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Hewwo Everyone!! I’m Back! And it’s my birthday 🥺💜☺️ My Big Age is now 20! And as you can tell above, I wanna be anything but big right now ☹️ nevertheless, I’m exited for the day!! Now, I shall retreat back to my little space, bye bye!!

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The perfect Christmas 💖

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I wish my morning routine was coffee followed by rough sex

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PSA: Hello lovelies 💖 I’m posting this because in about two weeks I may be completely inactive. I’m currently being kicked out from where I live and now I have two weeks to find a new place to live. (If anyone needs a roommate who lives in Florida please let me know!!) or anywhere honestly because it’s been real Hell in the Sunshine state 🥺 but thank you guys for liking my posts and making me feel welcomed. Goodbye for now, but not forever 💜��

-Ellie

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10 Things We Subs Need From You But Won't Say Out Loud

1. Please touch us

Cuddle us, spoon us, grab the small of our backs. Kiss our foreheads and make us feel small. We crave your hands all over us. We love them no matter where they happen to land–be that on our asses or up our skirts. Just. Touch. Us. It reminds us that we’re yours.

2. Take pride in us

Relish in the fact that we’re yours–that we belong to you and no one else. Smile when we enter the room because you know we’re walking toward you. It lets us know you care. It makes us want to be better for you.

3. Let us cry

When we are sad or angry, or pissed the hell off. When we drink too much…especially when we drink too much, let us cry our eyes out. Let us be messes, with mascara running down our cheeks and pints of ice cream in our hands. Let us be okay with not being okay once in a while. This one requires no action from you, just that you be okay with it when it happens.

4. Forgive

Despite how hard we try, we will make mistakes. We will fuck things up, say things wrong, do things crazy, and when that happens we need you to forgive us. We’re not talking immediate forgiveness, or that a price won’t often be paid for it, but forgiveness that comes eventually. We need to know that the slate has been wiped clean, all trespasses have been forgiven…and when it happens, don’t forget to let us know. See number 5.

5. Communicate… often!

We need this.. If we don’t discuss something, it will fester in our brains forever, eventually driving us crazy. A three minute conversation could ease hours of worry for us once an uneasy feeling sets in. If that can be prevented with a few sentences, please take the time to speak them. Honestly, like two seconds of your time could stop our heads from exploding….and you don’t want to clean up that mess, do you?

6. We want you to make us feel pretty

Not that you don’t make us feel super sexy pretty darn often, but once in a while, it’s good to actually hear. Tell us our ass looks great in our yoga pants, that our hair looks especially shiny today. Tell us you like our new boots. Notice something small and compliment us about it, and our hearts will swell for days. Compliments let us know what it’s like to look through your eyes. Those are glimpses of the world we don’t often get to see.

7. It’s the little things

Some of these are sounding cliche, but are just so fucking true. Sure, your big gestures of grandeur are admired, but it is often the small things that get our cheeks turning red. Leave a note on the mirror in the morning telling us to have a great day. Sit next to us during a movie you have no desire to see. Take the dog out in the morning so we can sleep in for an extra 10 minutes, remember what ice cream we prefer to eat when we cry. If you do these things, we’re yours for life.

8. Remember things

Speaking of little things, try to remember them. Things like how we take our coffee and the name of that bitchy girl who sits next to us at work. Remember anything. Three weeks from now, bust out some silly story we told you over dinner one evening in great detail. Remember something we’d never expect you to store into your internal drive. Remember our first concert together, and our best friend from kindergarten’s name. The more obscure the better.

9. Deal with us

When we’re singing in the car. When we drink too much wine. When we completely melt down. Deal with our pasts, and when we don’t feel pretty. Deal with our stretch marks and insecurities, our early bedtimes and exhaustion. Deal with our mood, and how we load the dishwasher the wrong way. These things silently tell us that you’ll be by our sides regardless of how nerdy, silly or utterly hopeless we can get.

Finally, the most important thing we need from you that we’ll never say out loud:

10. Be the most stable thing in our lives

Be stronger than us. Be the one person in our world that won’t turn on us or walk away. When life becomes scary and confusing, and we just need something solid to hold onto, please be our anchor. It’s because of you that our awful days are easier to get through. Don’t be perfect. Just be there. It’s the only real requirement on this list.

(source - Fetlife: ErikaUnderstood)

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more articles in the Library For Kinksters.

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💛🧡☺️🎃🐻🌼🍁🍊🍼🍯🎇🧸

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This is a necessity and I need it now!!!

Why have a college party when we can have a tea party?!!! (*⌒▽⌒*)θ～♪

Anyone? Anyone at all? (゜-゜)

No? OK. (⌣_⌣”)

I'll just... Uh, I'll just go hide now. (･_├┬┴┬┴

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I literally just became the happiest person on the planet looking at this!!!! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜💖

Just some Disney Pokémon trainers

artist: https://www.deviantart.com/pavlover/gallery/64251477/Disney-Pokemon-trainer

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Bratty Littles

I’m one myself & being on the other end of the spectrum as a caregiver I can say with 100% certainty:

Bratty behavior is just to test you as a caregiver

Brats are cute and they know

Rules? What are those?

Everything is an empty threat until punishment is actually carried out

Negotiations are key

Stalling

Temper tantrums

“I don’t wannaaaa” “But whyyyy” “Noooooo”

Pouting

Eyelash batting

Acting innocent

Lots of energy- full of it

“No naps!!” But once settled- out like a light

Are such sweethearts & don’t get enough recognition ❤️

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In the mood to get kidnapped cause responsibilities are getting to hard and I can promise to be a good cook and cleaner and let you fuck me however you wanted in exchange I can stay with you and eat some cake here and there cause I’m a chubby baby

🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️😈🤐

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When Your Little is on their Period

🍫 Be more lenient. They are going to get grumpy, leave room for that.

🍫 They are not going to want to get out of bed. Periods are draining and can hurt like hell, so if they really HAVE to get up, try and entice them with the promise of sweets or cuddles. Don’t get mad.

🍫 Be prepared for mood swings. Regardless of age, hormones wreak havoc with mood on periods. There can be tears, tantrums, heightened depression, heightened anxiety, low self esteem… and moods can change in a split second.

🍫 Ice cream for breakfast is allowed. No arguments.

🍫 Laughter helps. Put on something funny or try and crack a joke. They’ll let you know if they’re not having it.

🍫 As much as they may want to, don’t let them spend the entire period festering inside. When they’re in a better mood, encourage them to take a walk or go to the park or just sit in the garden.

🍫 Do not say anything that can antagonise or upset. For example, “Periods aren’t that bad,” or “Stop making a fuss over nothing.” Say that and you deserve hell.

🍫 Along with mood swings, hormones make everything seem worse. For example, I once broke down over burnt toast. It wasn’t the end of the world but it felt like it.

🍫 Cuddles on the sofa or in bed are welcome. Especially if there are snacks.

🍫 Hot water bottles and ibruprofen are prescribed. Bonus points if the hot water bottle doubles as a stuffie.

🍫 If you are LDR, it can be hard. By being patient and sending encouragements throughout the day you’ll make the world of difference.

🍫 Patience.

🍫 With all of this said, don’t just lie down and take sh*t. Periods aren’t an excuse to be the stupidhead from hell and abuse those around you. If your little is doing so, set them straight. Gently at first though. They may not realise what they’re doing.

🍫 Finally, remember that they love you - they’re just not feeling their best.

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