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I had people over yesterday, but I also bought the wrong flavour of wet food pate so Pangur spent the entire time vomiting, then begging for food (because she'd vommed it all out), then filling the room with meat-stink farts.

and also begging to be held bc she didn't feel good, even though the pressure of me holding her just pushed out more farts.

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Have a Blessed Yule to all who celebrate!

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All I'm gonna say is, if he wasn't so evil and disturbing, the new Count Orlok would be my type. That's alllllllll I'm gonna say.

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does mr knock nosferatu jerk it ritual style or did the script lie to me

What the actual fuck no that doesn’t happen 😭 What script were you reading 💀

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I saw Nosferatu last night and oh my fucking god. Y'all go see it on Christmas, I'm not fucking around. It's chilling and horrifying, yet so beautiful (the ending especially). It's been a long time since a movie has impressed me this much. Bill Skarsgård blew me away as Count Orlok-he completely transformed himself, it was incredible. I was so scared, I spent probably a good 90% of the film hugging my popcorn bucket to the point where it got smushed 😅 Please go see this film!

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“ao3 should have an algorithm” ao3 should continue only giving me exactly what I ask for which happens because I know how to use the search, sort, and filter functions

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nasty faggotses........

WHYY IS HOMOPHOBIC SMEAGOL IN MY INBOX

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you are an individual !!!!!!!

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Edinburgh yesterday.

instagram

print shop

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I just saw a story on AO3 tagged "pet p!ay"

TIK TOK MUST BE STOPPED BEFORE IT DESTROYS LANGUAGE

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Anyway, this blog stands with trans people. If you really think Aphrodite, or any of the Gods for that matter, doesn’t love��every single one of their trans worshipers then you can leave. You sure as hell aren’t wanted here.

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random thought:

I think "sex is just another activity you can do with a person" arose as a response to the conservative christian "sex is the most Sacred Important Thing Ever and you HAVE to do it Correctly and only Within Marriage or it's The Most Damaging Sinful Thing That Tarnishes You Eternally." Which definitely needed to be criticized.

however when I see it expressed as like "sex isn't a special activity or inherently different than other things" I think. Well it is though?

I mean that being allowed into the intimate boundaries of another person's body inherently has more responsibilities (making sure the other person feels safe, caring about their comfort and pleasure, communicating clearly) than like...going on a walk in the park with that person

Which really just more starkly highlights how twisted purity culture is? "Sex is an activity with special significance" should mean, "If you are being really intimate with someone and you don't care about their pleasure and wellbeing and listen to their wants and needs, you could really, REALLY hurt them," not "If you have sex with anyone except the single person you've gotten married to and are committed to for the rest of your life, gross fungus literally grows on your soul."

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If you’re suicidal and still alive, I’m so fucking proud of you.

If you’re suffering from an eating disorder and still eating, I’m so fucking proud of you.

If you’re suffering from a mental illness and your fighting, I’m so. Fucking. Proud. Of. You.