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Do you have any comfy sneaker recommendations? I’m liking the look of Puma Palermo’s or Gola sneakers but not sure

Honestly I don’t wear runners other than when I go to the gym.

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What was the brand of your yellow Halloween outfit a few years ago?

I got the top and shorts from etsy! They’re just some vintage brand. Not sure the name :(

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What is the African safari you went on?? It looked amazing … !

My dad organized with a family friend who works for Abercrombie & Kent. Was incredible

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How come you're not working? What kinda volunteer work is it? x

My job ending and I’m doing some travelling in September so will look again in October. The charity is called Smartworks. I volunteer as a dresser - it’s incredible.

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You look like your having the best time in London! What does a typical day look like for you?

London is truly wonderful. Right now I’m not working so it’s mostly gym and then hanging with friends running errands and doing my volunteer work.

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I’m going to London soon which are the best neighbourhoods/areas for pubs, bars, restaurants etc?

What kind of scene do you like? More posh or more chill / fashion / hipster ? Then I can help ❤️ and how old are you?

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You give such good genuine advice 💓 I love your timeless and old school yet progressive and open-minded approach to things. Thank you for answering so many questions all the time and not steering away from things that are “taboo” or stigmatized.

This means the world! Hopefully I can help whoever does ask in some small way 💕

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how can I feel confident in expressing my sexuality again after being celibate for a year? I’ve been single by choice for the last little while (not dating/looking and haven’t had casual sex/one night stands either) I know that you don’t have to actively be having sex to express your sexuality but you get what I mean. I just feel like it’s been so long and I’m like “rusty” if that makes sense lol. I’m normally confident in myself and my sexuality so I know I can get back to that place but I’ve just been feeling so awkward with myself

I honestly feel so in the same boat and relate to this way more than you might think. I do truly truly believe though when you eventually do meet someone who makes you feel comfortable, safe, excited and he makes you feel sexy, it will be like riding a bike. The wrong person will make you feel rusty - trust me. Just go slow! Now that you’ve taken a step back, you’ll be more in-tune with your body and you’ll probably have a more stronger gut feeling about what is feeling good and natural and what’s feeling a bit icky or forced. I’ve had hookups that have made me question myself, like shit I’m not good at even making out lol. and then I’ve made out with someone and felt like I was in a movie cause it was so natural and so much sexual chemistry and that’s when you know it works. So take off alllll of the pressure and date intentionally and go slowly (or not). You don’t need to be some freak or amazing girl at sex. If you’re feeling confident and your with someone who is sure of themselves and the sexual chemistry and mutual respect for each other is there you won’t even have to think you’ll just be flowing and in the moment. I promise! Something to look forward to ❤️❤️

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I’ve been following you since like 2014 and have always loved your name - it suits you so well especially with the way it’s spelled! What made your parents pick it?

That is so kind! I think my mom said she loved the name but didn’t like it with two n’s. she just thought it looked prettier. All my siblings have longer classic names, I think they just liked that.

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Hi! I moved to a new city about a month ago, and started seeing this guy right at the start. We're still seeing each other and have been going on dates/seeing each other most days of the week and are pursuing a creative project together. The thing is though, we're not exclusive per se or haven't spoken about it. I'm a bit terrified to ask him because in the past when I've tried to have this conversation guys haven't responded very positively. We both seem to like each other a lot but I'm not sure how to go about talking to him about where we stand. I'm just a bit worried about getting hurt and want to make sure we're clear on things. How would you go about it?

It’s only been a month! Don’t ever say anything like this to men - it needs to be THEIR idea. Always. I would focus less on him and fill the time you’re not with him with activities and self care you like. It’s good at this point to make him feel like you’re interested and find him great and that he makes you feel happy and amazing but he’s not the only man in the world. Don’t distance completely or anything but try to stop thinking about wether or not you’re going to be exclusive. Let him lead but also you can be say stuff like “I’m busy tonight getting dinner with a friend” and make him sweat a bit. He should not want to lose you. He’ll show you that your his girlfriend and if he truly wants that he will make it known. Just lean back and enjoy yourself ❤️

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You look so stunning omgggg!!! 😧 🫶🩷 what makeup products did you use in the most recent picture? Xx 💋 you’re real life proof women get more beautiful and beautiful by the day. Damn, haha.

Wow thank you so much this made my day!! I got my makeup done so I’m not sure what they used TBH but I just asked to be bronzy and shimmery eye makeup ❤️

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Omg that photo you posted is breathtaking 😭 where is the jewelry you’re wearing from? 💓

Thank you so much. It’s all my boss! Anissa Kermiche

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Have you been to Berlin? I’m in the middle of booking a 3 week solo trip to Europe (or partially solo, I have some mutual friends in Copenhagen) and I’m wondering if I should stop there for a few nights

I haven’t been to Berlin so I can’t say. Where else are you going?

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What are you looking for the next man you date? Ideal person

Generous, outgoing, intelligent, family orientated, and someone who thinks I’m their dream girl and acts accordingly.