooming so don't come here talking about that it was really fake and sketchy and disgusting

3. Not in the fandom anymore

With that Tommy podcast or whatever video going around about Dream, him being bad (again)

This is so stupid? They used to praise Dream constantly even during controversies and now since it cannot benefit them anymore, they trash talk him, for clout

Notoriously, they would ignore any drama, have they spoken about Wilbur? No.

So this is 100% for clout. It's genuinely disgusting. Just leave the poor guy alone. Phil used to go on and on about how NICE he was and now that's not useful they talk like This?

They do realize videos are forever? I bet I can easily find videos of them praising him.

Yet. No mentions of Wilbur floating around? Proved abuser? Fucking Bullshit.

I don't even watch Dream, I only watched a Tommy video recently for Slimecicle, so I don't go here anymore, I just watch like. Mod videos or the Captain

Anyway fuck Wilbur, I stand with Shelby, leave Dream alone

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I wish to share

I may change my name so this blog can stay but like. No longer Wilby

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Yes, how beautiful your life is. But did you know that more than 40% of Dreamnoblade content, both in fanfics, artists, fanarts and accounts. Are they lost media?

Everything being deleted in the first week of July, after the death of techno. This also covers June 30, which was where his death was announced.

People like nichts have been in charge of recovering fanfics from ao3 regarding Dreamnoblade and Other ships, the fanarts were even deleted from Pinterest and many of them are uncertain where or who they come from (although several have been saved and recovered), and those on wattpad are currently lost.

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Congratulations to the 1st place champions of the Dsmp Ship Wars:

DREAMNOBLADE

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Fandoms and Ships

Here is the link of the first post: LINK

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and who ever will read this

I will said here to not bothering OP anymore.

……………………. The point is that you CAN’T STOP THIS!!!

Boundaries or not you can’t stop it, this thing happen everytimes.

When I was in the Undertale fandom I saw shit like you can’t even imagine!!! Some creators in that fandom will create some cute or even dark AU and then people will totally vomit bullshit to them no matter what.

In the Gravity Falls and OTGW fandom, I and other people shipped Pinescone (WirtxDipper), and most of us will age them up but others Not!

And don’t let me talk about the gore and porn stuff that some people draw (some of them are 16 years old) even when the original creator said no!

As I said I have been in a LOT of fandoms, and I keep seeing this war over and over again.

Many people took what Techno said as “NO, don’t do that”,  but for me was more “This is cringe and I don’t wanna participate it. Please, keep it private”.

And with Techno that NEVER really talked about it in a more specific way like Niki did. (I remember she said to “don’t ship HER (real person), but that we were free to USE her Character for our fanworks”).

We were left with a very lovely ship, but with some people that will come and say “delete that or else”, even when we tagged and keep it between our friends on AO3.

I believe that the creators have no issue with us using their fictional characters, but if we wanna talk about boundaries then I wanna use an example: 

Imagine that you (creator/artist) make a doll (series/comic), and you give that doll to a person or kid (fandom), and maybe you give them some “rules” (boundaries) about how to play with this doll. Now the person starts playing by creating fictional stories and scenarios (AUs and headcannons) that don’t have much to do with the original story (canon plot) of this doll. From there the person inevitably begins to give this doll (which has become a completely different character from the original story) “companies” who can be family, friends and love interests. The doll is now the Persona/Original character of the fandom.  At that point the fandom created something so similar and different from the original story and characters. And the original creator can’t “take back” the doll, because it has become something totally new even though it’s still part of the original series in a way.

This is what in a way happened in DreamSMP’s roleplay, where the creators have given us a product, which we have with our imagination changed into something new. (Where this is going with the boundaries??? I’m going there)

This kind of behavior and creativity is the foundation of every single fandom, and you can’t change it… Because that’s what makes a fandom.

The moment the creators of the DreamSMP created the Server and its storyline, they knew that inevitably this sort of thing was going to happen!!!!

And yes some asked to avoid some things (like using their real persona, or to avoid writing or draw smut or horror/dark/gorey stuff), but even so they never said “DO NOT CREATE this particular topic at all” not really, what they tried to say was “Please, if you create this context keep it private and don’t force it on me, because it make me uncomfortable”. That’s what I really hear from every single creator and artist at the end of the day. And that’s what we as fans are supposed to acknowledge and respect, but fail to do (towards the original creators and other fans).

Another example: Dream said that horror and gore make him sick, but that wasn’t an order to stop creating dark content for his character. (That Dream said something that made people angry, and then fans and haters bein assholes with him is something totally different and not new. If you some of you was on Twitter on that time you know exactly what happened and how 😓)

I’ve learned not to force my ideas on others when it comes to fandom, whether I’m right or wrong.

You can’t tell people what to create and how, not when the fandom was originally created by fans for fans!!! To allow them to run wild with their imagination and creativity.

Don’t you want your fandom to create some kind of stuff? Then don’t create a fandom… or at least stay away from it.

I mean, Toby Fox the creator of Undertale has never interacted more than he should with his fans here on Tumblr (where the Undertale fandom was born. Even when the level of toxicity skyrocketed), and for a reason simple: there is no way to control people, you can only hope they are respectful enough to keep their shit to themselves and not make trouble for others.

If you go to my tags you will find some problematic ship (not DSMP) with themes like: incest, selfcest, R-18 (for the smut/lemon scene), and other that I don’t remember.

