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Llevo años sin experimentar genuina felicidad

Por mucho tiempo la he perseguido

A veces siento que entre más la busco, más se aleja de mí

Un día me rendí y escapé de todo.

La volví a sentir

Felicidad.

Pensé que serías un estado de éxtasis

Cuando en realidad fuiste un estado de total paz

Total plenitud.

¿Qué hago para volver a sentirla?

Pensé que sería permanente.

Te busco, o me rindo de nuevo para volver a encontrarte?

Cuando te busqué nunca apareciste

Pero te necesito tanto en mi vida

Aunque sea solo otra vez un estado efímero de paz

Felicidad.

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Reposting @haileypaigemagee TONIGHT: Courageous Dating for the Recovering People-Pleaser workshop— Many folks who identify as people-pleasers have a history of choosing partners who are emotionally unavailable. You may have chosen partners who balked at the prospect of intimacy, who withdrew their affections without rhyme or reason, or who shamed you when we requested they that meet our basic needs for love, kindness, or respect.

From these interactions, you may have internalized the idea that your needs were “too much.” But I PROMISE you that needing a firm baseline of respect, communication, and consistency is anything BUT too much.

Do not let anyone convince you that you’re “needy” because you want to be treated with respect.

Do not let anyone convince you that you’re “clingy” because you want a consistent partner.

Do not let anyone convince you that you’re “demanding” for wanting a channel of open communication to exist between you and your partner.

These are basic, fundamental needs in every relationship, and you are a badass for expressing them and holding firm to them. Don’t allow anyone to convince you otherwise.

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— Anaïs Nin, The Diary of Anaïs Nin: Vol. 1 (1931-1934)

[text ID: I postpone death by living, by suffering, by error, by risking, by giving, by losing.]

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Pablo Neruda, The Essential Neruda: Selected Poems // @sunsbleeding // Anaïs Nin, from Henry & June; A Journal of Love: The Unexpurgated Diary of Anaïs Nin (1932–1934) // Kailah Figueroa, from “june 4th, new york city,” published in Homology Lit

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“I desire violently, and I wait.”

— Anais Nin

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“Las mujeres más hermosas que conocerás en tu vida son aquellas que son selectivas, aquellas que deciden a quién le entregan su amor y cómo se lo entregan. Y si tú eres una mujer selectiva, has comprendido que no cualquiera merece tu amor, y eso es demasiado genial.”

— Tony E. A. Mujeres selectivas.

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“Mujer, tu valor nunca dependerá de cuánto amor recibas de alguien más. Lo mucho que alguien te ama, o lo poco que lo hace, no dice nada sobre ti y no te define de ninguna forma. Tu valor no está determinado por cómo florecen tus relaciones o por cómo se marchitan. Tu valor tampoco está definido por el tamaño de tus pechos o por la forma de tus curvas. Ni mucho menos está definido por la ropa que usas o por cómo te maquillas. Tu verdadero valor está definido por cuánto amor recibes de ti misma, por el tamaño de tu sonrisa y por la belleza de tu alma.”

— Tony E. A. Lo que define tu valor.

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If we could look into each other's hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other more gently, with more love, tolerance and care.

— Marvin. J. Ashton

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“No one will understand you. It is not, ultimately, that important. What is important is that you understand you.”

— Matt Haig, The Humans (via thoughtkick)

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“Believe nothing, no matter where you read it, or who said it, no matter if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense.”

— Buddha

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“The root of suffering is attachment.”

— Buddha

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“In the end these things matter most: How well did you love? How fully did you live? How deeply did you let go?”

— Buddha

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“Nothing ever exists entirely alone; everything is in relation to everything else.”

— Buddha

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“Set your heart on doing good. Do it over and over again and you will be filled with joy.”

— Buddha

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“The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, worry about the future, or anticipate troubles, but to live in the present moment wisely and earnestly.”

— Buddha