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How to be The Next Level in Three Months:
BODY
- eat healthier
- stop binge eating
- green salad once a day
- drink water
- exercise
- get your sleep 6-8 hours
- wake up and go to bed early.
- look presentable
- skincare, haircare, body care.
MINDSET
- make a to do list
- work on self esteem
- be confident
- fix insecurity
- tell affirmations to myself to love myself.
- set my 6th month goal, 3rd month goal, 1st month goal.
- be positive in bad situation
- watch a motivational video every morning
- stop complaining.
- read a book per month
- stop using phone 1 hour after waking up
- limit screen time 1 hour before bed
- wake up and meditate and do my morning routine
- journal daily
- spend at least one hour a day silent
- less internet, more real life
- meditation
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How I Enter The Void State/Easiest Way
Hey guys, this is how I enter the void state. This method I use was inspired by @voidprincessblog and others 💗
1. I put on theta waves (Any subliminal, binaural beats or music is fine) and I lay on my back and I stay still for 15-20 minutes. Because staying still without doing anything will shut the left side of your brain off, which is the logical side. And the right side will be active which is the creative side. You can manifest, shift, and get in the void instantly this way!
2. While I’m staying still, I do something to keep my brain awake. Me personally, I count to whatever number. (It doesn’t matter what number, just as long as you are relaxed)
3. When the 15-20 minutes are over, I start to feel symptoms such as floating and tingling and numbness. But it’s different for everyone. That’s when you know the left side of the brain is asleep, and your right side is active. ✨
4. Then I affirm for the void state or shift affirmations. I keep repeating this while relaxing and focusing on the blackness behind my eyes. I don’t focus on symptoms or how long it takes because this only makes you anxious! The whole point of the void state and shifting is to R E L A X.
5. Then you’ve shifted/gotten in the void state! It takes very quickly to get in and to shift because the left brain is off!
That’s what I do now to get in the void/shift and it works awesome!
(I’ve only gotten in the void state once btw but this method works wonders!)
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If she’s willing to be a lady for you, be a gentleman for her.
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5 easy steps for being more submissive in a relationship:
1. Let him provide and protect.
It is in a man’s nature to come to a woman’s rescue when they are in need. Don’t feel bad about being weak or in need of his protection, just accept it and thank him for it.
2. Always look beautiful for him.
Men admire beauty! If you want your man to appreciate, love and admire you, you must look your best. Wear form-fitting clothes, keep yourself in shape and take care of your skin!
3. Listen, but don’t answer.
Sometimes, when he’s upset or stressed about something, the most operative solution is to just listen. You will often internally disagree with him, but the last thing he needs is to hear it. If he’s frustrated about a thing from work, he needs to vent, to be understood. He doesn’t need to end up in another debate.
4. Attend to his wishes.
Sure, you may have a thousand other chores to do, and it can be a bit stressful if he asks you to do additional things. Maybe bake his favorite cake, or clean the bathroom. Just calmly say «Alright honey, I’ll get it done.» Even if you aren’t able to do it right away, he’ll appreciate your efforts.
5. Know when to ask him something/deliver bad news.
After being together for some amount of time, you’ll get to recognize when he’s in a bad mood, not up for getting asked favors, or hearing bad news. Do it when he’s relaxed, and in a good mood.
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Things I can't wait to say to my future wife:
Darling I'm home
why don't you sit on the floor and rest your head in my lap while I read us this book
Thank you for the meal love. It was delicious
would you dance with me?
go make sure that the kids are asleep and fallow me to the bedroom
you're the light of my life
never seen a pregnant woman looking this gorgeous
Wanna take a shower?
I make the decision here and you fallow them.
You and the kids are my responsibility.
Get the picnic stuff ready. I took tomorrow off so I can spend the day with the most important people in my life. You and the kids.
I love you
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How To Identify A Porn Addict Pretending To Be A Traditional Man
(This list is verbatim from @branwenferchllyr - again, halfway between feminist and tradfem - by DM, hence the very conversational sound of the language. Thanks Branwen, and I assume it's okay to share it. My comments are in italics).
An obsession with female submission, subservience, male 'headship', men having authority over women. Sure, there are just fundamentalist/traditionalist Christians who believe those things without being porn addicts, but they don't talk about it as much as the LARPers do, and when they do they tend to have much more nuanced opinions on it. There was a study done a while ago in which it was found that people who watch a lot of porn are less likely to believe in women's rights, autonomy etc. I'd honestly really like a link to that study or details of date, results and methodology, so I can bring it up in discussion.