These tags are all about fictional characters that I’m 100% sure the creators vomited blood after read them.

Still this hasn’t stopped anyone from creating them and enjoy these kinds of themes.

If you wanna avoid to see the “Dreamnoblade” (or other ship names), you need to go on your Settings and use the Filtered Tags!!! And if you find a post DNB with any tag on it then you need to contact OP (the creator of the post) and ask them to use the tags that will help your filtres to work!!!!

In the past, I had a lot of people coming into my ask-box asking me to tag "in the correct way” my posts to avoid seeing things that they did not like. I had to create the “moth” tag, because some guy that followed me didn’t like the photos of moths that I LOVE to reblog!!! So I don’t understand why you can’t do the same 😑

So I Repeat:

1- You can’t control people and force them to be like you want.

2- You can’t and should NOT trip guilt fans to throw away what made them happy, especially if they keep it privately (on Discord, AO3 or here on Tumblr), with NO intentions to show to the CC their PRIVATE WORK.

You CAN and SHOULD create boundaries with other fans asking them to be respectful towards CC and yourself, and to use tags correctly (like good neighbors do).

3- And when a person is a total piece of sh*t and doesn’t wanna find any agreements with you, then you: Unfollow them, you can even Report and Block them if you wish (like most of us do these days), and call it a day 😊.

This is how a fandom work and should always work!!! Period. And if you can’t do that, then you should not be in a fandom and interact with the people in it!

P.S: English is not my first language, if there are weird and confusing words and sentences I’m sorry, you can contact me and I will try to explain myself better. The word is Try.

Please don’t send hate or disprectful messages here or in my ask-box (if you do that I will totally report you to the Staff and them block you. Don’t test me)

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I see this with Genshin too! Some people actively dox and give death threats if you don't like their ship or ship something they don't like

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Tommy was a minor which is why I feel uncomfortable and c!Tommy is still often portrayed as a minor Techno and c!Techno are both adults

Being uncomfy with a minor x adult ship vs a adult x adult one is not mutually exclusive????

I only bring up Quackity because it seems like a double standard to me, but idk idk

And sure sure my scp dnb au, up dnb au, librarian dnb au, serial killer dnb au, mafia dnb au, parent dnb au, fnaf dnb au, ghost dream dnb au, totally totally are so true to the both c! and cc! For sure I've bet they've been in so many of those situations irl (/sarcasm)

And! He was not definitely said it was against his boundaries

I wouldn't have brought it up if you hadn’t went ick dreamnoblade and not ick tombur???? Like I said, Tommy is most portrayed as a minor and I'm guessing still is, but if you want to get upset over people who mind their own business with a FICTIONAL ADULT SHIP then feel free, personally? I'm going to bed lol

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Ok I'm in a different fandom now and let me put it this way since people in Genshin (my current fandom) are kinda having the same difficulty

c! = Character which is seperate from cc! = Content Character

Right now in Genshin people are dealing with a very shitty shitty voice actor for Tighnari are have come to the conclusions that the character and VA are very much separate entities

Even in this case, cc!Techno is technically just the VA/Actor of c!Techno. This is like if someone from a movie, like marvel, so say Robert Downey Jr. Asked people not to ship iron man with anyone

He doesn't have a say, it's not technically him. Also, there's a BIG difference between War Criminal Piglin who lives in the Arctic and Guy who plays minecraft online I would say so it's on of the easiest character to differentiate

Also Quackity is stated to be uncomfortable with shipping and yet. People still ship him and Wilbur so this fandom has some sort of weird double standard going on it seems with ships so let me just point that bit of information out

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hey do me a favorite and put this on the more problematic ship in these polls literally Tombur which is more eugh than Dreamnoblade???? and also c!Techno is not a real person cc!Techno was (also we never shoved it in his face and tried to KEEP OUT OF HIS WAY???? Just polite ship stuff y'know?)

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DSMP Ship Wars - Round 1

I will update this post as time goes one to keep track of rounds and polls, for easy access!

If you have a question or comment, here's the new FAQ! and the old FAQ as well.

CURRENT MATCHES:

Dreamnotfound Vs. Dreambur

Dreamnap Vs. Toosh

Karlnapity Vs. Dreamnapfound

Awesamponk Vs. Drunz

Techza Vs. Awesamdream

Puffychu Vs. Tombur

Phistin Vs. XDnf

Skephalo Vs. Dreamnoblade

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I might update my fics with little notes on how I may have ended them if I got to it, just for closures sake

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I know I haven't been active on this blog, but why are people being so trigger happy about being like I knew it, Dream sucks and uncomfirmed innocent or guilty situation is why

Just say you've always hated him and move on, you just wanted a reason to dislike him

Like I'm trying to stay neutral (leaning towards more Dream’s side though because he's actually being responsible about shit this time and taking Legal Action)

You can believe victims most of the time usually, but maybe also try some critical thinking to worm out 'victims' vs actual victims, it'll cause less harm to actual victims

At least Wait And See or can some of you not do that? Because if Dream IS innocent I don't want to see any of you who were willing to just take all these accusations and be like Sorry Dream >.< whoopsie >.< my bad >.<

I'm waiting and seeing.

If he is innocent, I'll continue to be a fan

If he is guilty though, if I ever see him, he'll see these hands first

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LOOK AT HE!

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