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First ever out of town trip with my love. ❤️

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“No one has ever become poor by giving.”

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How to survive a 79km Long Distance Relationship.

I was never a fan of Long Distance Relationships. I hate the fact that I wouldn’t be able to see my partner whenever I want to and the fact that you cannot communicate well through the screen of your phones and tablets. 

I created this post as a reminder for me of how I managed to have a long distance relationship and maybe it could help a reader experiencing the same pick up a few things that might work for them. 

so here it goes. 

1. Admit that you don’t want it. Both of you must admit if you are not used to the distance, but let them know you are willing to endure it with them. When we first started our relationship I told him I never wanted a long distance relationship and told how it makes me feel and what possible problems I foresee and from there we identify what are our next steps. 

2. Have a routine. Many might say routines are boring because they just keep on repeating themselves. But no, based on my experience routines are better in long distance relationship because it is consistent and reassuring. What we do is at the end of each day we set a “bebe time”. Wherein we spend time with each other virtually, it could be through a voice call, video call, movie streaming through rave or teaming up in an online game. 

3. Always be Honest. Never ever assume they would know what you mean in that cold message you sent. Always tell them how you feel just how it is. Trust me he is already frustrated that you are away and can’t comfort you when you need them so it is important to know if how are you physically and emotionally. 

4. Have lots of room for mistakes. Long Distance Relationship has a lot of tendencies to cause mistakes. There are miscommunications, being able not to update your partner when you are tired from work, mood swings that you wouldn’t know about and many more. Instead of fighting it out, extend more patience, ask them what made them frustrated, better understand what they are going through before jumping into conclusions. This way your partner will feel secure even if you are away, they will feel like they can open up their feeling to you regardless of the distance plus no added stress because you are not fighting over something that doesn’t need to be fought about. 

5. Love.  Love them the best way you can. Many would say love will never be enough. NO, love will always be enough because if you truly love someone respect, honesty, patience, understanding and all the things that are needed in the relationship will be present. Always remember the way of love in 1 Corinthians 13. 

Me and my partner has still a lot to learn with our long distance relationship. it is not perfect but I know it will be worth it. We are also in a trial and error stage but it’s fine for us both because we both believe that for our relationship to grow we need accept the fact that we will make mistakes through the process. What makes it worth it is that both of us see a future overcoming the distance and finally being able to be together. 

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A breather from all this chaos. ❤️

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I miss my jaime. 🥺

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I love you. ❤️

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I saw these post about manifesting what you want and people saying how they were able to achieve it.

So here it goes.

In 2 years time, We will be able to buy up our own house and live together. Lord I claim it in Your name. 🥺🥺🥺

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Dear Jaime,

Today my mom talked about you. She told me that I should not be too trusting because we are just 4 months into the relationship. "He might not be serious with you" she said.

A part of me was mad at her for even second guessing what we have, because they know nothing but a part of me is scared. I never want to doubt your love for me but this long distance relationship is getting the best of me.

I want to trust and believe in what our love could overcome, but what if. Just what if you decide to hurt me.

Jaime, my heart wouldn't be able to handle that kind of pain. I have loved many with all I can give and each of them decided I wasn't the one for them. And I do not take it against them, and I won't take it against you if one day you decide the same. but one thing is true, I have never felt anything like this before and I want to see how hard I can love someone with this love I have for you.

I'll try my best to stop doubting us, and endure this long distance relationship until the day I get to wake up next to you knowing that I will be doing that for the rest of my life.

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Thank you for the best birthday weekend my love. 🥺❤️ I love youuuuu.

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November 11, 2020. Birthday shoot. Happy Birthday to my Favorite Scorpio, Me. ❤️😂

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Dumping photos of our first ever meeting. Huhu. Thank you, you don't know how much it meant to me. You having to travel for 4 hours traveling 78km going here just so you could be with me for a few days. 🥺 Maraming Salamat Mahal. See you again soon.

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“The worst loneliness is to not be comfortable with yourself.”

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I seem to be losing who I really am. I really want to get the old me back.

“I need to be myself.”

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Yung jowa kong naglalambing sa umaga. 🥺❤️

Everything Jaime does is all new to me. Kung paano niya ako suyuin, kung paano niya ako lambingin, kung paano niya ako alagaan kahit malayo siya.

Minsan sa sobrang overwhelmed ko sa pagmamahal niya, yung puso ko parang sasabog sa saya. 😂

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Sana hindi ka magsawa. 😂 Everyday ata akong nagsesend ng selfie sayo e. 😂😂

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Dear Jaime. 💕

“Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.”

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