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Sometimes people use “respect” to mean “treating someone like a person” and sometimes they use “respect” to mean “treating someone like an authority”

and sometimes people who are used to being treated like an authority say “if you won’t respect me I won’t respect you” and they mean “if you won’t treat me like an authority I won’t treat you like a person”

and they think they’re being fair but they aren’t, and it’s not okay.

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uses my insane musscle memory to open 4 wrong apps in a row

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"sammy took his first steps yesterday. he walked toward dean."

most definitely could have gone my whole life not knowing this information. john, count your journaling days over. he 😭 walked 😭 toward 😭 dean 😭.

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While I still love my main, "need to use their words" idiots, I have decided to also love another set of "need to use their words" idiots. I think I have a problem.

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I got to work with @butterflyslinky for the @spngenderbendbang on their fic Candy Girl!

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This was made specifically for @melle-otterwise for a gift exchange, but I thought it was too cute not to share with the rest of the destiel fans. Cozy Christmas.

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I just want to remind everyone how affordable buying food from indigenous tribes is. I live in a major city and I was able to purchase and ship (15) pounds of fish from back home to myself for cheaper than I could buy it from a grocery store here in the city. Yeah, shipping has its own environmental factors but I was able to support an indigenous owned business while also getting my groceries at a lesser cost. (Buying in bulk is always a good idea if you’re planning on having something shipped to you)

Some tribal owned grocers that ship:

Bow and Arrow (Ute Mountain)

Native Harvest (White Earth)

Red Lake Fishery (Red Lake)

Wozupi (Mdewakanton Dakota)

Ramona Farms (Gila River)

Tanka Bars (Oglala)

Indian Pueblo Store (Pueblos)

Twisted Cedar Wine (Cedar Paiutes)

Ute Bison (Ute)

Seka Hills Olive Oil and Vinegars (Yocha Dehe Wintun)

She Nah Nam Seafood (Nisqually)

Sakari Botanicals (Inupiaq)

Honor the Earth (? Anishinaabe)

Nett Lake Wild Rice (Boise Forte Anishinaabe)

Passamaquoddy maple (Passamaquoddy)

BONUS: coffee :)

Yeego Coffee (Navajo)

Spirit Mountain Roasting (Yuma Quechan)

Birchbark Coffee (Anishinaabe)

Thunder Island Coffee (Shinnecock)

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Welcome Back to the Honky Tonk Angels Mini Bang!

Hey Friends, it’s been a while huh? It’s a little rough out there right now. With the state of things, we think it’s time to spread a little love and comfort within our community. Everyone needs a little treat, a little escape, a little distraction, something to keep them selves occupied, or a reason to keep on fighting. While Fanworks aren’t the end all be all answer, sometimes we take the little wins that we can. And so, with a heavy heart and a great amount of love, the HTAMB is back for the 2025 year. Sign ups officially open today. Spread the love, share this out, and maybe we can help make a few little treats to help us through these trying times. Author Sign Ups here: https://forms.gle/GXRpzRtpzR9ttLna6 Artist Sign Ups here: https://forms.gle/7sHP1cksdNUgRBEM6 2025 Schedule: November 11th: Sign Ups Open! December 29th: Author Sign Ups Close January 3rd: Author Song Claim Day January 5th: Artist Song Release Day January 31st: First Author Check In February 28th: Second Author Check in (50%) March 28th: Third Author Check in (80% + Claims Info Due) April 5th: Claims Day April 19th: Team Check In May 3rd: Team Check In (Promo Materials Due) May 5th: Posting Dates Released May 10th: Author Final Check in May 17th: Promo Posting Begins May 24th: Posting Starts

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SPN friends, I have created a few bangs and helped moderate a few bangs over the years. I had to take a step back (a rather large one) for my mental health and I'm trying to get back into the swing of things..... currently I am looking to run 5 bangs next year and am going to need some help in doing so. If you would like to help out with any of the following, please feel free to drop me a message here or on discord:

@rhonda-hurley-appreciation-bang

@bottomdeanbigbang

Honky Tonk Angels

Spn Fantasy Reverse Bang

And one brandy new one (the ideas been floating but we are still in development)

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Cum one, cum all! For the newest Monster Fluffer Fest! The After Dark Special! Rules: 1. This is an SPN (currently) specific Fest. However, we do allow crossovers. 2. Be an Adult. All participants must be over the age of 18, due to the nature of the content within. If you do not adhere to these rules, you will be banned from future participation. 3. ALL PAIRINGS WELCOME. There is a caveat, along with the no creators under the age of 18, all persons shown in a sexual nature need to be above the legal age of consent. As most mods are from the North American Continent, and we have agreed on terms: 18 years of age. THIS IS A HARD LIMIT. If you want to add a little bit of spice, we need adults. 4. TAG YO SHIT. Since we are not limiting what you can write about, you must TAG your creations appropriately. If anyone alerts us to missing tags from your fic (or post submission) you will be asked to correct it. Failure to do so will result in your fic being disqualified from the bang. 5. CONSUME CONTENT AT YOUR OWN RISK. As previously stated, we are not limiting what you can create, as long as it’s tagged appropriately. The burden is on the consumer to read all tags to curate to your consuming experience. If you feel you cannot do so, look away friend. 6. Types of Permitted Content: -Writings: minimum 500 words (no max) -Art: One piece minimum to your level of acceptance. -Playlists: 10 song minimum plus cover. 7. Secrecy: who are they? I dunno, but unlike bangs we don’t care if you talk about it or hype it up. We only ask that you wait until posting your full creation on the days specified! Bring on the monster fluffing. It’s what we live for. 8. Creation needs to be “new” for the fest. While we love the content already out there, we will boost signals for that ANYday of the week. Our submission box is always open to showcase the creatives that call fandom home. HOWEVER, for fests we want new and unique pieces for that specific event. You can add to a world with a neat new, STAND ALONE, piece or create something entirely new. 9. Submission: not the quinky kind, but to the blog. When the dates of the fest are upon us , you can submit your creations any time during the event, as early as the day before, so we can schedule promotions. 10 Discord: Do we have one? OF COURSE WE DO. Come join the fun, is it required? NO! But we do update things with a little more ease there than on here. One particular mod, not naming names, is really bad at tumblr so they have some issues remembering to update. BUT WE GET THERE IN THE END. We have a ton of fun on there discussing monster fucking, prompts and ideas, celebrating other’s works, and even rec’ing some stellar stuff. So join us if you dare. https://discord.gg/fFYfVcX8Yv If you need clarification of any of the rules listed or ANYTHING else pertaining to the fest PLEASE,PLEASE,PLEASE reach out asap.

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Right, considering the current state of corporate politics on this site, and that it seems that only those affected seem to be actively speaking on the matter, it is up to I, the only fucking cishet on tumblr, to drag this out to a wider audience.

REBLOG IF YOUR ACCOUNT IS A TRANSFEM SAFE SPACE.

We need to show these higher ups how much we truly value them.

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I got to work with @wolfiepyxie for the @destielsoulmatebang ! I was super excited for this one and I hope our all enjoy it as much as I do! You can check it out here.

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My tattoo artist told me his teenage son came out to him as trans by giving him a bunch of blue cupcakes and a greeting card that said "it's a boy!"

"That's cute," I said.

"It was NOT cute!" he snapped. "I thought he was pregnant."

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can someone please be proud of me like fuck I’m trying