chandlerdean

[chandlerdean]

A revamped callout for Ash/Birdy/etc., as @rainbowstneship on Twitter.com

Hi, it’s still me the original owner of this blog. You would think after a year Ash (changed name from Max) would have changed but they have not!

Thanks to the new friends I got they all have evidence of Ash being abusive still, perhaps even worse than what I had gathered. I won’t tell their names due to protection of the innocent but I will post what they give me.

EDIT: NOW UNDER A READMORE, WARNING FOR EDs, SELF HARM, SUICIDE, VIOLENCE, AND SEXUAL HARASSMENT

CONTEXT: Ash and [friends] were in a little roleplay group. Ex-friends did not consent to any sexual content that they got involved in and the sexual roleplays were quoted as happening “multiple times a day”. Note that not only did ex-friends not consent, but most ex-friends were under age of majority in their respective states.

CONTEXT: See above.

[CONTENT TRIGGER WARNING: Eating disorders, inciting eating disorders on others]

CONTEXT: Ash (who is also using the d slur as a Discord name) telling their friends to do acts that are similar to those acts people do when they have eating disorders, calling them fat, telling them to go vomit, etc.

CONTEXT: One of Ash’s ex-friends admits to me what Ash thought were “problems”.

CONTEXT: Ash threatening violence against one of the ex-friends for messaging one of their other friends, Vince. The ex-friend was talking to Vince about how Ash was doing, because Ash was not doing well the previous night.

CONTEXT: Do I even need to explain? This is just fucking absurd. Another ex-friend admits to stupid things that happened.

CONTEXT: Ash accusing one of the ex-friends of stealing their boyfriend, though that’s literally impossible (it’s called kidnapping?), acting narcissistic, and acting as though the ex-friend is out to get them.

CONTEXT: The image from this has been cut out, due to the graphic nature of its contents. [CONTENT TRIGGER WARNING: SELF HARM] The content of this image is a picture of Ash’s arm, sliced up from obvious self harm, after the ex friends had been chatting in their server about a game.

CONTEXT: All of these are Ash talking. The duality of man, I guess.

CONTEXT: Ash acting cruelly towards one of the ex-friends, accusing them of being prioritized. Note that nobody in a friendship or friend group should ever be prioritized.

CONTEXT: See above. Note that these people are supposed to be friends.

CONTEXT: See above. Note that these people are supposed to be friends.

CONTEXT: Ash implying they have more power over the others. Note that friendships are meant to be equivocal, and not one ruling over the other. Note that this is a clear sign of deep-set narcissism.

CONTEXT: Ash still has the d-slur as their Discord name, and had been insulting a 9 year old child before this part of the conversation.

CONTEXT: This is context for the above screenshot.

So, all in all, Ash has not changed and it is clear that they will not change any time soon. [The ex-friends] have informed me that there is more evidence “in spades” for this kind of stuff, and that these ones are simply “scratching the surface”, which is heavily disturbing.

Ash is dangerous to themselves and to others. Please keep away from @rainbowstneship on Twitter, do not contact them, do not interact with them, do not start anything with them. Your own health and safety is more important.

I would like for you to spread this information, if possible, to protect anyone else from trying to make friends with Ash and being harmed by them.

a callout for max/jasper/fuyuhikolovemail

i didn’t say yes, i didn’t say i’ll think about it. i guess this was a long time in waiting. i CAN confirm that i’m the original owner of this blog (s**********f@gmail.com) and this was the last url i used, and the last name i went by was jelli. the other thing i can confirm is that i used to date max (@/fuyuhikolovemail) until october 2017 when we abruptly broke up. it was for the better. however, in my humbling opinion, max is a danger to the people around him, and based on how he both was sexually and mentally abusive to me, i think it’s my job as a citizen to tell other people about what he’s done.

warning ahead for mentions of c(oc)sa, abuse, rape, incest, lots of that nasty stuff.

let’s start at the very beginning of the end. this is all going under a readmore because i don’t want to clog up somebody’s poor dashboard.

