dakimechara
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it/he/they, aro-aego. Not very active for now but who knows ? Adult ; blog may get nsfw at times. main/misc blog : @casuallyhome
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I'm getting a bit weird in my corner. Nothing better than group projects to hit you with the fact that you failed at socialising again. I don't know if I'm starting to act off-putting or if I just didn't have much opportunity to have a discussion with the people around me this week. I'll probably try to vent on this blog, who knows, maybe I'll even catch a mutual.
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I wanna take a 25+ life-weary dude home and finger him on the couch, greet him from the afterglow with a steamy bowl of homemade stew and some slices of sour bread, and have him snuggle up against me while we watch a bad slasher flick. Do you get me ?
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lgbtq+ people, please reblog this with your own journey through queer labels/identities!
mine was: straight woman -> bi woman? -> pan woman -> bi woman again? -> lesbian! -> bi woman actually -> bi nonbinary person !!!
#oh my god i don't wanna be a straight girl ->#“lesbian” “”“girl”“” ->#straight boy ? ->#bi enbi ->#pan enbi ->#aro pan enbi ->#aro aego multigender ->#aroaego not a woman :/ ->#achillean aroaego
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thinking about identifying as both aroace and mlm because contrasting identity labels are hella cool and honestly i think it probably applies to me so like. that's me right?
like literally who cares if two labels contrast. im gonna be one of the cool non conforming people that i want to see in the world
tldr; i'm aroace mlm and nblm now
#me#definitely aroace#(well aroaego)#but the gender ? couldn't put my finger on it for the life of me#but damn#am i achillean#couldn't define myself any other way#who cares if it's “contradictory” or “confusing”#certainly not me
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please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please watch our ads!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! we're a small indie development team here at GOOGLE YOUTUBE INCORPORATED and we NEED you to watch 120 seconds of ads for a 30 second video!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you're helping support your favorite content creators because we pay them 100000000000000000000000000 dollars per ad (REAL METRIC ) so you're actually actively hurting them by using an adblocker!!!!!! still using an adblocker..? ok well no more videos for you until you watch our ads. we are a company run by adults.
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can we deromanticize kissing or are we still too deep in amatonormativity for that conversation :/ ?
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trans art makes me happy no matter what, but tbh i wish more people understood that transmascs are more than just. cis men with top surgery scars slapped on. we have a wide range of bodies - some of us have breasts, or wide hips, or small shoulders, or all three. not every transmasc has completed a full physical transition, or will, and even those who have may still have ‘feminine’ features (such as wider hips). don’t be scared of drawing trans guys with lots of different types of bodies!
Submitted July 3, 2023
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What is something about lesbian sex you wish someone had told you?
Your hand/wrist will start cramping, and it will hurt like a bitch. You just gotta push through (no pun intended)
It doesn't matter how closely they shave. You will end up with a little "mustache" of redness on your upper lip after going down on your girl.
Just because you're a lesbian doesn't mean you don't need lube.
Jaw cramps are a thing
Don't be afraid to breathe during oral sex.
Just because you have the same body parts doesn't mean they like the same things. Everyone is different. Don't pretend you know someone when you don't.
YOU CAN STILL SPREAD STDs EVEN WITH YOUR FINGERS.
Cut your nails.
Sex isn't only about penetration.
If you're really self-conscious about making a mess, try putting a few towels (or six) down first.
Neovaginas are awesome.
Virginity is a made-up concept.
Yeast infections are super common with new partners so don’t be afraid to go to urgent care.
Don't fake moans or fake an orgasm. They'll think you like what they're doing and they'll do it forever, which will only leave you unsatisfied.
Keep a tall glass of hot water on by the bedside and keep the dildo dipped in it until you're ready to go.
Love and sex are two completely different things.
Porn is not a good place to learn how to pleasure a clit but if they want you to run their clit like you’re scrubbing a frying pan, do it.
#'don't fake an orgasm' point reminds me of a baffling conversation i had with my cishet sister#'you should fake some orgasms so they don't feel bad' she said#'if they really care about your pleasure they should be able to handle feedback on if it doesn't feel good' i said#'sex isn't only about physical pleasure so it's not a big deal if some of it doesn't feel as good as you make it seems' she replied#i couldn't find much to say to that so we dropped it#but it had stayed with me for some time now and i think i can formulate the issue i have with that#'exaclty'#'if sex isn't just about physical pleasure there's no need to pretend you had more than you did to make your partner feel good'#'just be clear with them that you don't care about having an orgasm and that they shouldn't feel bad if you don't'#'and then give them appropriate feedback'#if sex is more about intimacy with a partner than pleasure#shouldn't appropriate communication be like. a big part of it ??!!!#queer
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Hey, how do you deal with feeling too "weird" even for the Weird Website ?
When you feel like everyone is proudly shouting their thoughts without a care in the world, and you're just muttering like always in your little corner ? That you get overly rambly and verbose for the most tepid take ? That you're never part enough of a group for you to share in your experience ? That you're not passionate, vindictive, loud enough to ask for so much exceptions to be made for you, for people to deal with your input ?
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i love you transmascs with big hips i love you transmascs who bind i love you transmascs that don't WANT to bind i love you transmascs who like their tits i love you transmascs with big tits i love you transmascs with long hair i love you transmascs that wear dresses i love you transmascs with girly interests it doesn't affect your masculinity at all if you dont want it to. i love you transmascs who don't pass i love you transmascs who don't WANT to pass i love you transmascs that aren't represented at all in the media
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happy pride ! to the faggots and freaks, the trannies, the boygirls and girlboys and the he/him butches and she/her twinks ! to the gendervague and the genderfucked !! to every trans and nonbinary person at whatever stage they're at !! and to the eggs and the questioning ! to my bisexuals and pansexuals and omnisexuals and polysexuals and the lesbians w/ boyfriends and gays w/ girlfriends !! happy pride to the queers who wear battle jackets and the queers who stealth and every single one of you in between !! happy pride to my aces and aros !! happy pride all you funky sexual deviants and kinksters !! to my elders who faced decades of bigotry and lost many a loved one, and the youngsters learning our history and experiencing it themselves !
I love you all so so much I love us and who we are and I ask you: be kind to each other
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normalize sex without love. normalize sex without romance.
normalize sexual love being the only love you feel. normalize sexual love.
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my five year plan? i will find (hunt down) every aromantic person on this website and follow them. solidarity
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Yeah. You're right. Thanks for these words of affirmation, friend.
As soon as my hair gets long enough, I'll commit myself to emulating the noble 60s rocker.
Help i accidentally combed my hair in a pompadour this morning and i felt so fucking happy it's such a stupid hairstyle what do i do i think i need some time to process it
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Sorrows of walking around topless :
It's getting cold
Joys I get from walking around topless :
the light but noticeable flow of the air on my epidermis
the gender euphoria : look at me, all masc, walking around with my tits out like it's no big deal !
boobs right under my nose :D
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Help i accidentally combed my hair in a pompadour this morning and i felt so fucking happy it's such a stupid hairstyle what do i do i think i need some time to process it
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