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so I got into grad school today with my shitty 2.8 gpa and the moral of the story is reblog those good luck posts for the love of god

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snoopys! by fruitillu

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a friend who once loved me.

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personal tools i use over the years to match the vibration of my desires

these are just some of the tools i use because i tried many techniques, but me "trying" before created more resistance. that's why i always tell people to do what works for them. these are my personal favorites that have always worked for me (because of my belief, of course) and have become a habit of mine, adding them to my daily routine.

affirmation tapes while sleeping

i love affirmation tapes, especially neville's and joseph murphy's one affirmation tape. i have listened to them overnight since 2022. since our subconscious mind does not sleep, i take advantage of it. our minds are most receptive upon sleeping and waking.

commanding my mind

it has become a habit of mine to counteract a negative belief the moment i think of it. i know and feel if a thought does not serve me, so i always flip it over. it has just become easier for me after working on myself over the years.

mirror work

i have been doing mirror work since 2021, when i finished the book "you can heal your life" by louise hay, where i got the idea. since words are powerful, i look myself in the eyes while telling myself affirmations. i feel which part of me resists that idea and try my best to calm it down and accept the new idea (affirmation) that aligns with my true self. it is actually very hard when you are programmed with negative beliefs about yourself and life in general, but changing those beliefs while looking in the mirror feels very powerful to me.

vision boards

while they are not necessary, i love the process of making vision boards. i have my big corkboard in my room as a vision board, and i also edit them for my laptop wallpaper and phone widgets. i just love being reminded of where i am going in life.

shadow work

when i feel it is hard for me to match the vibration of my desire, i know i have to uncover the underlying beliefs i have on that particular subject. so, i do my best to see which part of me does not believe and really investigate why i have that belief, why i bought into it, and make peace with it and let it go.

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💗 Don't look for someone who gives you butterflies. Look for someone who doesn't spike your cortisol levels.

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10 Ways to Add Sizzle to Your Boring Writing

Writing that sizzles captures the reader's attention and keeps them engaged from start to finish. Whether you're an experienced writer or just starting out, there are several techniques you can use to make your writing more exciting and dynamic. Here are ten detailed ways to add sizzle to your boring writing:

1. Use Vivid Descriptions

Vivid descriptions bring your writing to life by creating a rich, immersive experience for the reader. Instead of relying on generic or bland language, use specific details that appeal to the senses. Describe how things look, sound, smell, taste, and feel to paint a vivid picture.

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Visual Descriptions: Use color, shape, and size to create a mental image. Instead of saying "The car was old," say "The rusty, olive-green car wheezed as it pulled into the driveway."

Sound Descriptions: Incorporate onomatopoeia and detailed sound descriptions. Instead of "The music was loud," say "The bass thumped, and the high notes pierced through the night air."

Smell and Taste Descriptions: Use sensory language. Instead of "The food was good," say "The aroma of roasted garlic and herbs filled the room, and the first bite was a burst of savory flavors."

2. Show, Don't Tell

"Show, don't tell" is a fundamental writing principle that means revealing information through actions, thoughts, dialogue, and sensory details rather than straightforward exposition. This approach makes your writing more engaging and allows readers to experience the story.

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Actions Over Exposition: Instead of telling the reader "Jane was scared," show her fear through her actions: "Jane's hands trembled as she fumbled with the lock, her breath coming in shallow gasps."

Dialogue: Use conversations to reveal character traits and emotions. Instead of "John was angry," show his anger through his words and tone: "John's voice was a low growl as he said, 'I can't believe you did this.'"

Internal Thoughts: Reveal characters' inner worlds. Instead of "Emma felt relieved," show her relief: "Emma let out a long breath she didn't realize she was holding and sank into the chair, a smile tugging at her lips."

3. Create Relatable Characters

Relatable characters are crucial for keeping readers invested in your story. Characters should have depth, including strengths, weaknesses, desires, and fears. When readers see aspects of themselves in your characters, they're more likely to care about their journeys.

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Character Flaws: Give your characters realistic flaws. A perfect character can be boring and unrelatable. Show how these flaws impact their decisions and relationships.

Character Arcs: Ensure your characters grow and change throughout the story. A well-crafted character arc can turn a good story into a great one.

Background and Motivations: Provide backstories and motivations. Why does your character act the way they do? What drives them? This adds depth and makes them more three-dimensional.

4. Add Dialogue

Dialogue can break up large blocks of text and make your writing more dynamic. It reveals character, advances the plot, and provides opportunities for conflict and resolution. Ensure your dialogue sounds natural and serves a purpose.

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Natural Speech: Write dialogue that sounds like real conversation, complete with interruptions, pauses, and colloquial language. Avoid overly formal or stilted speech.

Purposeful Dialogue: Every line of dialogue should have a purpose, whether it's revealing character, advancing the plot, or building tension. Avoid filler conversations that don't add to the story.

Subtext: Use subtext to add depth. Characters might say one thing but mean another, revealing their true feelings through what they don't say directly.

5. Use Strong Verbs

Strong verbs make your writing more vivid and energetic. They convey action and emotion effectively, making your sentences more powerful and engaging.

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Action Verbs: Choose verbs that show precise actions. Instead of "She went to the store," say "She dashed to the store."

Avoid Weak Verbs: Replace weak verbs and verb phrases with stronger alternatives. Instead of "He was walking," say "He strode."

Emotionally Charged Verbs: Use verbs that convey specific emotions. Instead of "She was sad," say "She wept."

