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AU where everything is the same but after every chapter there’s a Very Special Episode ™ PSA with Buccellati 

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First look at the Gura plush prototype + revision notes! Her hat is removable 💙

Pre-orders for her and Korone are in the sh0p!! L*nk in pinned

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a kiss commission for chairfruit over on twitter!

Zebei from indivisible and their self insert TWT/ i really like how this one came out

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Smiling peeps

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smiles for miles

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Presenting…

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✨fo-sama’s 20 sided dice self-ship ask game!✨

(´⊙ω⊙`)👉👈

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How to play: send an ask that says “roll it once!” (twice, three times etc.) To your willing participant, they then can roll a 20 sided die and answer based on the number(s) it lands on!

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If you don’t have a 20 sided die you can use this virtual roller!: https://g.co/kgs/2C4y3Q

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Here are the Questions!

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1 ~ are there any colours that remind you of your f/o every time you see them? 

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2 ~ do you remember the first time you met your f/o? what was it like?

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3 ~ are there any special holidays or anniversaries you and your f/o celebrate together?

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4 ~ what’s your favourite outfit your f/o has ever worn? 

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5 ~ what’s your ideal date with your f/o? 

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6 ~ is there a song or piece of music that reminds you of your f/o?

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7 ~ what’s one thing your f/o does that never fails to make you all flustered?

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8 ~ what’s your favourite way to relax and unwind with your f/o? 

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9 ~ what’s your f/o’s favourite snack or meal? 

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10 ~ would you and your f/o ever dress up in a couples costume for Halloween or other events? what would you dress up as?

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11 ~ what is your f/o’s handwriting like? 

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12 ~ what’s the biggest thing you and your f/o have in common?

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13 ~ what’s your f/o’s love language?

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14 ~ what’s one of the sweetest things your f/o has ever done for you?

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15 ~ what’s your favourite memory you’ve made with your f/o so far?

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16 ~ what are your favourite cute petnames to call your f/o? 

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17 ~ would you ever start a family with your f/o?

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18 ~ is there a height difference between you and your f/o? 

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19 ~ what’s your f/o’s favourite form of intimacy? 

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20 ~ free space! not a question I just want to hear you gush about your f/o!（╹◡╹） 

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​also sorry about the formatting of this post Tumblr mobile was being a glitchy nightmare T^T

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undertale LINE sticker redraws part 1 (these are sooo fun)

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send me a 🙄 + an f/o and i will tell you how my ship with them is problematic and bad 

(this is for satire not actual discourse)

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ok hows ur ship w/ menou problematique as they say

that is literally impossible because how can Menou be problematic

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damn man that show about the friends that smile is really great I like the short purple guy a lot he is cute (CRIES)

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He goes through this every time he gets drunk, then forgets all about it the next morning ¯\_ (ツ)_/¯

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but anyway, as someone who is a therapist/mental health professional (specifically a school psychologist with a counseling caseload of 12 students served directly and 5 more indirectly), you cannot ever “trauma dump” to a therapist or any other mental health professional in a session. trauma dumping refers to the unloading of problems/trauma onto people who are not mentally ready to hear it and/or not in a position to provide you with support or help. if you are taking part in a session with a therapist, counselor, psychologist, or psychiatrist, it is impossible to trauma dump because these people are trained professionals who are supposed to hear your problems and/or trauma, help you process them, and work on solutions. yes this includes the first session. we undergo training that allows us to do this work while also maintaining our own mental health. 

i, personally, know that when i pull a client for a session i need to be ready to hear anything and everything, and i make sure i am in a proper headspace for it first. i have strategies i use after sessions and after work to continue to protect my own mental health. i know in what circumstances i need to call in additional support or practitioners, usually in cases of threat or client safety. because i work with children in a school setting, i make sure confidentiality boundaries are discussed and understood in the first session, and am upfront when confidentiality may need to be broken.

i haven’t watched the entire tiktok video in question, but i assume that that practitioners reaction comes from the fact that we often don’t get clients telling us everything in the first session. generally speaking, building trust and a relationship (the jargon is “rapport”) usually needs to come first. but it does happen! often these are either clients used to a therapeutic relationship and understand that openness gets things done quickly, they’re someone so desperate to be finally heard and understood they unload quickly, or they’re in crisis and need help immediately. i’ve personally had the first and third experiences happen to me and, while it can be surprising, my focus in that moment is on the client and their needs, never my own state. in that moment, my only concern is the client sitting in front of me. once the session is over and i know the client is safe, then i take the time to process my own reactions. 

if a mental health professional isn’t prepared to discuss a clients trauma, problems, or needs in session, no matter how many sessions there have been, then they’re not prepared enough for the field.

IMPORTANT SIDE NOTE: please note that i use the qualifier “in session”! mental health professionals are people too, and aren’t going to be up to hearing about other’s problems at any time. respect their space and time. if you see a therapist/counselor regularly, you should work out a plan if you need to reach them in an emergency/crisis, or they should provide you with alternatives if they cannot be reached. if you’re friends with someone who does this job or encounter one in a social space, then typical social rules regarding “trauma dumping” do apply in that you should get permission before unloading. personally, my friends are very respectful about this (<3), but i’m wary about telling strangers what i do sometimes. people hear the word “psychologist” and seem to think they can tell me e v e r y t h i n g.

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hes so stupid. and i love him for it

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HMMMMMMM YES... The boyfriend has bigger booba

Loosely based on this image

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self shippers which self ship of yours has cpr x misery vibes