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my mutuals can do that too but you dont see any snapple facts about them

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see I love thinking about characters I like being aspec, but many of those characters would not in a million years end up identifying that way even if it was accurate. either they’ll never hear the term or never think to consider that it could apply to them or be too busy with other shit to think that hard about their own identity…. but I’ll know…

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Dismantling the relationship hierarchy is not about rearranging it so that sexual and romantic relationships are devalued while QPRs become the new “more than friends.” We need to completely do away with the idea that relationships exist on a fixed hierarchy. Some people will consider friend(s) or a zucchini/QPP the most important part of their life. For some people, their most important relationship will be a sexual relationship (and not necessarily one which includes romance!). And some people will still consider their romantic partner the most important person in their life, and that’s fine too.

Just as it’s harmful to tell an aroace person that romantic and sexual relationships are the most important ones, it’s also harmful to tell an alloaro person that sex is inherently less important than romance or to tell an alloromantic aplatonic person that friendship is inherently more important than romance. There is no way to rank relationships that will not devalue the experiences of at least one group of people, nor is there any reason why we need to rank relationships in the first place.

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"It is what it is" I say as I almost vomit from anxiety

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this network sure can effect!

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I was thinking through what else I’m looking forward to this holiday season and I realized I haven’t mentioned it on here, just on discord, but— MY MOMS BEEN MAKING ME A REALLY COOL ART THING??

I think I’ve talked about it before, but my mom has been a quilter for most of my life and in the last few years started doing these really cool fabric collages, and it was my turn to request one so I asked for a phoenix cause I’m obsessed with this one art piece I did in art therapy ages ago

Anyway, my mom has been working on it and THIS was the last update I got???

I’m so excited for it?? Can’t wait to see where it’s at by the time I get there this weekend

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it's time for top/bottom discourse to end. the only thing i want to hear about is which one is the sex crier.

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The King’s Admiral and the Pirate King

Fire & Blood, George R.R. Martin // unknown // Our Wives Under the Sea, Julia Armfield // The Mariner by Daniel Oxford // unknown // Peripety by Jen Mezza // edit from cannivalisms // screenshot from cannivalisms // twitter user @mazculinity // @bipeds // @uraandri // @cemeterything // A Seascape by Vartan Makhokhian // @chimpanzeedotcom // @meriamwebsterdicktionary // instagram user @reddsmess // Tonight I’m Someone Else, Chelsea Hodson (Essays) // Crush, Richard Siken // @domme-hilly // The Unfinished Tales, "The Mariner's Wife," J.R.R. Tolkien

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it's time for top/bottom discourse to end. the only thing i want to hear about is which one is the sex crier.

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ASOIAF characters who would be bodybuilders?

canonically qyburn ba-dum-TS

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you tell mfs you had a dream about them and they assume it was sexual

my guy you were literally a giant beaver

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it's always "did you think I'd be impressed by this neon necropolis?" and never "how was the neon necropolis? it looked fun, was it fun?"

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do you ever hear yourself talking and one word comes out very pronounced in you regional accent and you get irrationally embarrassed because oh no now people are going to know i’m from a place

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wollte gerade nach diesen baumwollstoffen googlen die man gut fürs sticken nutzen kann

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ah ja… da war ja was

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by calling it "time theft", the state created a crime that sounds even cooler than simply dicking around while on the clock, something which is already incredibly cool

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I looooove the shit that's like

"You have the power to possess me and take over my body but you don't because you respect me"

because it can lead to

"I'll let you possess me and take over my body when necessary because I trust you"