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Open Letter to my Depression

Dear Depression,

I remember the day I met you—I remember how you felt like my friend. You told me, “This is fine, this is okay, lay down your head—the world does not matter. You are safe. Just stay with me.” I did stay with you, I stayed with you for a long time, you were my friend. At first, I didn’t mind you. I didn’t mind you because I didn’t find there was anything wrong with sleeping…

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Open Letter to someone you Trust

Dear You, First I want to thank for everything, thank you for coming in my life and never walking out of it. I fear losing you because you mean so much to me. You have never given me a reason to think that way. We talked about the long-term for our relationship that provides me hope about our relationship growing and never stopping. Thank you for being trustworthy. After being…

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Trauma- changes us.

This is scary but there is nothing like “getting over it“. People tell you to accept loss and move on but you never go back to the old you, you just entered a new phase of your life. Sometimes you feel that all of this is just a waste and you feel going back to the person but NO. That will just bring you to a whole negative thing.

Healing from trauma will mean to find new strength and joy. The…

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Be a Warrior not a Worrier.

Be a warrior, Fight for what you believe in and never ever hold back. Fiercely go towards your dreams boldly. Hold your ground within the face of conflict. Knock barriers down with courage and beauty. Do not give up when you find barriers in front of you, jump off the barriers and continue. Keep that fire in your heart burning strong and do not ever let your flame fade away. Remind yourself that…

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It's Okay to be Okay!!

It’s Okay to be Okay!!

It’s okay to take small steps in life, it’s okay to take a break, it’s okay to begin your story today, it’s okay to make mistakes cause they are lessons and not failures, it’s okay to fall cause only then you will pull yourself back again, it’s okay to stop being friends with people who are toxic,it’s okay to still wrestle through some stuff,it’s okay to ask for help, it doesn’t always work out…

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Facing your Fears🙂

Sometimes in life we try avoiding things instead of actually dealing with them. As we thing about it we will complicate our things more than it is. Running away from fears is not going to solve anything. It is when we change things inside us which changes things around. There have been instances when fear stands in front of you physically or mentally to weaken you. All you need to do is focus…

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Tinymusing ❤️ Sometimes we get so caught up with our life that we forget to just take a pause and breath for a while.

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The Best is yet to come✨ Always know that better things are up ahead. If you going through hard times right now, know that things will recover.

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Self Love❤️ Lets do one thing, lets start keeping notes of the times that you feel you are the most confident be with people that make you smile and laugh until your stomach hurts and the moments that were very challenging but you are thankful for.

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Being the “First Borns” Being the first born myself I know how it feels to be the only one getting attention, love and care.

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Just a Reminder ✨

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Inner Peace I’m slowly learning that even if I react, it won’t change anything, it won’t make people suddenly love and respect me, it won’t magically change their minds.

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Loosing Your Bestfriend

There’s nothing worse than loosing who you thought was your best friend. They just woke up one morning and decided that they don’t like you anymore and just leave you. Ignore you. Hurt you. Break promises, and forget all those memories. It’s truly sad especially when you did nothing wrong. Don’t worry about my feeling though, nobody does.

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Let people talk You just believe in yourself❤️