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Time flies so fast when you're doing a lot! I just entered my senior year last month and now I'm in the middle of working on two (2) research papers and some piles of legal cases in order to pass the Midterms. I have changed a lot since the last time I wrote down here. I ain't doing well financially compare to how I used to on the last two years but I was able to value certain things over material stuff now (which is really great for me). I also do not see the physical flaws of my block mates too nor do I care to measure them up in any aspect. I just care about passing, learning, and hoping for the best.

I used to think that I must do things step by step in order for me to finish my goals well but now that situations are getting tougher, I have learned to bring back taking inspiration from other people online who have already gotten the dream that I want to have. I'm planning to work for a year to save some funds before I can travel to Chiang Mai to get the English training I need and eventually get a job there.

Further, I have been hearing lots of generic advices from professors, telling us which way to take. I would always tell myself the same thing that I believe in for too long -- the only person who knows what I really want is ME. Nobody else. I really do not feel taking up law school at all and that's perfectly fine. My plans for myself are valid and I have found realistic way to achieve them. I gotta remind myself that no matter how many advices I get, I know exactly what I'm doing and I am not like the other students who are just about to start in life. I have savings and I have a solid plan. <3 Anyway, back to doing my papers.

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all your decisions should consistently align with the life you want

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Strategies I use to…

Reconnect with myself˚◞♡ ⃗ *ೃ༄

Hiiii, here is a list of some things I do in order to reconnect with myself!

When I feel down, overwhelmed, mindless, or just not like my usual self, these activities are my saviours.

• Physical activity!!! - You know I had to put this one first, girl. Strength training, stretching, swimming, running, walking, dancing, playing sports, etc. Physical activity makes me feel amazing and gives me a total confidence boost, I’m just in my element.

• Meditation - Deep breathing, relaxing music, clear mind, I love it! I feel a deep sense of connection with myself and the universe when meditating. It’s also just a great reset if you’re in a negative mood, I feel totally cleansed afterwards.

• Pampering!!! - face massage, gua sha, long hot bath/shower, full body massage, cute treat/drink, ice roller, positive affirmations, comfy clothes, favourite movie, and so on.

• Get creative - Getting creative is a good way to express and connect with yourself. Doing something artsy always reminds me of when I was a kid, and writing is a great outlet for my creativity.

Drawing, writing, sculpting, painting, colouring, knitting, crocheting, etc.

• Journaling - I love journaling so much. It’s a good way to check-in with yourself, learn about yourself, and release your emotions. I feel a lot more in tune with myself afterwards.

I’ll write about : Things I am grateful for, my dreams and desires, goals I’m working towards, my favourite things about myself, my feelings, etc.

• Expressing myself - Often, the reason for me feeling disconnected with myself is because I’ve hidden or ignored my true feelings/thoughts/self. I mean obviously masking yourself makes you feel disconnected with yourself…

My strategy is to openly express myself confidently. I share my feelings and opinions, and I don’t try to hide who I am. I don’t care what people think of me, I will never be ashamed or embarrassed of my authentic self.

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For me who has a few weeks to not do anything.. At the end of the day, I realized I'm exactly where I need to be and I can just relax and read a book I wanna read..

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Currently on a two-month break from school before I get to enroll myself for my senior year. I also obtained my very first full time job in the tech field which I am planning to stay at for long-term.

Next school year, I only gonna be enrolling 3 to 4 subjects which will fortunately allow me to get a job to fill the free times that I have. Also, despite that my lifestyle isn't as glorious as it was a year ago, I feel a little more relaxed now in a way that I am fully ready to be open to more friendships, go on some trips, and explore the world.

I don't have much friends though (as usual) haha but at the very least, I enjoy my time alone developing some hobbies, spending time with my kid, and focusing on establishing a plan to climb the career ladder which will soon permit me to embark on an adventure outside of the country. It's never too late. With my aesthetic stuff, iced coffee, organized plans, nothing is impossible! :)

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Dating & Self Development Tips from a Former Pick Me (and People Pleaser)

Make your self care routine a therapy session.

Self awareness is a must. This makes holding yourself accountable a breeze even in discomfort.

Your desperation leaves a scent for predators who are on a hunt for women with low self esteem. Confidence is key, along with discipline.

Spiritual Development would do you good great. It strengthens your intuition which is a vetting device for dating.

Date as selfishly as these men (masculines). Do not settle and ALWAYS make sure you benefit how you want to. Properties. Tuition. New Titties.

You are the company you keep. Be careful who you choose to associate with.

Self control is crucial for achieving success.

Celibacy is your best strategy. Dangle, don’t deliver.

Distance yourself from hypersexual actions and individuals

Don’t strive for perfection but strive to be amongst the best

Give yourself grace when overcoming toxic traits (anger issues, hand problem etc.)

Play detective when vetting individuals, friends included

Remain aware of your surroundings and suspicious activity (or feelings) when out on dates. You’re not exempt from being trafficked or laced.

Do not invest effort and energy into emotionally exhausting relationships and individuals, family included.

Place yourself as a priority so others can put you on a pedestal

Love is useless without logistics

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About Me

• I'm 27, a college mom •

• I'm on my 3rd year, first semester •

• My major is law •

• I stopped using Facebook on my free time & bought 2 fiction books to read whenever I feel bored •

• I try to work out and lately I've been working out for 15-20 mins at home •

• I ain't close with my parents and sibs and that's ok •

• I have no plans to marry my long-term partner even though he's like a family to me •

• The reason is that.. I'm in love with Thomas Shelby •

My daily routine 💕

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I'm going through a rough time right now. It's my first semester as a third year student under pre-law course. I am running out funds to spend for school and for everyday expenses. I'm getting really anxious as to what can happen in the future. I want to keep going until I finish this degree because I promised myself that I won't go anywhere unless I finish this goddamn degree that have been delayed for many years. Also, naysayers are waiting for my downfall. The only one who encouraged me to keep going is my partner. He's the only one who pushed me to be better. I'm so thankful for his support and I deeply value moral and emotional support during this tough times. I will keep going and I will come out alright. It's mind over matter now.

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21/5/22

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