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What Am I in Service To? Reflections on Purpose and Impact During a Morning Walk

“The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.” - Mahatma Gandhi

This morning, as I walked through the park with the crisp air and the world still waking up, I found myself drawn to a magnificent mango tree. Its branches spread wide, leaves rustling softly in the breeze, it stood as a silent testament to the cycles of nature. As I paused beneath its canopy, a question stirred within me: What am I in service to?

Much like the mango tree, whose existence is rooted in providing for its environment, my life is guided by a deep commitment to service. The tree gives us oxygen, a place for birds to nest, shade for weary travelers, and, of course, its delicious fruit. Similarly, I have dedicated myself to the cause of women's health and well-being, ensuring that every woman has access to the care and support she needs. My values—empathy, justice, and empowerment—are the roots that ground me and guide my actions.

In the same way the mango tree plays multiple roles in its ecosystem, I have found various avenues through which I can serve. My work with Marie Stopes is a significant part of this journey. Here, I focus on reproductive health services, education, and advocacy, aiming to empower women with knowledge and access to healthcare. Beyond this, I am passionate about social justice and involved in initiatives to combat gender-based violence and support teenage mothers.

Standing there, observing the mango tree's silent but steadfast service, I reflected on how my dedication to these causes has shaped my own life. Serving others has taught me compassion, patience, and resilience. It has helped me navigate complex challenges and celebrate even the smallest victories. Like the tree weathering storms, there have been moments of doubt and exhaustion. Yet, knowing that my efforts are making a difference keeps me rooted and motivated.

Just as the tree impacts its surroundings, my service impacts the lives of many. I think of the 14-year-old school girl who confided that her first sexual experience was non-consensual with her boyfriend. By offering a non-judgmental space where she could share her story and receive advice, I helped alleviate some of her burden see what she can do. Then there's the teenager who approached me about a persistent discharge, despite medication. Being able to talk openly with her, providing reassurance and guidance, was crucial in addressing her fears and work on action steps to find help.

Another time, a young man asked for advice on contraceptive use for him and his girlfriend. Providing clear, supportive information allowed them to make informed decisions. And let’s not forget the ongoing struggle with a conservative school district, where I've worked tirelessly to cut through bureaucratic red tape that impedes access to essential health services. These moments are the fruits of my labor, reminding me of the power of collective action and the importance of the work I do.

Along this journey, I’ve encountered negative bosses who have questioned my abilities and expressed doubt about my potential. While their opinions may affect my salary and workplace dynamics, they do not define my purpose. Their perspectives are part of my professional environment but do not count in my standing in my purpose.

The mango tree also reminded me of the importance of balance. It grows steadily, taking what it needs from the soil, sun, and rain to thrive and give back. Similarly, I've learned that while service is fulfilling, maintaining balance is essential to avoid burnout. Setting boundaries, seeking support, and taking time for self-care ensures that I can continue to serve effectively without compromising my own well-being.

As I continued my walk, the question lingered: What am I in service to? The answer, like the mango tree, lies in providing for and nurturing others, contributing to a healthier, more just world. This contemplation under the tree’s canopy reinforced my commitment to my values and the causes I cherish.

In the future, I hope to expand my service, reaching more people and inspiring others to find their own paths of service. Just as the mango tree stands tall, offering its gifts to all who pass by, I aim to stand firm in my purpose, making a meaningful impact.

What about you? As you walk through your day, consider the mango tree and ask yourself: What am I in service to, and how does it shape my life?

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