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I've got a problem...
💌 I've had a crush on this guy for a while and he used to be an absolute sweetheart. He moved overseas for a looooong time and recently moved back. We met again for the first time last weekend and idk what to think anymore. Here are a few things he did/ said:
🌷 he called me underweight because apparently I am too skinny (I am not according to my doctor I am a healthy weight)
🌷 he said that I would never make friends if I stayed the "little goth girl" (he has no idea what he is talking about because my style is acubi and goth is not just an fashion style + I fail to see the issue with being goth)
🌷 he said that there is nothing worse than kpop and that asians are weird (he said it was a joke afterwards but no it's just sugarcoated racism)
🌷 he called a random guy out for riding a "girl bike" and when I asked him what he meant by "girl bike" he said that his bike was too feminine. When I said that nothing rly has a gender attributed to it he went all "feminine guys are weird this and that" (btw the "girl bike" was just a bike with a basked smh 💀)
🌷 he doesn't want the same type of love as mine because he kept repeating that he couldn't wait to become an adult to have fun with girls in clubs
🌷he seems to only value girls by their beauty (himself being very unattractive)
🌷 and he said someone so utterly disgusting and concerning that it hurts me to realize these words came out of the mouth of my once role model: "it sucks to grow up because then you can't make love to children anymore" sir- WHAT??!
🌀plus he couldn't shut up about mf car engines like ain't that a red flag?? 💀
He wasn't rly mean or anything but his cocky personality, the smug look on his face, and his morals are so damn annoying like what happened to my childhood love?? 😭
It really sucks because when I first fell in love it was because of his rare and intriguing personality. (everyone who knows him would understand pretty quickly that I wasn't after his looks 💀) I just can't believe that the guy that made me so uncomfortable last sunday is the very same guy who made my eleven year old heart go boom shakalaka for the first time ever with his sweet words and kind personality.
🤨💭should I cut him off for good or should I give it some time? (I feel like cutting him off but you know how it's like...)
Or should I just wait for a respectful and kind guy who will not just be straight up aggressive like that? 😭🫶🏼
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In the state 🌷🫧🌀
💌 Ever wondered why you can never manifest, no matter how many affirmations you say or how many subliminals you listen to?
🌷 I will start by giving an example that actually happened to me, and then I will tell you what to do. (the example will be negative by the way)
🫧 ex. : I had a boyfriend and everything was going very well between us. I had uninstalled all social media due to low storage and since I have an Iphone and him a Samsung, we had no way to communicate outside of school (Yea I hated to go out at the time). Fall break came by so we would be completely out of touch for an entire week. During that week, I started to have thoughts such as:
🌀 we are so young, there is no way we will actually last
🌀 he will have to lose interest somehow
🌀 there's no way we can make it to December
and the list goes on. 🫧 The last day of fall break, we went trick or treating together with a few friends, and everything went very well. The next day was the first day of school so I went to hug him, but suddenly he didn't want me to. Normally we were stuck to each other like pandas 24/7, but when I tried to hug him he said not now and walked away. I asked him why he was behaving like that and he told me that he didn't want to talk to me. It would be the same for the following week until he told me that he would break up with me if I didn't do it first. So I did.
⭐️ The thing you have to remember from my story is that circumstances do not matter as long as you are in the right state of mind.
⭐️ Me and my ex were doing perfectly fine, and despite him telling me how much he loved me all the time, I kept on telling myself that our relationship was a lie and that we wouldn't last long. It only took a few thoughts for him to suddenly hate me, and I still don't know the reason after nearly two years.
⭐️ So, to stay positive, if you have a crush on someone and want their love and attention, flip the coin. Just lie to yourself until the thought you want dominates your mind. There is no use of affirming if you are not in the state.
🎧 (ps: for the pookies who are having trouble with seeing their imagination as their 3d, perhaps try seeing your 3d as your imagination <33)
Signed, Cerisestore.
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Imagination = reality
If you’re not able to view your imagination as reality or truth, then why don’t you try viewing your “reality”(3D) as imagination.
What if reality was as malleable as your imagination(It is 😱😱). Since your reality is “imaginary” no situation can ever be that serious, you can play with any situation and always change it to your liking. You have full control over everything outside of you the same way you have full control over a visualisation in your mind. For example if you want to see shoes in your imagination, you’ll be able to see them in less than a second. And since “reality” is no different than imagination, you can see those shoes here too in an instant if you want to.
And if you read that and now you’re like “no?? Obviously not, it doesn’t work (instantly) like that” you are the problem. If you think that it won’t work then it will simply not work. Because you’re god and your thoughts and opinions create. In this case you’re creating negative stuff for yourself.
When you want to imagine a rock nothing in your mind is going to be like “OOOHGHHGG NOOO WAY THEY CAN ABSOLUTELY NOT HAVE THAT! NEVER! WE WONT LET THEM VISUALISE THE ROCK!! ONLY IN A MONTH” Noo, you can always imagine anything you want and nothing is able to block your imagination. The same way nothing is able to block your manifestation in 3D reality either. You guys say: it takes time until i get it, it takes subliminals and methods. But the only thing it takes is a simple intention. Once you want/desire something it is yours completely and absolutely instantly. The fact that you don’t believe that it’s yours is the “blockage”, it’s you blocking yourself for no reason! YOU are more powerful than time. YOU are more powerful than any subliminal and YOU don’t need to do complicated methods to manifest. You always have everything you want with just an intention.
Live your life knowing that it’s YOUR life, everything here is for you and waiting to be discovered by you. You get everything you want instantly because you are the operant power. Of course you get it instantly?
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