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top who's submissive the way a supervillain's henchman would be. always eager for approval because it keeps you alive. ready to do anything for your boss because it's your job, your role. strong and dangerous and aggressively servile. you relish in the pain your superior inflicts upon you, and you plead for more. you hang on every biting word, searching for the command that hides behind each insult. so unabashedly diligent that it's pathetic. ❂

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once again thinking about playing around with power dynamics.

sub tops and dom bottoms but to the point where you can’t even quite tell until you look closer.

Sub tops who pin you down and leave you covered in bitemarks and a red, shiny mouth from shoving their tongue down your throat, who fucking snarl and groan into your ear about how they��re going to breed you and won’t stop until you’re passed out, who leave dark bruises from digging their fingers into your skin when they pull you closer. Sub tops who toss you around and manhandle you like a ragdoll in the heat of the moment, in the daze of their need to fuck you.

The dom bottoms who allow all this with a firm hand buried in the other’s hair, who command them to go harder and rougher, who know that it’s not that they “won’t” stop until you’re on the verge of collapse, it’s that they won’t be able to—they know they’re fucking addicted, they’ll keep going even if they’re shuddering and whining because god it just feels too fucking good, they can’t help themselves. The dom bottoms who talk them through all this and encourage them, egging them on with whispers in their ear: “Don’t you wanna fuck me nice and deep, sweetheart? Don’t you wanna make me feel you all the way in my throat, pet? C’mon, you don’t even have to think, I know how hard that is for a dumb puppy like you. Just keep filling me up hard and fast, baby, you can do it, just like that, just let go for me.”

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Desperately need my femme in a tender all encompassing way. Need to make love to her so long I lose myself in her. Lose the ability to speak because I'm dedicating every ounce of my mental faculties to just. Her. Taking care of her, worshipping her, loving her. Something about being stone for me is these states of mind where all I can do is pour more and more of my being into my femme, knowing she will always be ready to accept more. I used to fear I was too much for someone, and for many I was. But having found someone who can accept my energy so enthusiastically and loudly, I find myself wanting to dedicate entire swathes of time pouring myself into her. She never needs to worry about being too greedy because I will always have more to share.

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"I just don't want you to feel like I'm objectifying you"

Objectify me. Do it. I want to be your trophy butch. A gorgeous piece of well-tended art for you and you alone. I preen myself for you. I pick out my outfits based on what I think will please you most. I live for sheer lustful hunger in your eyes. You want me to flex my arms for you? How long? You want to watch me get sweaty as I do chores? I'll add a couple more to my list for the day so you can see me do more. You like how that black t-shirt fits on me? I'm buying 6 more of them so I have one for every day of the week. I belong to you, darlin'. So go ahead, objectify me. Devour me. I'll keep coming back for more.

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need to fuck into someone, rutting into them as they call me a good puppy and pull my hair and bite me and scratch me. need them to call me a good boy who fucks them so well

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in the mood for an aggressive service top that has to be muzzled when they fuck into me bc they have a naughty habit of biting me when they get too carried away.

like, oh yes, you're a big scary puppy breeding me full. snap at me again and i'll grab you by the collar and leash you to the end of the bed. you can sit there and rut into a pillow while i finish myself off.

there's a good dog 😘

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need a stone cold chubby fem who’s like super casual about sex.

i’m absolutely devouring her cunt while she scrolls through her phone and says shit like “keep doing that, i’m gonna cum.” in the most monotone voice ever.

desperately fingering her and feeling her body while she just blankly stares at me, her cunt doing all the talking by clenching and dripping all over my hand.

walking into the room randomly, saying “can you fuck me? i’m horny.” while already taking her clothes off because she knows i’m just eager to please.

the golden reward of occasionally getting her to moan, motivating me to go even harder.

every time being a challenge or game, having to learn her every twitch and breath to know when i’m doing a good job.

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Maybe I'm combining my puppy butch kink, my regency/royalty kink, and my dom bottom femme addiction but...

Me, as a hunting dog owned by a powerful femme heiress. So dangerous if sent to hunt but completely harmless in the hands of my femme...

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i need to bounce on someone’s cock and tell them what a good dildo they are and how i’m gonna keep them forever as my toy :-//

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obsessed with the messaging of this blog, im (rationally) incredibly riteous about people understanding the difference between dom/sub and top/bottom; on tiktok everyone refers to things that are so obviously sub top as "soft dom" and it's ruining my life LMFAO, i'm glad for this refuge and to know other people care 🙏🙏

Allow me to get on my soapbox bc I’ve needed to vent about this for a while:

It’s straight up misogyny and I’m not even slightly exaggerating. The whole concept that “penetration = domination” and how that’s equated with masculinity (+ the inverse “receiving penetration = submission” and how that’s equated with femininity) was born straight from patriarchy and you cannot divorce it from that context.

