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I got a girlfriend, that’s better than this And you don’t remember at all As we get older and stop making sense You won’t find her waiting long Stop making sense, stop making sense Stop making sense, making sense

Stop Making Sense, 1984 (dir. Jonathan Demme)

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Sure, relationships typically start with a honeymoon phase that then grows into something deeper but a bit more mellow if things work out, but it’s depressing as fuck that this has turned into a really, really common script for straight relationships that says it’s totally normal and inevitable for dudes to just become more and more emotionally checked out of the relationship, and leave it to their girlfriend/wife to perform if she wants to get even a crumb of affection from him. I’m so fucking tired of seeing women constantly being taught that decades of emotional neglect is just our lot in life.

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some of y’all like “i was raised lukewarm Protestant but now i have a Witch Sideblog on Tumblr so i’m not culturally Christian”

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Chopper American 19thC

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As someone who rarely knows what’s going on, it’s interesting to watch Tumblr’s whole goofy algorithms-are-flagging-everything-let’s-purge-sexy-content-but-let’s-also-let-the-Nazis-keep-Naziing thing happen from a slight remove. And by interesting I mean confusing and depressing!

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More Twitter sketches! It was National Unicorn Day the other day…

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Necklace

India, possibly Jaipur c. 18th century

Gold inlaid with white sapphire; back enameled red, white, and green, pearls and green stone pendant and center; gold thread chain and slide closure                  

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an apocalyptic cult prophetically warning that the world won’t end, ever

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source

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Yelena Bryksenkova

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if your neighborhood looks like this you need to paypal me $100

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Maribou! <3

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Somebody gimme eight hundred bucks

If anyone has $600-$800 (the estimated selling price) and is looking for some costumes from the season 1 episode “When the Bough Breaks” (that’s the one where some people steal some children from the Enterprise) - here they are!! There are also a shit-ton of items from TOS, including MANY cafans and jumpsuits and some original William Ware Theiss drawings!! Here are a few of my faves.

Also the last time I watched this episode I did not realize THAT IS JERRY HARDIN AKA Deep Throat from The X-Files AKA Melora Hardin’s dad!!!!

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do you ever spend hours upon something only to realize it was 132 dpi 🙃

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Jean-Baptiste Oudry (1686 - 1755), Greyhound in a Landscape, 1746, oil on canvas, Sotheby’s

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Rob Rey