chuck, they/them, 28. support blog for sad aromantics. side blog because i'm still closeted.
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People really need to stop talking about aromantic people in such a way to suggest we need to, like, make up for our lack of romantic attraction? This ties into the whole "aromantic people can still date" and "aromantic people can have qprs" and "aromantic people still feel strong platonic love" pattern I keep seeing where it's as if people are trying to say "don't worry, they can still be mostly normal" and it is so frustrating to me as a non-partnering aromantic person and is likely even worse for aplatonic and loveless aros.
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Take care of yourselves today. Drink water, deep breaths, remember to eat. Personally, I’m feeling pretty hopeless and devastated, so with what little energy I have I just want to say this: you are not alone, and you deserve some kindness and rest today. I know there is good in the world, because I am here and so are you.
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I went in the code again and saw the new Boop paws were vectors this time, so I converted them into some good sized pngs that are a little easier to work.
Save and share to boop your people later!
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bisexual aroallo wallpapers!
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Bisexual: Attraction to two or more genders; Attraction to same and different genders
Aroallo: Someone who experiences sexual attraction, but not romantic attraction. An abbreviation for aromantic allosexual.
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[Image Description: White serif font on a muted red background. The text says, in all caps, "Shut the fuck up." End ID]
redesigned the aro flag. nothing was wrong with the original i just felt like it was missing a little something something
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This one is arguably very personal because I have no idea if other aros feel the same – but I've seen too many stories about a character being rejected where the person doing the rejecting is (accidentally or not) implied to be some sort of "bad guy" or "the one who has it easier", so I guess I had an itch to show my side.
Aromantic people and alloromantic people have such different views on what "true love" is that it's not about one or the other being "in the wrong" – it's just one big compatibility issue. All I can say is – as an aromantic, being confessed to romantically IS what leaves me heartbroken, for such reasons. Hopefully there will be a broader understanding of this in the future.
#(thank u to the commenter who linked this)#it is very relatable#i often struggle with friendships for this reason
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i don’t know if this is a common aro experience, but i feel like I’m so scared of leading people on romantically and hurting their feelings that it gets in the way of making close friendships sometimes
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peer reviewed tags from @sunsetvulture
an entire mood
happy pride month, i love being aro 🖤🩶🤍💚
#sometimes there’s just no time for all that#btw if you’re not cool with the screenshot let me know and I’ll delete
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epic aro sculpture i did for class
the heart is made out of plastic bags wrapped with tape, so it's squishy ^_^ and the knife is qtips hot glued together. the knife is also removable!
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aromantic culture is me forgetting which day valentine’s day is
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sometimes i get tempted to try dating again just to microdose feeling important to people
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