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25M, my penis never "stands up" when erect?

Hey everyone, I've been wondering about this for awhile and decided to just ask. Since I don't know whether it's normal or whether something is wrong. When I get an erection, my penis never stands or sits up right by itself. When laying on my back, it alwaya lays flat on my stomach. When standing, it kinda "hangs" down. When receiving a blowjob for example, it always needs an extra hand to help it stand up. So just curious whether that's normal or not?

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Ladies...Am I the only woman who can't have multiple orgasms? Sure feels like it

So before you say I don't know what I'm doing, I'm very familiar with my own body and how it orgasms. I started masturbating at a very young age and I'm middle aged now so...I'm an expert wanker haha. I've had many different partners and I know exactly how my body responds sexually to both toys, my hands, to other people etc.

Almost all my orgasms are earth-shatteringly strong. After they happen, I won't be able to orgasm for another few hours at least. The most I've had in a day was 3, but they were spread out across several hours so my body had a chance to have a break.

I keep hearing about women having several orgasms one after another within short succession...is this common? I can't imagine how I anyone could cope with having several of my orgasms in a row, I'd pass out. Curious if anyone can relate to my experiences.

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Boyfriends balls disappeared

This morning I was feeling my boyfriends balls and his sack was empty. He then touches something and they are back. Where were they?

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I think my GF has a shit fetish

So I have been seeing this girl for about 3 to 4 months and I think she has either a dirty or shit fetish. A little background I work a blue collar job manual labor I'm a bigger guy 6'3 230. So I sweat a lot and I have IBS so I shit a lot. I finished working a 12 hour shift and then came home and my girlfriend came over to hangout. I had been telling her how bad my day was and that my stomach was messed up so when I got home I wanted some kombucha and to lay down. This woman had a different idea and that idea scared me. I get home and before I can get a shower she makes me take off my pants and sucks my dick and eats my ass... Not that I'm complaining about any head or ass eating myself I just think it is very odd and she possibly had a kink. So I asked her about it and she got defensive and said she was just trying to please me and make me feel good since it was a bad day. But she's now done this 7 other times and I don't complain or anything just curious and trying to get some input.

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What fleshlight should I buy husband?

There are so many kinds! I feel bad because he used to have a cheap knockoff and got rid of it when I told him my mom is snoopy. She would never sneak around looking for things like this, so I think he misunderstood me. He doesn’t have any other sex toys, so looking for a good all-rounder for his birthday. Thanks!

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Why does sex not give me as hard,strong and durable erection as I get when I masturbate watching porn or just my imagination?

I recently had sex for the first time and one of the issues I faced was not so strong erection when I was getting a blowjob, handjob and trying PIV.

Also, during PIV when I wore the condom, my erection was more loose and I was unable to put it in.

Please help.

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Tested positive for chlamydia. Partner is accusing me of infidelity. I don’t know what to believe anymore.

A week ago I (33F) started having symptoms of a UTI. No big deal. I went to the doctor, they did a quick test of my urine and didn’t immediately detect nitrates so decided to do the full inspection (urine culture, vaginal swab, etc.) for STI’s. Turns out I do have a UTI, and BV… and chlamydia.

I’ve been in a monogamous relationship for the past year and a half. About a three to four weeks ago, my bf (38M) and I split up. The break lasted one week. He said he didn’t sleep with anyone during that time. And I didn’t sleep with anyone. Didn’t even leave my house actually.

This might sound crazy but I believe him. Why lie? We weren’t in a relationship at that time, it’s not cheating. But he‘a accusing me of lying.

I’m losing my mind. I don’t know what to do. Is this gaslighting?

Is it possible BV could cause a false positive? Or something else?

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My mind is blocked on sexual fantaisies I can’t focus on anything, and it’s frustrating me

I’m a woman (30) and I’ve always had a high sex drive. I have a lot of recurrent sexual fantasies and I get horny in a lot of inappropriate times such as at work or in a family setting I can’t control it. At work I have been obsessing about one worker he’s tall and fit and attractive. I’m supposed to be his boss, but around him I feel weak, my legs become weak, I blush and I can feel myself getting wet; and I think he caught up on me and he’s a bit flirty. He’s been the main character in my fantasies even when I’m having sex with my boyfriend and when I’m masturbating. And I keep having a fantasy of him raping me and it turns me on so much. I feel constantly guilty and frustrated and I’m also scared about this affecting my performance at work. I’m also the type of person that is liberated sexually and I’m not used to restraining myself (I’m in a semi open relationship) and I’m scared of acting on my fantasy, I know it’s wrong but I want it to happen so badly. How can I accept that I can’t have this guy ?