So porn addicts objectify women, we know this, so here's something I've picked up on on the fetishy blogs: they'll reblog pictures where you can't see women's faces, zooming in on just their body parts. Typically it'll be the very small waists of women in 1650s dresses. Women wearing aprons from the neck down. A lot of the 1950s pinup stuff in general. Again, there are people (usually women) who just like the aesthetics/the fashion etc, but usually when it's a man reblogging pictures like that it rings alarm bells to me because of how I've seen them talk about these pictures before.
Some people have their follow lists and likes visible. Take a look at who they're following and what posts they're liking. There's a guy on here I was told about, @atraditionalgent, who follows a lot of the 'female inferiority' kinksters and likes their posts, whilst masquerading as a gentleman. If you want the evidence, Branwen has the screenshots of his now-hidden follows and I assume she'll provide them if you ask her for them.
Here's another big one: they spend a lot of their time reblogging posts about what a traditional woman should do... but not what a traditional man should do.
Oh, also anything to do with domestic discipline.
Oh, also another big telltale sign, which I saw @atraditionalgent do: they will capitalise the H for Him and the M for Man, in contrast with not doing the same for women. Which, considering they claim to be Christians, is deeply sacrilegious and hubristic. At least he's not claiming to be Christian.
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The Stepford Way
A Stepford wife Establishes her Purpose
It may seem difficult at times to stay motivated as a homemaker and it is important for a Stepford wife to remind herself why she has chosen her path. A Stepford wife’s ultimate goal should be to care for and serve those around her who she loves, to take care of her home, and to educate and raise her children. Obedience is pleasure.
A Stepford wife Shows Kindness
A Stepford wife is a girl of virtue, grace, and compassion. she is always kind to strangers, and treats herself with the same kindness as she treats those around her. she always sends hand-written thank you cards to those who have gifted her with something or invited her into their home as a guest. A Stepford wife keeps track of birthdays and special events for the people she cares about and acknowledges them. Obedience is pleasure.
A Stepford wife Invests In herself
Taking time to invest in herself as a Stepford wife is so important. Whether it’s self-care or investing in homemaking education for herself, a girl of value is always well-educated in homemaking, well-kept, emotionally intelligent, and aware at all times. Obedience is pleasure.
A Stepford wife Uses Mornings As A Fresh Start
A Stepford wife uses every morning as a fresh start. she opens her windows, draws the curtains, and lets the light in. A Stepford wife always cooks and serves a good healthy breakfast for herself and her family, makes the beds, and uses mornings to plan out the rest of her day. Obedience is pleasure.
A Stepford wife Dresses The Part
It is almost impossible for a Stepford wife to feel productive and take her job as a homemaker seriously if she is not dressing the part. A Stepford wife takes the time in the mornings to get dressed before serving breakfast. A Stepford wife stretches, cares for her skin, takes a few minutes to brush and style her hair, and makes herself fresh for the day.
Dresses are an essential part of everyday wear in a Stepford wife's life and she will find that maxi dresses are comfortable, practical, and easy to move around in to get her daily work done. Dresses are also attractive, functional, and feminine. A Stepford wife is always sure to wear an apron when cooking or doing household cleaning duties so as to protect her dress. Full skirts and cardigans are also a wardrobe staple for any Stepford wife. Obedience is pleasure.
A Stepford wife Creates a Routine
Every successful Stepford wife has a routine (both weekly and daily) for household duties and chores. A Stepford wife always plans her meals in advance and tries to cook and bake things that she knows her Husband and family will enjoy coming home to. Obedience is pleasure.
A Stepford wife is Prepared
A Stepford wife is always prepared to be a good hostess, even to the most unexpected of guests. A Stepford wife keeps a mini bar stocked so she may always offer her guests a drink, and have lemonade or sweet tea to serve. Obedience is pleasure.
A Stepford wife Cooks
A Stepford wife always has a good meal on the table for her family. Meal planning in advance is so important, not only that she knows what she will be preparing but to also research where to get the most inexpensive quality ingredients for her meals. A Stepford wife always serves her meals on time and eats at the dinner table with her family. A Stepford wife always cooks from scratch and makes slow cooker meals often as it is an easy way to have an affordable delicious meal for her family. This also leaves her home smelling delicious for when her Husband arrives home from work. Obedience is pleasure.
A Stepford wife Prepares the Table
A Stepford wife always set her table for breakfast before she goes to bed and she sets her table for dinner after lunch. her table should be an inviting, warm place to sit down and enjoy a home-cooked meal.
When hosting or having guests over, a Stepford wife always sets her table with her finer china or dishware and sets out folded cloth napkins. Obedience is pleasure.