Keep reading

[chandlerdean]

max if you ever see my fucking blog i want an apology from you. i want you to apologize for all the fucking pain you caused me. then i want you to dig your own grave and sleep in it for a long, long time

[chandlerdean]

read the news! read all about it! guess what i’ve got MORE callout material. keep regards to the previous warnings it kind of builds off that and general shittiness.

a long two piece message from a friend i’ll keep anonymous. max is in a polyam relationship with 3 people right now (as far as i know). if max can’t give his affection to all his partners equally he is failing at the very structure of a polyam relationship. the fact that he has to use something as lucrative as kin to connect romantically with others shows how weak his relationships are. the “emotionally manipulative” part about me was actually about me having... emotions. like crying when max’s “alter” jake told me to go fuck myself. and crying, like a lot of teens would. what a shocker. i don’t know who mac is and the only person i ever expressed a crush on was one named “johnny” and i immediately regretted posting about it. the person i “cheated on with”, i’ll call them f, i regret that too. i wanted to bring up dating f to max, and when i did, he immediately got aggressive and blamed me for everything. f tried to defend me by saying i was trying to figure out how to tell him (and i was). the “guilt trippy and manipulative tone” of my friend’s messages are actually just simple messages asking about what they’d done. all of this is EXTREMELY silly. it’s absolute bullshit.

ok, this one’s long. so my friend asked about being blocked, and here’s all of max’s friends ganging up on them. they absolutely refuse to explain anything, and instead result to tormenting (well, more like just insulting) them! they refuse to be civil. they refuse to do anything that’s remotely close to good.

shocker: max admits to faking suicide. this was way back with leon, and i can only provide word of mouth, and it was only a ploy to get leon’s attention. but he put all his friendgroups through extreme stress. i was the only person who was let in on it. all of max’s other friends were not. this was HUGE too - “peach” made it sound like he ended up in the hospital and everything.

max’s “alters” are dangerous fake beings. “claire” apparently “cut herself” because of me (she was also stated to be a trans girl - this isn’t possible because max is a trans boy, therefore claire cannot experience the specific downs that trans women experience i.e. transmisogyny), “dirk” and “jake” would torment and belittle me, “wally” made me feel like i had to stay even though he didn’t really love me, the list goes on and on. he uses the “alters” to manipulate and guilt trip people when he doesn’t want to get blamed for it. he has this system just to hurt people, and he caused enough damage to me to traumatize me from the graphic depictions of rape, abuse, pedophilia, and incest that were “happening in his system”.

the proof is in the putty, folks. max only has this “system” to use and abuse others.

max, when you find this and read this - and this is a personal message from me to you. yes, from your old boyfriend, jelli. i want your friends to all read this callout with a blank mind. every single piece. until they reach the very end. and i want you to let them think. no, you don’t talk. you shut your greasy little trap for a few minutes and you let them think for themselves for once instead of you bringing out “peach” again to talk about how you’re in your corner having a panic attack. and you let them digest and really consider how you’ve damaged me, an old friend, and how they’ve been damaged themselves. then you really, really deeply consider if your system is real. then, you look at yourself critically. you tell yourself, “what can i do in the future to not hurt others?” then you tell everybody how you’ve lied and lied and lied to them for your own sick personal gain. and you step away from all your friends. yes, from hal, john, dave, michael, every single one of them. you give them space. you let them think for a very very long time. you let them think if they want to date you or be your friend anymore. and if they say no, you leave them and never ever return. and if they say yes, think about if that’s because of your manipulative ultimatums.

then in the future when you’re like me, all alone, with nothing better to do than to fester and boil over how poorly somebody treated you, you’ll finally know how jelli feels.

you’ll finally know what you’ve caused.

a callout for max/jasper/fuyuhikolovemail

i didn’t say yes, i didn’t say i’ll think about it. i guess this was a long time in waiting. i CAN confirm that i’m the original owner of this blog (s**********f@gmail.com) and this was the last url i used, and the last name i went by was jelli. the other thing i can confirm is that i used to date max (@/fuyuhikolovemail) until october 2017 when we abruptly broke up. it was for the better. however, in my humbling opinion, max is a danger to the people around him, and based on how he both was sexually and mentally abusive to me, i think it’s my job as a citizen to tell other people about what he’s done.

warning ahead for mentions of c(oc)sa, abuse, rape, incest, lots of that nasty stuff.

let’s start at the very beginning of the end. this is all going under a readmore because i don’t want to clog up somebody’s poor dashboard.

