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My 51 year old therapist mother LOVES Pokemon go

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holliday : can you please do this one thing you can take your emotional support adult please you are doing so much damage to our reputation my job is actually crushing me just this one thing it might even be fun you could connect with your mother’s family and maybe even experience a crumb of joy

morrigan : well just for that i’m not going to

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someone on twt pointed out the tear in this scene and oh my god my heart…poor baby was even sadder and more tormented about it than he let on.

gif credit: @glindauplland

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I just found out David improvised the☝️🤓

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May I find someone who is head over heels for me the way David is here, those heart eyes would've got me ruining the Superman audition tape by kissing my husband relentlessly that is the look of LOVE

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Since my birthday is coming up here's my wishlist

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Saying "with all due respect" before saying something rude is such a beautiful cherry on top. Like not only do I think you are a fucking idiot, but I'm also not reluctant to let you know that as far as I'm concerned, you rank so far beneath me that I have no obligation to pretend that you have dignity.

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the other thing about age gaps in friendships is that very often your peer group just looks different if you're disabled. when I was going through primary school as an autistic kid, I ended up hanging out with a lot of people younger than myself because I had that developmental delay swag. now that I'm also a physically disabled adult, I spend a lot of time in the same spaces as much older adults. it's kind of silly to act like you can only ever relate to people who are your age +/- a year or two. I have a lot more in common with other disabled people than I do with just some guy who happens to also be 22

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Bad and naughty horses have to wear the Elmer's hat

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The ghost of Yuri Gagarin comes back and strangles me

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I think parents don't understand how punishing a child isn't for when they make you upset, it's for when they do something wrong. Like, you don't just punish them for stress relief, it's so they can learn right from wrong.

So if your kid learns, for example, that helping mom make dinner = getting in the way, but not helping = being lazy, but asking if mom needs help = being annoying and asking stupid questions, then you have basically trained a person to see the only option that doesn't lead to scolding as 'hide and don't be thought of until dinner is done'. So now what relationship is your kid going to have with cooking or cleaning or chores in general? How is that going to affect them as an adult?

If there is no right answer regarding the things that bother a parent, then your kid is going to associate those things with being punished no matter what they do. If talking during a car ride is bad and annoying, but being quiet and staring out the window is bad and disrespectful, then what are they going to do every time they're in the car with you but count every word they say? If texting is suspicious, but why don't they have friends, but going out with people is irresponsible, but why don't they ever leave their room, but their friends are all bad influences, but why did they stop hanging out with them, they were nice kids, then what are you even doing?

If playing video games is lazy, going outside is unsafe, playing is ignoring chores and doing chores is being in the way, then YOU'VE CREATED A CHILD WHO'S LEARNED THE ONLY WAY TO AVOID BEING SCOLDED IS TO DISAPPEAR WHENEVER YOU'RE IN A BAD MOOD! You've created a person who is hardwired to feel guilty no matter what they choose to do. You turned them into a confrontation ninja, who can vanish as soon as a hard conversation enters the picture. You've trained a person to disregard why rules exist and instead focus on who they can placate and suck up to in order to make the rules change. Because to them, rules and punishments are just who gets on the bosses nerves at the wrong time.

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hello beloveds ☺️

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.❤️

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yall r such stupid people i swear “it’s just a play on words she is actually beautiful why would any company use nazi rhetoric to promote things???” We Live in A White Supremacist Society. there is no way for a blond white woman to produce an ad saying that her genes passed down to her make her superior, everything’s “not that deep” to u ppl bc u dont think deeply…..just empty ass skulls who get shocked when they r suddenly surrounded by conservatives bc every dog whistle “is just a joke” until it isnt, the argument of “good genes” has been and continues to be used as justification for genocide and enslavement, it is not a coincidence that the blonde blue eyed white woman who has been buddying up with jeff bezos and pro israel gov officials just so “happens” to be releasing ads about the superiority of her genes, an ad mind you that was referencing another sexualizing a child, just a bunch of bird brains

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I gave your post a like but with nuance and depth