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can't even talk about people im interested in with friends bc as soon as we start speculating genders I'm just a woman in their heads again
#i am IN FACT ok w pursuing gay men and am not particularly fond of being w lesbians lets take a guess why#(i am more masc leaning)#(despite everyone using he/him for me they still seem to view me as a woman-lite for lack of better word)
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The problem isn’t the romance per se, but the perception that once Love happens either your relationship is an inevitable precursor to a partnership or you two are automatically a couple. You can’t love if you two aren’t together. In order to have romance must be valid via partner relationship, otherwise it’s a friendzone or much worse a situationship. If society were more understanding and considerate towards different perception of love, world might have been better.
this right here in gold in the form of words.
#stoppppp#all my friends have “romantic prospects” coming into their lives rn and listening to them navigate these relationships give me a headache#my aromantic ass who has never been in a relationship: “you guys havent known each other for a month why are you already worried-#about becoming committed partners“
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"why don't you just go out and date" have you considered that I'm perhaps not attracted to nor intrigued by any of the ppl I see regularly
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if anyone wants to know how love life is going the ONE guy I matched w on tinder that didn't end up going well a year ago decided to pop up out of nowhere and become unavoidable for me so this is great
one of my campus crushes are cuffed and the other probably never even wants to be in the same room as me thanks to my friends being weirdos so in conclusion I have no prospects and all I really have to keep me going are my fav blorbos
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one of my campus crushes are cuffed and the other probably never even wants to be in the same room as me thanks to my friends being weirdos so in conclusion I have no prospects and all I really have to keep me going are my fav blorbos
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Aroallo culture is identifying as a slut
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A good video that accurately explains why stud is a term used for black lesbians only, not white, not poc, BLACK
I’m not even going to say please. Respect black identities and labels, they are ours for a reason.
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ohh my god i want to kiss someone. i want to kiss someone’s lips, face, neck. nip at them with my teeth and then press my lips gently to the same spot. hear the noises they make against me. hold their waist and pull them further against me. tangle my fingers in their hair and crush my lips against theirs. i want to kiss someone so fucking badly
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I get the prev rb is the way it is for some people but I am the certain type of person that finds it impossible to feel closer to individuals in group settings. unless I'm "going out" w some person one on one I can never just Get Comfortable w them
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btw dating sucks as a concept.
#you see as i grow up and only find it comfortable to get to know ppl away from work and school i find that going on dates honestly is#just like. finding friends.#my non-classmates and non-coworkers that i like to keep up w are ex tinder matches that ive gone on dates w LMAO
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boobs make absolutely no sense on my body I'm still not sure why they're there
#trying out my swim suit and it is unfortunate how highlighted my chest seems to be.#god i want top surgery so bad
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I JUST WANNA FUXK AAAAAAAAAAH
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it's happening and the anxiety induced self sabotage is kicking in again
wish there was someone texting me and flirting w me and making me kick my feet and giggle :(
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no longer know how I feel about getting involved w a lesbian
#likeeee for the longest time its been like '#“no bc i dont feel fem aligned enough to be comfortable w that”#but now as i go on and i feel even less attached to gender its like. ummm maybe its ok bc regardless they're not attached to me in a het way#bc while i have felt more masc i never rlly liked the idea of being w a straight woman#but also if the other person is also trans/nb than their sexuality usually doesnt matter to me as much#which is why im like???#but at the end of the day im just so scared of trying w women and fems#and its a mix of internalized homophobia and just generally being scared of sex#IDKKKKK
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aroallo culture is being hesitant to use the word "crush" when you're talking about the person you're attracted with your friends because "crush" is so heavily connoted to being romantically interested in someone, and thus just being hesitant to talk about being attracted to someone in general
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#yeahhhhhh i do not disclose who in our daily lives i find attractive#learned this the hard way unfortunately
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I’ll be the one to ask this on the celibacy.gif website.
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