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[cerulean-dragonfly]

Yk what I find really hot? When guys are like jerking off with their legs spread out and they're like moaning and whimpering when they get close... And then when they are like just about to come, their abs/stomach does that thing...those involuntary flexes...like...🥵😵‍💫😩 Why is that so damn hot??? 🤤😮‍💨

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Alright, hear me out, noise-canceling headphones for him.

That way, he has no idea how loud his moans are, completely lost in the moment and unguarded. Meanwhile, I get to hear every single sound he makes, clear and raw, without missing a thing. Every moan, every gasp, every breathless sound is all mine to enjoy. He’s completely unaware, caught up in the pleasure, totally lost in me, and I get to savor every second of it.

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submissive tops are underrated. teasing a boy while you ride him? scolding him when he gets too impatient and thrusts into you? watching him get all blushy and do what you say?

that’s good shit.

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i actually like when boys come fast. it’s the cutest thing and not shameful at all. like i will just make you come again. don’t hold back on me. we can do it again; and again and again and again, until you can’t remember what day of the week it is and don’t know whether you want me to stop or keep going

[cerulean-dragonfly]

am i obsessed with something so simple as holding hands? yes. yes i am

[cerulean-dragonfly]

I hate when fingering is seen as like. the lesser form of penetration, meant to just be a warm up for penetrative sex

with enough teasing and skill fingering can be the main attraction and i need it to get the respect it deserves

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Some people need a reminder of this.

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Need

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I’ve got my pet so well trained that. After I make him cum for me he gets very needy and sad if i don’t lean into him and whisper in his ear that he’s a good boy ☺️☺️☺️

[cerulean-dragonfly]

Put his legs over your shoulder, shove him against a wall, fuck him on the dinner table. We need to stop pretending they aren't cute whores who want their hole played with.

They will drool with you find the right spot, they're meant to be pegged.

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Pussy so good you know she’s got a tumblr

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What do you suggest as good methods to try to help your dom through a drop? Similar methods as you would a sub or something slightly different?

Hi anon, thank you for the ask. It's a fantastic question which I took entirely too long to answer.

For those new to the concept, a 'drop' is an intense emotional (and sometimes physical) reaction that can happen during BDSM, usually involving sadness, regret, shame, and sometimes dissociation. Drops can happen to anyone in a scene, (dom, sub, switch, or even just someone watching). They're a completely normal part of BDSM, not a poor reflection on anyone. The easiest way to tell if you're having a drop is when the scene isn't psychologically enjoyable, and you feel hollow, empty, sad, guilty, or like something isn't right.

In my own personal experience, most dom drops come alongside a sense of guilt, regret, or shame. Usually accompanied by a feeling that the sub is being mistreated or is somehow being taken advantage of despite the prior consent involved in the dynamic. It's a really difficult feeling to have.

The best possible thing in that situation is to go onto aftercare and provide lots of extra reassurance. Cuddles are also strongly recommended. Largely similar to what I would recommend generally to anyone regardless of role.

If your scenes are particularly rough or you engage in anything CNC-adjacent would suggest specifically reassuring your dom that the interaction was safe, consensual, and fun. Remind them that you wanted to have the scene too, that they aren't a bad person for domming you in a rough way. Tell them you like each other beyond your kink relationship, and that those roles are only a way you enjoy each other, not a one-sided or abusive relationship.

While this might sound self-evident, remember that it can be very helpful to state the obvious to someone when they're stuck in their own head.

Most importantly, a scene should never ever ever continue after a drop. It's unsafe and not worth the risk. It is never worth it. You can always have another scene in the future.

I hope that sufficiently answers your question, anon. More feedback always welcome in the comments.

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I don’t even need to restrain you, puppy. You’re so eager, so willing to obey, that you’ll do anything I tell you without a second thought. It’s almost like it’s second nature to you, being my good boy, my perfect little slut. You don’t just follow my commands, you thrive on them, don’t you pup? It’s written all over you. You crave my control, my approval, and the satisfaction of knowing you’re exactly where you belong, beneath me, giving yourself over completely.

You don’t resist because there’s no need, you’re already mine, and you love every second of it~