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Sex talk in native language

I started to have sex with my fwb recently, and the second time we met up he wanted me to call him daddy. It was weird at first but then it started to be hot for me. Yesterday he wanted me to call him daddy in my native language but I couldn’t because that’s what I call my dad and it makes me feel weird. So he asked me to say things in my language which I did, but if fell very unnatural to me because I’ve never said it before. But from his reaction he was so into it, he started to fuck me harder. I wonder how can I became more comfortable in saying this things during sex.

Also when a guy says “tell me how much you want it” what am I supposed to reply. I’m so bad with sex talk Ahahah

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My penis would release thick(like semi-solid) semen after peeing.

I'm a man, 23. Is it normal if I haven't masturbated for several weeks then my penis would release thick(like semi-solid) semen after peeing?

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do you girls get “blue balls”? (22F)

so I ve seen lots of guys discussing about feeling discomfort when they are sexually aroused and they dont cum. They describe it as hurtful and although my sensation is not painful but only incredibly uncomfortable I kinda have it to. And I dont mean like upsetting because you can’t touch yourself or have sex, I mean like physical discomfort. Have any other girls experienced it too? My gynecologist says its the rush of blood arriving to that area.

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I’m (54F) nervous about having sex with my new husband (51M) given my past.

In the past, I was married to an abusive husband. Regardless, I eventually left him. As time went on, I met my current husband who has done nothing but treat me as I have always desired. I want to have sex with him today, but there’s still a part of me that thinks I’m going to hyperventilate and suffer from a panic attack on the spot.

I know he’d take things slow during sex, but my mind keeps telling me the exact opposite. My husband and I have talked dirty to each other in the time we’ve been married. He loves when I say how I’d give him a blowjob. I love when he says he’s fascinated with my big butt and how he’d f**k it. I want to experience everything possible with sex with him. I really do. I’m aiming to surprise him today. Also, we’ve only given each other a kiss on the lips and have not done anything sexual together yet.

I need any advice to calm my nerves. I’m still traumatized from what my ex-husband did and I thought I would’ve grown from that by now, but I guess not.

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hes a very loud moaner and my neighbours feel disturbed

okay i am a bi guy and i have this fwb whos pretty good and we have sex once in a week but theres a problem, hes a very loud moaner and my neighbours have pointed it out to me by saying "whatever u do at night you guys make alot of sound" also they said they might be asking cops for help if we continue to disturb them, we dont have any other places for us, he has flat mates and we dont know what should be done to fix this problem that they dont hear him moan so loud and we enjoy it aswell

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Have you ever got overwhelmed during sex and had to stop? How did that affect ur relationship?

Asking bc this happened to me and I’m worried it may doom us. There was one time where I just got really overwhelmed and ended up crying, we ended up talking a bit that night about it and over the next few days. He’s kinda different now like he’s way more cautious and I’m worried that he will get annoyed with having to be cautious with me and will want to find someone who can handle more easier.

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Has living together changed your sex lives?

I’m going to be moving in with my fiancée in a few months for the first time and I’m curious if it’ll affect our sex lives.

We don’t have sex often now due to circumstances but I’m having hopes that we’ll have an increase in frequency, quality and more exploration when we stay together due to the increased privacy and time spent together, as opposed to now where we only see each other once or twice a week.

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I put multiple strawberries in my vag last night with my guy and now I’m stuck

Me and my guy had a drunk night of doing a lot and one of the things was putting cold strawberries in my vagina during head (like the ice trick) it felt good but I drunkenly knocked out with it in me and woke up late for work and rushed here. I’m now currently at work hungover with like 3 strawberries in my vag and im just going on here to see if anyone has gone through this before and will the strawberries later dissolve somehow or do I need to keep trying to get it out myself

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Female version of blue balls?

When I'm horny for a long time I get like a dull ache in my lower abdomen. It doesn't happen very often. Only when I've been horny for a long time like when my boyfriend teases me. The only thing to soothe the ache is for me to have an orgasm.

Does this happen to other girls?

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