Bottomphobia (which is rooted in patriarchy, misogyny, homophobia, and femphobia) runs rampant and unchecked within queer kink and BDSM spaces. I am so sick of seeing bottoms being default treated like possessions and objects because of the assumption that there is an inherent link between bottoming and being submissive, AKA “weak and womanly.” I am quite frankly disgusted by the implication that being a bottom somehow makes me inherently more submissive, and whenever I see someone conflating the two, I just block them atp.

And I especially despise the way “bottom” has entered common parlance in place of “sub,” to the point where I’ve seen cishet women describe themselves as bottoms when explaining why they enjoy being submissive… Like, no, bottoming is not just lying there like a dead fish while a dominant masculine manly man penetrates you with his manly dick so you can have your 2.5th child, Deborah, you’re just describing regular-ass boring-as-hell cishet sex between regular-ass boring-as-hell cishet people, do not ever refer to me as “the passive partner” just because I’m a femme bottom again, and quit conflating femininity with submissiveness while you’re at it.

Why did we ever let cishet people misappropriate our terms (and why do I still see some queer people defending it)?

And like, I hate sounding like I’m being judgy about the whole thing because obviously if you’re a feminine woman who finds pleasure and joy in being submissive towards your male partner, that’s totally fine, there’s nothing inherently wrong with that. But the fact that that dynamic is assumed to be the default is patriarchy, whether it works for you or not. Those are the roles patriarchy expects everyone to play and deviation from that is punished.

Patriarchy always makes people’s lives worse by making them feel like their options for what is “allowed” and “acceptable” are extremely limited, regardless of how they actually feel and what they actually want. You can really tell when you read about sex from the perspectives of people who think topping is inherently dominant/bottoming is inherently submissive that they are legitimately too uncreative and confined by their internalized biases to imagine that sex roles may not actually be prescriptive and you can enjoy sex on your own terms however you want.

Bottoming is always framed as “taking” what’s “given,” something that happens to you for someone else’s enjoyment, because, again, it’s rooted in patriarchal misogyny. I honestly think most people would enjoy sex much more than they do if they didn’t feel obligated to play a certain role literally just because they prefer to experience one form of stimulation over the other.

(Not to mention that, as a transfem, the way that pensises are seen as this ultimate tool of domination and masculinity genuinely makes me sick to think about. Like, I’m not even a top and it grosses me tf out. I can’t imagine how girls who like to top and especially girls who like to subtop must feel constantly being told they’re assuming a dominant and masculine role just because they’re *checks notes* using a part of their body in a way that feels physically pleasurable to them.)

Anyway, TL;DR: patriarchy makes everything worse, interrogate your biases and quit treating Domtop/subbottom dynamics like they’re the default

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a letter to my dearest puppy . . .

i’ve been neglecting you, haven’t i? shame on me, hm? bet you wish you were here, your mind racing with all those dirty thoughts…i guess, i suppose, i could tell you what i’ve been thinking about myself?

i keep imagining you fucking me, relentless and erratic, not being able to keep a rhythm because “it feels so good”. i keep imagining your pretty, breathless voice going “pleasepleaseplease” while i tell you not to cum until i do. i’d wrap your leash around my fist, hold you close and make you grind on my thigh while i kiss you senseless. you’d like that, right, pup?

i’m gonna make you fuck all those pretty thoughts out of your head. my goal is to make your brain leak out through your dick. just wait until i see you next, pretty boy. we’re going to have so, so much fun!

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Dom bottom who cockwarms and uses a vibrator on his dick so that he can cum and I can't. All I can do is feel his cunt throb while he gets off.

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woof woof. make me watch you play with yourself and make me wait until i can touch myself, need a twink to leash and collar me and make me his subby top slave

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God what id do to ride a cute lil puppy boy as he whines and barks from under me to go faster. Sadly for him it is not about his pleasure but mine

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sit in my lap and tell me im a good boy

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uhoh guys… looks like i might be feeling like a dom bottom femme….

computer how do i catch obedient puppy butches who will whimper pitifully when they thrust into me? quickest route. no freeways.

serious inquiries only!!!

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need a short lil soft dom power bottom in my life so badly rn. like yes please tease me until i can't think, put me under your spell. you're smaller than me but you're so much bigger than me, a giant in my mind that slowly takes control of all of my wants and needs. but that's okay because you take care of me and it's safe with you and i'm a good boy so you'll never need to punish me, i have nothing to worry about ♥️