6. Vary Sentence Structure

Varying sentence structure keeps your writing interesting and prevents it from becoming monotonous. Mix short, punchy sentences with longer, more complex ones to create a rhythm that engages readers.

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Short Sentences for Impact: Use short sentences to create tension, urgency, or emphasize a point. "He stopped. Listened. Nothing."

Complex Sentences for Detail: Use longer sentences to provide detailed descriptions or explain complex ideas. "As the sun set behind the mountains, the sky transformed into a canvas of oranges, pinks, and purples, casting a warm glow over the serene landscape."

Combine Different Structures: Mix simple, compound, and complex sentences to maintain a natural flow. Avoid repetitive patterns that can make your writing feel flat.

7. Introduce Conflict

Conflict is the driving force of any story. It creates tension and keeps readers invested in the outcome. Without conflict, your story can become stagnant and uninteresting.

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Internal Conflict: Characters should struggle with internal dilemmas, fears, and desires. This adds depth and relatability.

External Conflict: Introduce obstacles and challenges that characters must overcome. This can be other characters, societal pressures, or natural forces.

Resolution: Show how conflicts are resolved, leading to character growth and plot progression. Ensure resolutions feel earned and satisfying.

8. Use Metaphors and Similes

Metaphors and similes add creativity and depth to your writing. They help readers understand complex ideas and emotions by comparing them to familiar experiences.

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Metaphors: Directly state that one thing is another to highlight similarities. "Time is a thief."

Similes: Use "like" or "as" to make comparisons. "Her smile was like sunshine on a rainy day."

Avoid Clichés: Create original comparisons rather than relying on overused phrases. Instead of "busy as a bee," find a fresh analogy.

9. Create Suspense

Suspense keeps readers on the edge of their seats, eager to find out what happens next. Use foreshadowing, cliffhangers, and unanswered questions to build tension and anticipation.

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Foreshadowing: Drop subtle hints about future events. This creates anticipation and a sense of inevitability.

Cliffhangers: End chapters or sections with unresolved tension or unanswered questions to compel readers to keep going.

Pacing: Control the pace of your story to build suspense. Slow down for crucial moments and speed up during action scenes.

10. Edit Ruthlessly

Great writing often emerges during the editing process. Be willing to cut unnecessary words, tighten your prose, and refine your sentences. Editing improves clarity, pace, and overall readability.

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Cut Redundancies: Remove unnecessary words and repetitive phrases. "In my opinion, I think" can be reduced to "I think."

Focus on Clarity: Ensure each sentence conveys its intended meaning clearly and concisely.

Proofread: Check for grammar, punctuation, and spelling errors. A polished manuscript reflects professionalism and attention to detail.

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"How do you write such realistic dialogue-" I TALK TO MYSELF. I TALK TO MYSELF AND I PRETEND I AM THE ONE SAYING THE LINE. LIKE SANITY IS SLOWLY SLIPPING FROM BETWEEN MY FINGERS WITH EVERY MEASLY WORD THEY TYPE OUT. THAT IS HOW.

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Abandon logic. All it serves is to create a convenient set of boundaries for you to live your life.

"No, you can't have 100 million dollars in your bank account because it isn't logical"

"No, you can't shift this very second because it isn't logical"

"No, you can't have all your desires because it isn't logical" Why ?

No, really, why ? Really investigate why you feel that way. Is it because of societal conditioning into what you believe to be 'real' or 'fake' ? Is it due to past traumas and/or experiences ? Something else entirely ?

Abandoning logic may be a very uncomfortable process. After all, it's what we were since birth. Xyz works in a certain way because it's logical. Learn to step outside of the comfort of logic and become uncomfortable - as that's where you'll find growth.

Logic only matters as much as you let it. Fulfil yourself in imagination, and the change will follow. Remember - the only change to be made is self.

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# the moment i imagine and accept it, when i think about it again i know ive manifested it already. this is how i put myself at the end - of already being there. remember you are never manifesting the object, but the version of you who knows/is fulfilled with that object. you are only ever manifesting yourself. therefore once imagined + accepted, it has manifested. when i think back to the “object” (which was once a desire but is now my reality), i acknowledge it has manifested already and i am that version of me who has it now, not tomorrow or in a week, now. im at the end already, i am in barbados. i think about what i imagined as a memory since i decided it is already now my reality. i cannot deny the facts of imagination. plus the more you return to that acceptance of “it already has been manifested,” the more comfortable you will be in that state.

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SEBASTIAN STAN ⏤ attends the 2024 Cannes Film Festival for the premiere of The Apprentice 

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anniestegg

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hey i know i asked for constructive criticism but what i actually wanted was for you to tell me i'm extremely talented. and also pretty. sorry if that was unclear

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mirror palais

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you don’t need to ‘feel it real’

just affirm and persist. repetition is key. your subconscious is blind, it believes what you tell it. you can affirm while you’re mad, sad, happy, and it doesn’t matter— your conscious mind doesn’t need to believe what you’re saying, your subconscious does; and your subconscious learns through REPETITION. robotic affirming is the way to go, you don’t need anything else unless it makes you feel better.

the DOMINANT STORY is what manifests, so you don’t have to think in the desired state 100% of the time, just more than 50%. you can waver, it’s not gonna erase your desires because it doesn’t work like that. if you waver, get back into your affirmations and persist, it’s fine! what messes you up is if you waver and spiral into it and give up.

you’ve got this <3