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WHATEVER YOU DO do NOT think about bringing your overworking F/O a tea or coffee while they work

DO NOT think about how they would look at you in surprise before hoarsely saying 'thank you' in response

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you ever got such an specific au for your selfship in your brain that you know its extremely self inulgent and doesnt make sense but it makes you happy

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reminder to all who are conventionally unattractive, mentally ill, chronically ill, disabled, struggling financially, or are "cringe"

your f/o loves you for who you are, not despite it <3

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Selfship is not only incredibly fun but it's also just super healing, at least for me anyway.

If you also use selfship to heal, please know that you are incredibly valid and your F/O is so happy that they get to be there beside you in your healing journey.

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Your f/o(s) love you no matter what your gender is, no matter what your sexuality is, no matter what race you are, no matter how tall or short you are, no matter your weight, no matter if youre chronically ill, no matter if youre disabled, no matter if youre neurodivergent, no matter what mental illnesses or personality disorders you struggle with, no matter if you struggle to do things that everyone else says is a 'basic human function', no matter how you dress or present yourself, no matter what your financial situation is, no matter what job you have, no matter how high or low energy you are, if youve been called annoying; too much; too boring; too this too that; your f/os think youre perfect: to them and for them. They love you at your best and they love you at your worst. Theyve seen it all and nothing changed, they dont view you any differently. They want to support you through everything they can, and if its something you need to do by yourself theyre there to remind you youre not alone, they believe in you. No matter what, you are loveable, you are loved. And if they struggle to show their emotions and affection? Trust me, that they try to show it in the best way they can; and it may even be the small things but youd notice it.

They could 𝘯𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 not love you.

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Imagine your normally stoic/emotionally reserved/grumpy F/O telling you just how deeply and madly in love with you they are… when they think you can’t hear them, of course.

Perhaps you’re taking a nap on the couch or something like that, somewhere in between the states of awake and asleep, as they pass by. They see your relaxed face—one side gently smooshed against the cushion—and take a moment to just admire you.

It doesn’t take long for them to start talking to themselves, mumbling praises just loud enough for you to catch. You’re so beautiful, so kind. They wonder what they did to deserve you. They know they don’t say it as much as they should, as much as they want to, but god, they love you so much that it almost drives them crazy.

Their words reach you through the sleepy haze of your mind. Once they leave to just let you rest, you fall fully asleep with a dreamy smile on your face and a warmth in your heart.

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thought about f/o saying “cmere you” and pulling me in for cuddles. hundreds dead thousands injured

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Your f/o would love spending time with you. Even if it's lounging around or just doing nothing. If it's with you, they're down for pretty much anything.

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random reminder to come up with a nickname for your f/o that only youre allowed to call them, trust me on this one just do it

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Me at age 8: I might not have any friends, but I can make imaginary friends with rich social lives to fill that hole. I bet when I’m older I’ll grow out of this. 

Me at age 20: I need to make another OC to try and simulate human connection or else I’m gonna lose my mind.

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Aka does your fandom tend to Forget or otherwise not pay much attention to The Character