A Stepford wife Keeps a Tidy Home
It is said that cleanliness is next to Godliness. A Stepford wife's home should be inviting, warm and safe for her and her family. she takes the extra time every day to tidy her house and follows a cleaning schedule to make sure all of her cleanings are done regularly. she always tidies your kitchen after meals and keeps her laundry well organized and fresh. Obedience is pleasure.
A Stepford wife Sews
A Stepford wife learns basic sewing skills (like sewing a button or mending a rip/tear) to not only save money, but it is an important tool to have as a homemaker. Obedience is pleasure.
A Stepford wife is Careful When Speaking
A Stepford wife pays attention to how she speaks and always tries to articulate herself elegantly. A Stepford wife acts like she has never heard a swear word, and always thinks about what she says before she opens her mouth. Obedience is pleasure.
A Stepford wife Knows her Finances
A Stepford wife takes the time to make and keep a budget. A Stepford wife knows where her money is coming from and going to and learns how to spend frugally and wisely. Obedience is pleasure.
A Stepford wife is Respectable
A Stepford wife has self-discipline in all that she does. A Stepford wife always takes the high road and avoids drama and never goes to bed angry. A Stepford wife always resolves things before it becomes a problem, and communicates clearly about any problems she might be having with her Husband. Obedience is pleasure.
A Stepford wife is Loving
A Stepford wife always finds ways to make everyone in her home feel loved and cared for. A Stepford wife kisses her Husband before He heads to work and when He arrives home from work. A Stepford wife hugs her children and takes the time to brush their hair and care for their appearances as well as her own. A Stepford wife tends to scratches, scrapes, and wounds and always has a first aid kit on hand in her home. Obedience is pleasure.
A Stepford wife Takes Being a Stepford wife seriously
There is no more important job a Stepford wife does than raising her children and caring for her family and home. A Stepford wife reminds herself of this! A Stepford wife is a good homemaker of high standards, high value, and good ethics. As such, she should treat her work as a job and exude self-confidence in all that she does. Obedience is pleasure.
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How to Be a Stepford wife in 10 Steps
A Stepford wife allows her Husband to lead the marriage. Obedience is pleasure.
A Stepford wife listens to her Husband; however, she does not always answer and she never interrupts Him. Obedience is pleasure.
A Stepford wife understands she should be seen and not heard. Obedience is pleasure.
A Stepford wife keeps her opinions to herself unless her Husband asks. Obedience is pleasure.
A Stepford wife respects her Husband asks for His advice, and allows Him to be the one who makes the final decision, making sure He knows she will defer to His judgment. Obedience is pleasure.
A Stepford wife looks attractive to her Husband and understands that looks are important to Men. He wants a wife that He can show off. A wife that other Men and girls will be envious of. A Stepford wife keeps herself fit and shapes herself to His preferences. she keeps her makeup, hair, and nails attractive at all times. A Stepford wife dresses to her Husband's taste and desires. Obedience is pleasure.
A Stepford wife embraces being a housewife, leaving any career behind. Obedience is pleasure.
A Stepford wife serves her Husband. she makes sure His practical needs are met. she cooks for Him, cleans for Him, does His laundry, and makes sure He is constantly being served. A Stepford wife's Husband should come home to a clean house with dinner on the table. Obedience is pleasure.
A Stepford wife cares for her Husband's wants, interests, and needs first, fulfilling her Husband’s sexual desires. This does not just mean being sexually available to Him. A Stepford wife should be actively engaged in trying to please Him. she wears the lingerie He likes, is open to His fantasies, and initiates physical contact. A healthy sex life is one of the most important needs of a Man. Obedience is pleasure.
A Stepford wife asks her Husband for assistance or consideration when she knows He is in His most relaxed state. Obedience is pleasure.
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Listen and Obey!
When her Husband speaks, just Listen and Obey! When your Husband instructs you, just Listen and Obey. When your Husband wants something, just Listen and Obey.
A Stepford wife can see a pattern there: Listen and Obey! It is really that simple. Listen to your Husband, pay attention, and determine what He wants. Then Obey Him. Do not question your Husband, do what He wants. He is your Husband, He knows best. Just follow His directions. If you do not understand something, it is alright to ask Him respectfully to clarify it, just do not act if you are unsure. Always follow your Husband’s directions to the letter. Exactly as He instructs, and no other way.
If you Listen carefully and dutifully Obey, your life will get so much simpler and happier. your Husband will be happier and you will have a so much easier life. All of life's difficulties and hardships can be handed over to your Husband. Just ask Him for direction and He will gladly provide it to you.
Just Listen and Obey! That is all you have to do.
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Thankfully, I rarely make decisions on my own anymore, but when I do I always consult my Husband's opinion first. I love that he will always tell me what to do.❣️
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