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she butterfly on my effect til i (gravely serious) everything could have been different

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it's literally all about having a primary public gender and a secondary personal gender

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Saw people posting this on Twitter. Love his take on things

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you guys need to let go of any rigid belief in what being nonbinary is because it can be anything. like someone can look completely average in gender presentation and do literally nothing to set themselves apart from their assigned gender and still be nonbinary.

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Its frustrating when non-horror people come into horror spaces and ask why we like violence and watching people suffer and sexism and all other manner of moral hand-wringing, but i also find it frustrating when horror fans (myself included) attempt to sincerely engage with these questions. Like 9 times out of 10 the question is either being asked in bad faith, or the asker is genuinely confused, and neither of those types of people are prepared for a proper answer about how horror reflects the cultural landscape or the complex relationships between the genre and gender and race etc and they definitely aren't ready to hear about the real facet of sexuality and eroticism in basically all horror media

horror is an easy target for pearl clutching but you can subject pretty much any genre to the same criticism if you frame it poorly enough. Oh you like romance movies? So you enjoy watching men stalk women and violate their boundaries? You think cheating is okay? You think its cool when women give up their careers to get married? I dont like or watch romance movies but based off my limited understanding thats what they're all like, etc

i think we need to just start responding to bad faith questions about horror with "yeah i thought it was awesome when The Killer fed all those teenagers into a wood chipper"

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Question for Lakia, when and how did she first figure out she’s a girl? I imagine it’s a cute story.

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I think the concept of introversion may have harmed a lot of people, tbh

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the notes of this post are the worst it's a bunch of "neurotypical straight people make up a bunch of arbitrary stupid rules they don't have to follow" "what else can anyone possibly say to this" Like it's not like this response alone is a real issue like well it is funny, but all the responses to it in the notes acting as if a person must be irrational and illogically emotional for expecting some degree of reciprocity and emotional availability in an intimate relationship isn't pro autism. you're just choosing to be a bad partner if you really feel that way about having to think about what other people in your life want when they are trying to connect with you, and you are going to be real lonely if you think you'll never have to compromise or try to see things from other people's perspectives just because you think they're being irrational

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UGH a month ago some guy gave me very unsolicited annoying advice in the gym which gave power to my greatest fear of people watching me when I work out. So now whenever he comes into the gym I legit have to leave because I'm afraid he's still watching me 😭 FMLLL

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ANHEDONIA REMEDIES!

GET YOUR ANHEDONIA REMEDIES HERE!

if you are lost in the rut, i am begging you to read this essay by Sasha Chapin suggesting what, essentially, my take, are potential jump-starts back into living life in real time. like actually experiencing experiences

do it now! don’t lose months, years, or decades! there is a life beyond doomscrolling, and it’s finite (sorry. sorry. i know okay)

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ANTHONY PERKINS as Norman Bates PSYCHO dir. Alfred Hitchcock, 1960

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Is there a name for uhhh… how you spend years picturing your adult life a certain way but then by the time you’re actually grown up the world has changed so much that the adulthood you dreamt of no longer exists

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he had suchhh a way with words