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Message me and ask me for a kink story and I’ll send you something

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When she doing the nastiest shit to you and asking if you like it in that innocent voice

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Prev anon kinda made me wonder, do doms ever just wanna be taken care of? It's such a nice feeling, having someone care for you like that, don't you guys ever feel left out? I wanna take care of neglected doms now, you deserve to be taken care of as well!! 🥺🥺

Maybe? I think for most, it just doesn’t happen. It’s not something that has happened and gotten used to that way. So it’s not really something that comes to mind. It’s hard to say if people want it or not because we haven’t experienced or been close to it, so it’s hard to even say yes or no. But I don’t know, I can only speak from my own experience.

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This is a pretty good post

🖤Punishments Guide?🖤

Process:

0. Discuss boundaries

1. Give a warning

2. State what agreement had been broken/Explain what s-type has done wrong

3. Issue Appropriate punishment to crime

4. Emphasize the reason the s-type is being punished

5. Aftreecare, reassurance, gentleness

PSA: It's important you know your sub's boundaries and limits before issueing a punishment/funishment. You can go through examples or agree on a punishment together if you feel like it's appropriate for one to be delivered.

Another Note! D-type = Dom, S-type = Sub

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❤Punishments❤

(It's important to note that nearly any funishment if taken to an extreme or extended level can become a disciplinary punishment imo)

🖤Writing

-Write your d-type an apology letter

-Research and write and essay of d-type's choosing

-Write lines

(Ex: "I will listen to daddy." 100x)

🖤Overstimulation

🖤Edging

🖤Orgasm Control

🖤Humiliation

-Strip in front of your d-type

-Practice submissive positions in front of your d-type

-Give your d-type a lap dance

-Cum or force your s-type to cum in their panties/underwesr before going out, making them walk around with wet underwear all day

-Body writing

-S-type kisses/grinds on d-type's boot

🖤Only allowed to address d-type as {insert honorific here} for extended/undetermined period of time

(Ex: Sir, Daddy, Master, Mistress, Mommy, Miss, Etc)

🖤Puppy Training

-Walking your sub around like a puppy

-Practicing commands like "speak", "present", "Sit", "Lay", etc

🖤Cockwarming

(Tease an play with your sub till they get so needy they beg to be fucked then force them to cockwarm only)

🖤Free-use Collaring

(Get a collar for your s-type and lock it around their neck, during the time the sub has the collar on they are completely free-use to the d-type)

🖤Phone A Friend

(A d-type or s-type text or call a friend who'll decide a punishment for the s-type)

❤Difficult Punishments❤

🖤Following a joi without being allowed to cum

🖤Loss of humanity privileges

-Loss of clothing

-Loss of choice in clothing

-Not being allowed to wear underwear for the day

-Loss of talking (By agreement or by a gag)

-Loss of swearing

-Not being allowed on the furniture

🖤Begging

-Begging to be able to touch your d-type

-Begging to be able to pleasure your d-type

-Begging for punishment

-Begging for reward

🖤Overbearing Permission

(Having to ask permission/approval for everything in a scene, like, clothing, what toys to use, what position to be in, when you cum, where you cum, how you cum, if you cum, if you edge, if you can squirt, if you can speak, if you can move from a submissive pose, etc)

🖤Ruined Orgasm(s)

🖤Spanking

-Using a paddle or your hand or a flogger

-Maybe try adding a spin to it like "After every swat, you have to thank me" or "Count every seat I give you"

🖤Practice Submissive Poses

🖤Tickle Torture

🖤Counter

(For everytime s-type disobeys, they get a tally, each tally counts for everytime a sub has to edge, have a ruined orgasm, or have an overstimulated orgasm, etc)

🖤Body Writing

🖤Chastity

🖤Sensory Deprivation

---(Blindfold or bind s-type's hands/ankles and make them complete tasks like getting into submissive positions, retrieving certain items for a scene or other tasks without their hands/sight/mobility)

---(Take away their sight, understanding, mobility, or hearing during a scene by:

-Speaking to them and giving orders in a language they don't know

-Binding their hands/ankles

-Blind folding them)

🖤Concentrate

(If your sub is being a particular annoyance you can deliver a punishment that's less concentrated on sex and more concentrated on obedient Listening)

-S-type holding a penny to the walk with their nose while d-type lectures them Or teases them

-S-type kneels above legos, pencils, rice, ice, body safe wax, etc while d-type lectures or teases

-S-type does planks or wall-sits while d-type lectures or teases

🖤Vanilla

(Yup. that's right. No honorifics, no scene, no kinks, plain, short, Vanilla)

Concept:

🖤Under The Radar

(D-type pretends to not notice any brattyness or transgressions, writing down each agreement broken or each time s-type brats. After a satisfying amount of time, show s-type what you've written down and issue and more severe punishment)

Last Note! I have this in my notes app and I'll be adding to it over time! I'll probably post an updated version sometime further down the road with more punishments and more concepts!

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Merry Christmas! I hope you have a wonderful day, and if you find your Holidays to be a rough time, you can always reach out. You got this

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Anyone here want to be dmed and asked fucked up questions?

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the sound of wet pussy being sucked, slurped, fingered, or fucked is such a turn on.

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You seem to take care of a lot here. Do you ever just want someone to take care of you? To rest while someone takes care of your pleasure? Also! Make sure to stay hydrated and well rested :)

Never even tried it. That’s not how things tend to work. Don’t forget to drink water yourself, and Merry Christmas

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Holding your face and fucking you slowly so I can watch you accept how powerless and helpless you'll always be with me

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using sluts as living fleshlights is super lovely. tying them up to the chair, because a toy can't move. gagging their mouth, because obedient toys are quiet. overstimulating them, because their orgasms don't matter.

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Dying to give a pretty girl princess treatment

(Make her gag on my fingers while I spank her cunt).

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Anyone here want to be dmed and asked fucked up questions?

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Don’t you want a perv bf that gets hard looking at you?

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Just friends while my balls are smacking against your clit. Don’t you want to be friends little girl?

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Mmmm you are so damn hot, I just need to hurt you.

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Pumping you full of cum and covering you in kisses all night