Keep reading

[chandlerdean]

a callout for max/jasper/fuyuhikolovemail

i didn’t say yes, i didn’t say i’ll think about it. i guess this was a long time in waiting. i CAN confirm that i’m the original owner of this blog (s**********f@gmail.com) and this was the last url i used, and the last name i went by was jelli. the other thing i can confirm is that i used to date max (@/fuyuhikolovemail) until october 2017 when we abruptly broke up. it was for the better. however, in my humbling opinion, max is a danger to the people around him, and based on how he both was sexually and mentally abusive to me, i think it’s my job as a citizen to tell other people about what he’s done.

warning ahead for mentions of c(oc)sa, abuse, rape, incest, lots of that nasty stuff.

let’s start at the very beginning of the end. this is all going under a readmore because i don’t want to clog up somebody’s poor dashboard.

the end begins with a vague conversation in this huge groupchat about me. before this i had done some bad things but i asked for help to better myself (which nobody tried). i wish i could post everything and give every detail from this chat, but this post would be a mile long if i tried that, and i’m trying to keep this short and digestible. anyways, max was always regarded as a saint, and due to my speaking out about feeling hurt, i was kicked from the server, blocked by everybody on all platforms, and never spoken of again. you might think, well, WERE you bad, jelli? i’ll always say i did something wrong, but i will never say that i did them out of malice.

here’s an example of one of max’s vagues that he would consistently post on vent whenever he was upset. instead of confronting me or anybody he had problems with, he would vague about it and act all upset when nobody did anything.

now let’s try to put a bit more context in this.

way back in the beginning of our relationship, max and i were with a guy called leon (do you remember his callout?), and to keep this part extremely short, i was one of the people in the screenshots, i was one of the people who was in contact with leon daily. i was exposed to everything that’s mentioned in his callout, and by extension, everything from max’s quote “system” as well. max’s system is extremely questionable in nature, because from everything i know, his system was “faked” for a long time until he discovered his “real system”. he even lied about the identity of somebody in his system, pretending she was a real person and not a part of his “system”. at the age of 14, i was exposed to every conversation about incest, rape, pedophilia, and every single gorey disgusting detail of all of that.

and did max ever apologize for putting me through that? no. i was traumatized at his and leon’s hands.

and in fact this WAS an abusive relationship. i was constantly convinced that when it was “bad” i could somehow make it “better” when in reality i couldn’t (red is me, purple is a close friend of mine).

here’s one of max’s “alters”, dirk, demonizing me to one of my friends. there’s a lot of other oddball information in here not needed. what i was having was not a “guilt trippy meltdown”, i was extremely anxious because another “alter” accused me of lying and promptly told me to fuck off (seafoam is another friend).

okay, here’s the other part: max often talked to me about sexual situations and i would not consent. i didn’t say yes or sure, i just went along with it.

that can’t possibly be right. he would bring up something sexual and i would feel obliged to participate. he would ask me sexually powered questions, he would ask me when i was touching myself, all kinds of extremely personal things like that. there were only about one or two times i said no - he would stop, but the fact there were so many other times where he would just continue even if i expressed feeling uncomfortable, it’s just wrong.

i think the next point to add was that people younger than i, around 13 and 14, were also involved in these incidents, and often did max’s bidding for him.

and i guess the final point is that overall, max is an easily angered, intolerable, cruel and rude person. he’s difficult to work with in relationships. he doesn’t treat people right.

anyways, on that ending note, here’s assorted screenshots to drive my point home. a lot of these are more recent than others. not censoring out any names in these, just so you know they were directed at me and they did involve me.

max and his alter “dirk” calling people r*tards.

“dirk” telling me to snort piss (this one’s fucking hilarious but honestly, why? this is so weird).

i really don’t want to have to go into detail about this one, but in this one max is blaming me for his issues, saying i “insulted his special interest” and other various pokes at my psyche, and ends it off with a sweet “i hope you’re sleeping well” - that was his way of roping me in and keeping me tied up. i thought, well, if he could end it on a sweet note, maybe he wasn’t so bad. he was.

max getting one of his friends, pictured, to do his bidding, in this case berate me for “becoming a monster” apparently.

i’m sorry for not including more stuff but i honestly didn’t have the guts nor did i have the energy to go digging for more awful crap. you’ll just have to try and accept the first hand accounts that i have.

i’m just begging you to stay away from max so you don’t have to stick in a toxic relationship like i had to. he manipulates and twists your words into things that aren’t really true, and when you finally say “this doesn’t feel right”, he gets rid of you. i hope that if you’re with him right now you get to get away. thanks and goodnight